58-year-old aunt: I have a pension of 2500, and his pension is 4000. After remarrying, it is even difficult to eat meat.

text/Xiao Xinyiyi

Introduction has given too many examples of old people who have retired themselves: I found a wife who also has a pension. However, I did not expect that the quality of life of the aunt after remarrying would be greatly reduced. Why?

Fang Mei's story

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I am Fang Mei. Five years ago, my ex-husband and I divorced because my mother-in-law was so picky and often beat and scolded me. At the time of the divorce, the only daughter was already married, so I had nothing to worry about.

I have a monthly pension of more than 2,000, so I can live a good life by myself and save some flowers. But I often wake up in the middle of the night alone and feel scared, and occasionally feel flustered. When people are older, it is easy to think more, so I feel like finding a wife to live with.

Because I have a pension, I want to find a man who also has a pension. I didn't dare to go to the dating agency, nor did I dare to ask friends around me to help me, so I had to go to the blind date corner of the park to find it myself.

Every morning I take the opportunity of morning exercises to go to the People’s Park blind date and look at the parents who find objects for their older unmarried children. I feel distressed, young people. It's not easy. For the sake of work and career, I have delayed my lifelong events.

I noticed that an older brother also came every day like me, and asked him if he was looking for someone for the child?

He smiled shyly and whispered that his wife had passed away for two years and he was looking for someone for himself.

I told him quietly that I was also looking for someone for myself,We both smiled at each other and made an appointment for a morning exercise.

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Let's talk while walking. It's not interesting to each other. Let's make friends. During the conversation, I know that his surname is Zhang, he has an unmarried son, and his monthly pension is more than 3,000. Maybe it's a better chat. Let's add WeChat to each other and make a morning exercise together.

Lao Zhang is from the north. He came to the south because of his work. He loves making dumplings and steaming buns. He makes dumplings and steamed buns. He makes them once a week, making a lot of them at a time, and bringing them to me.

I have been friends with Lao Zhang for two years, and we often go to the blind date corner to see if we will meet our favorite spouse, but we have not achieved our wish. Later, Zhang said that we should just live together. I thought about it and thought it was good. Although he was ten years older than me, he was in good health and treated me well.

I agreed with Lao Zhang that he will pay for the living expenses and I will pay for the travel expenses.

After a few months, we all felt good, so we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to prove it. I mainly considered that I was old and didn't want my parents to worry about me.

But I didn't expect that after the proof, our quality of life was reduced. Lao Zhang is reluctant to buy meat. He eats radishes and cabbage every day. He only eats meat two or three times a week. Not only is he reluctant to buy meat, but he also reluctant to buy fruit. Sometimes my daughter-in-law bought something delicious to see us, he He even hid the delicious ones and ate them secretly.

This is not only the way he eats, but he also lives in the same way. It’s very hot in the south in summer, but he doesn’t let me turn on the air conditioner and can only blow on the fan. I bought all the home appliances and furniture in

, and I also bought the daily necessities. He only deducted and searched the food expenses. What's even more exaggerated is that sometimes in order to save phone bills, he even steals my mobile phone to make calls.

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After remarrying, the quality of life is greatly reduced. I really can’t live on eating carrots and cabbage every day.I asked Lao Zhang for a divorce last year.

But when I heard that I was going to divorce, my 80-year-old mother fell sorrowfully and fell ill. I think I’m really unfilial. I’m in my fifties and I have to let my parents worry about me. So I can only endure the grievance and tell Lao Zhang that I’m not going to divorce. Go on.

But life is always so unsatisfactory. When I was thinking about living with him, he became even more picky in order to marry his stepson, even rice and oil. My daughter-in-law buys it for us, because he knows what needs to be spent in life. As long as he doesn't pay, I can't help it. I will definitely buy things he doesn't buy, or my daughter-in-law will also buy it.

I don’t have enough of my 2500 pension every month. I thought I would find someone to live with and live with my old age when I remarried, but I didn’t expect to find someone to rely on himself. He also voluntarily admitted that before marriage He pretended to be considerate to me!

I was so angry that I had high blood pressure and stayed in the hospital for a few days. He didn't come to take care of me or even visit me. So I asked him for a divorce again, this time I am determined to divorce no matter what my parents are!

Conclusion : Although the remarried people are husbands and wives, the remarried elderly people have become very carefree. I've seen two old people fight for fifty yuan before, but I didn't expect Aunt Fang and Lao Zhang to be even more exaggerated.

Aunt Fang thought that her remarriage was to find someone to live with and share the cost of living together, but she did not expect that Lao Zhang became stingy after two years of pretending to be a good person and even had to call Stole Aunt Fang to fight.

People are selfish. Many older friends have more selfishness. They want to save money for their children, and they want to have a happy life in old age and be taken care of, and they also become obsessive and annoying.

Actually, Auntie Fang was already very cautious. After dating for two years, she decided to remarry, but she still met with unfair treatment. Remarrying in old age is really not just a prudent thing. The most important thing to meet a reliable person is luck.

It is said that the marriage of young people is a gamble, and the remarriage of the elderly is also a gamble!

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