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It is often said that the combination of three views is the same. We are all willing to interact with people who have the same three views, but everyone has different experiences and different environments. In fact, it is difficult to be completely consistent in concept. There is no two people who are in perfect harmony in the world, and all good relationships need to be managed carefully.
my friend’s mother, in her seventies, often goes to the supermarket early in the morning to queue for a few free eggs. But my mother has arthritis, and her legs and feet hurt when she is tired, and she often has to see a doctor after waiting in line. Every time I bring my mother back from the illness, my friend will lose his temper. How much is the value of a few eggs? Why can you toss like this?
My mother always reposts some "health" articles in the circle of friends, and he counts it every time he sees it. Until one day his mother came to him enthusiastically and asked him, "I bought a black hair pigment online for 500 yuan, can you help me see if my gray hair is a lot less?"
He is I wanted to criticize, but I looked up and saw my mother's gray hair. Yes, the secret recipe for black hair bought for 500 yuan is useless at all. On the contrary, my mother has more white hair on her head. But at that moment he suddenly realized that his mother was old. But as children, we always understand it too late.
We can always find the fault of our parents very easily, and tell them what is OK and what is not. But when we are reasoning and arguing about right and wrong, we may not have thought about it.What parents need is our care and company. Instead of arguing, it is better to empathize. Seeing the limitations of parents, being considerate of their fragility, being tolerant in situations, is also a kind of filial piety for children.
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The more mature a person is, the less he will impose his own principles on others. When you are shining, you will not extinguish other people's lights.
Many times, we all hope to meet good friends, but what’s more rare than being in love at the beginning is the accommodation and tolerance we have made to maintain this relationship.
People always say that a good relationship requires the same footsteps, but there is no person in the world who can have the same thoughts and behaviors. Seeking common ground is a kind of pursuit. It is only by reserving differences that test one's wisdom.
Precious friendship is never superior to inferior. It is more important than demanding to be consistent in all aspects, to care about each other and to operate together. Many times, on the road of life, you help me for a while, I accompany you for a while, and in the end not lose each other, it is the most precious thing in the world.
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There is a netizen,Once quarreled with his girlfriend because of a trivial matter, both of them felt that they were justified, and neither of them would give in. He easily caught his girlfriend's logic loopholes, so he set out the arguments to refute one by one. Unexpectedly, just after he finished speaking, his girlfriend became even more angry. Only then did he realize that in the face of trivial things, in fact, what both sides need more is love and tenderness, rather than arguing about winning or losing.
When they are young, some people are used to being aggressive and want to crush others through words and gain a sense of spiritual superiority. Only after experiencing the ups and downs of the world will I know that respect can make a relationship last longer than fighting for winning or losing. The so-called moving story of raising the eyebrows of the case is nothing but a warm scene created by two people tolerant of each other in the midst of a passing year.
once read this passage, “Don’t fight for winning or losing in intimacy at every turn, but understand introspection and gratitude. Understand that intimacy is more important than winning or losing, and tolerance is more important than transformation.” Because in this world, Love at first sight is more precious, it is to be with you for a lifetime.
Some people say that all relationships in the world are ultimately our relationship with ourselves. A relationship becomes mature, and it is inseparable from the individual's wisdom and cultivation. Knowing how to seek common ground while reserving differences, respect and considerate, can make the relationship warmer and longer in the years.
Source: Insight (ID: DJ00123987)
Author: Insight · Annabesu
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