The girl ridiculed: Before the marriage, the parents-in-law refused to buy a house, but after the marriage they bought a house for themselves.

Why did the parents-in-law be rich but didn't buy the pre-marriage house for their children?

Netizen Minnie

I am the only child in my family. When I was looking for a job, my parents helped to pay a down payment of 500,000. I bought a house around the company with a total price of about 1.65 million and a housing loan of 10 myself. Also, 90 parents help. One year later, I got to know a boy and talked about preparing for a blind date for two years. His parents have two houses each worth about 600,000 yuan in use. The real estate certificates are all his parents’ names, and one set was completed in 1995. Yes, the old house B where his parents already live; one set is rough C, and there is no borrowing, but it is far away from our working area and the campus is also average. We negotiated and expected his parents to sell one of the houses. After changing to a house closer to our two units, I stated at that time that the real estate certificate of the new house did not need to add my own name.

At that time, I saw a high cost performance, but the price was similar to 1.6 million. His parents indicated that they wanted to help pay the down payment, but the monthly loan of 6,800 yuan was higher in the middle and late stages. My husband had a salary of 5,000 a month at that time. If we buy it, the pressure in the middle and late repayments will be too great. My parents and I have heard their names and thought about it. My parents felt that only the two of us would have a good life. That’s it. There is no need to put such great pressure on the economic development of the future uncle and mother-in-law, so we made it clear that after we got married, we should live in the house A that we already bought. In short, we bought all of them, and the husband’s family also has a house. As a child, husband C can be regarded as anyone in the house, so that the couple's daily life will be easier afterwards. Later, in the future, my parents-in-law allowed this suggestion and would not buy a house. However, I made it clear to everyone that I would live in A after marriage, and then use house A as a male’s new house on the day of marriage, and the female’s new house can be placed in my parents’ present. In the small rural mansion where I lived in the stage.

It’s okay if everyone is thinking about it,I understand that their houses B and C are relatively small, and our own single-family villa in the countryside has just recently been renovated. My parents are far away from room A, and in the future the parents-in-law will be closer to room A, and they will not insert the door upside down. They clearly expect them to do the decoration of room A. After the interior decoration is completed, my parents will buy home appliances, so my husband Afterwards, I lived more comfortably, and my in-laws agreed. After the interior decoration of the house, we got married. One month after we got pregnant, we got pregnant. Many more months have passed. My husband told me that my in-laws are going to buy a house and sell house C. I asked my husband how suddenly, after all, The parents-in-law had never said that they wanted to buy a house before. Why did they suddenly want to buy a house when they got married? But because I only expressed my opinion in front of my husband, the most unexpected thing for me was that my in-laws sold house C for 600,000, and then took out 600,000 private money for a total of 1.2 million to buy a house. D's old house B is still there. I was very surprised at that time. A year ago, I suggested that my husband buy a house for 1.6 million. They told my husband to pay a down payment of 500,000. Now they actually paid 1.2 million in one go? When my parents helped me buy a house, they didn't have the working capacity to withdraw 1.2 million at a time. But to better ease my work pressure, I only paid out a fraction of the monthly loan, and my parents paid everything else. But my in-laws are obviously wealthy but are unwilling to pay for the pre-marriage house for their children. They buy the house after the children get married.

I asked my husband, what do you think about this matter? He told me that the parents' money is their own, and they can buy it for their own child, but everything is normal if they don't want to buy it. But I don't know how to understand, so I hope everyone can leave a message on the message board and tell me their real thoughts, thank you.

1. Why do my in-laws love you so much that you can buy a house before marriage instead of buying for my husband, but you bought a house for yourself many months after marriage?

2. Why would my in-laws prefer to pay for interior decoration rather than buy their children a house that belongs to their children?

3. Why does my in-laws own a house and do not want to buy their children a pre-marriage room that belongs only to his children?

4. Why does my husband want to live in a house bought by his parents-in-law for almost the full amount, and he understands that his parents are already rich instead of buying a house for them and feels that everything is normal? .