Guide:
You can never wake up a person who pretends to sleep, you can never touch a heart that does not love you! What is true and sincere, and what is the use of deep affection. For a woman, she wants to love when she has no love, and when a man who truly loves her gives everything to her, what kind of thought is she? For a woman who doesn't love you, how would you move her? You gave everything for her, and in the end, can you heat her cold heart and melt her frozen heart? To love is not to love. Even if you pay the price of your life for her, you may not be able to touch her.
Mr. Zhou, 36 years old
My ex-wife and I are junior high school classmates, and she is also my first love. The two had a relationship for two years in junior high school. Later, she transferred a love affair and we broke up peacefully. . I was reluctant to break up, but for her happiness, I chose to let go. After graduating from junior high school, each of us did not go to school again. She went out to work, and I started a small business at home. Many years later, we all reached the age of marriage, but I still can't let go of her, and I have never been happy for a new relationship. And her ex-wife is working outside, her life is indeed rich and colorful, I have paid attention to and understood all of these, but did not bother her.
I suddenly contacted and wanted to get married after pregnancy
I am a person of love and righteousness. When I broke up, I once told her that she could go out to play. When she had enough fun and wanted to settle down , If I were not married at that time, I would still marry her. Maybe this sentence has always given me hope, maybe I really can’t have a love for her woman. Four or five years after we broke up, her impression in my mind is still vivid, and I am Although she knew something about her perseverance through her classmates, she never contacted me.
One day in 2009, I suddenly received an unfamiliar call from another province and saw the IP address of the phone. I was a little bit worried because that place was where she worked. After the call was connected, no one was speaking on the other end,I was sure that there was someone on that side. After waiting for about two minutes, she finally asked me, do you know who she is? This voice is too familiar to me. Isn't this the first love I think about day and night? I was overjoyed and said how you thought of contacting me.
After chatting for a while, she did not expect that she would first ask me whether I love her or not. After getting my accurate answer, she asked me again: " I am pregnant with someone else’s child. He ran away. I want to give birth to this child for him. Would you still marry me? "I almost didn't hesitate, and I immediately promised and I would . In this way, I rushed to her place of work the next day, and I wanted to take her back to get married.
When I took her back, the family who had been urging me to marry at home should be happy, but when they knew that she was pregnant with someone else’s child, they deliberately wanted the child When we were born, the whole family objected, and they did not agree with us. They told me a lot of hidden dangers, and that such a woman cannot be married, but I just like her, I want to pay for her wholeheartedly, and I am willing to do anything for her.
Later, I was driven out of the house by my father, and my mother was mad into the hospital. They expressed their disappointment to me. And for this love, I sacrificed all my family affection, and still resolutely chose to be with her. I can't let her down. We went to register for the marriage, and then I went to borrow money to do a simple wedding. Although it was a bit shabby, there was no way that the situation forced me to do it.
I don’t want to have a room with me after marriage
I understand that she has no love for me,Choosing to marry me is only for the child in my stomach, and I firmly believe that as long as she is willing to marry me, I will be able to move her with my sincere heart. After marriage, I can also say that I took care of her in every possible way. I would not let her go out to work, as long as I could raise the baby at home with peace of mind, and I would be responsible for working hard outside. With her life, I am more motivated to work, and life feels like I have a clear direction. However, the only flaw is that she still treats me coldly and never let me touch her.
At the beginning, she said that she was pregnant and it was not suitable to have sex with me. Later, she used various excuses for not wanting to have a married life with me. I wonder if I am not doing well enough. I did not quarrel with her. As long as she is unhappy, I will never do it. As long as she dislikes behavior, I will never have a second place in front of her. Second-rate. After the child was born, I was a girl. I was very happy, but the ex-wife looked disgusted because the child was born with some defects and treatment would cost a lot of money. However, I did not intend to abandon her. Anyway, she is a life. Since we have come to us, we have the responsibility and obligation to take care of her.
For her, I gave up going out to party and socializing, and returned home after get off work every day, taking care of my ex-wife and daughter-in-law. Everything I did was just to impress her heart and make her truly accept my love. However, I was still disappointed in the end because she said she couldn't interest me in any way, so she didn't want me to force her. In order for her to sleep well at night, I will take care of the child completely. At night, the child wakes up from hungry and cries. She will only be very impatient and dislike the child's drowsiness. I got up to nurse the baby, change the diaper for the baby, and try my best to move her. However, she still couldn't accept me and slept in the same bed, but we were like brothers, just sleeping together.
I dedicate everything to her
For her, I can dedicate everything I have to her, as long as she is happy and happy. In order to treat the child's illness, I work hard to earn money. I take the child to major hospitals for treatment, just to keep the child healthy and for the ex-wife to be happy. finally,My efforts have returned some of her recognition. In 2011, after the advice of friends and classmates, she finally agreed to have a husband and wife relationship with me. In the coming year, she will also have a daughter of our own.
Despite this, I did not dislike my eldest daughter, but devoted myself to raising her and nurturing her. In order to cure her illness, I never gave up seeking a famous doctor for her. Love Wu Jiwu, I love my ex-wife, no matter who the child is, no matter how the ex-wife treats her, but I will never leave her alone. This is my principle of life.
After my efforts, the child's condition has also improved and been under control, and I hope that it will be completely cured, but it will take a long time and a lot of money. I told my ex-wife of the news with joy, but she seemed very plain, without any mood swings, and I couldn't see whether it was up or down. She has always been like this, which made me a little depressed.
In order to show my sincerity, I have never let her go out to work. When buying a house, only write her name, and buy a car under her name. My classmates and friends all persuaded me not to do this, but I think I’m in this life. They are all destined to go on with her, so why bother to divide and guard against each other? Later, after the child went to school, she was bored at home alone, and planned to do some business on her own. I opened two stores for her to manage in the prosperous part of the city. I never thought I would divorce her, even if she doesn't love me, as long as she can follow me, even if I can't feel the joy of love for a lifetime, I am willing. Our post-marital property, including the pre-marital property, I registered under the name of my ex-wife.
I really bought a chicken feather
In the past ten years of marriage, I gave everything, nothing more than to win her sincerity, but I found that I was wrong, and very wrong Outrageous.
In order to treat the child, I took her to seek medical treatment, not to mention the time and energy spent, but also spent at least 500,000 yuan for the treatment.In the end, the illness was cured, but the child didn't get close to me. The ex-wife taught her that I was her stepdad and was not related to her. When buying a house, she only wrote her name, and she took the whole family from the countryside to live together, and we were responsible for all the expenses of the family. The decoration and purchase in the store were all my money, and she never gave me a penny after she made the money. I don’t know where she spent the money she made. Instead, it made my credit card consume more than 200,000 yuan of debt. For this reason, I just made money silently to repay the bill, and did not ask her about the specific reasons. Moreover, she never saves me face in front of outsiders. In front of classmates and friends, I am just a super dad. I want to take care of my children wholeheartedly, and she is only responsible for being chic on the mahjong table. If the child quarreled her, then she would not pity the child for thinking about her and want her to hug her, but would put the blame on me, saying that I did not take good care of the child. In order to discuss business, I went out to have a social gathering at night. No matter how I explained, after she was bored or upset at home, she would quarrel with me anyway.
Faced with her unreasonable pranks and her indifferent treatment, I did not refute her. Everything I chose to obey her. I wanted to live the family well and maintain the hard-won this hard-won relationship " ". I cherish it very much, treat her as a treasure, and let my life live as a donkey instead of a donkey, and a dog is not a dog. After my family saw it, they couldn't bear to cry for me and asked me why? Is it worth it? I firmly believe in my choice, and I think that to give for love, everything is my own will.
Just after the first month of 2018, my ex-wife wanted to go out for a trip. I couldn’t get away due to business affairs and couldn’t accompany her on the trip, and she said that she didn’t plan to ask me to accompany her at all, she just wanted to go out alone. That's it. I just paid the salary and money to the material supplier a year ago. I didn't have any extra money to let her go out. I only gave her 10,000 yuan, and then the credit card was also in her hand, so she could spend it freely.
after she came back from travel,After all the money in her hand was spent, the credit card overdrafted more than 80,000 yuan, and she took the initiative to ask me to go out to watch a movie. I was very happy, thinking that it was my sincere dedication that finally made her awaken, and my good day was approaching. However, when she woke up the next day, she had to divorce me for life and death without any reason. Seeing her resolutely, I didn't say anything, and gave her everything I could give her. I took my daughter and went out of the house, leaving the home I worked so hard to maintain. My sincere efforts for nearly ten years have not been exchanged for her little love and gratitude for me. She left me only two words: " hurt! ”
I don’t know my fault Where, I don’t know why she left me, and I’m really paying for myself. One day she will fall in love with me, but I will never wake up and pretend to sleep, and I will never be touched by her lack of love. In my heart, I think about my ten years of hard work, but what I got back is a piece of chicken feathers. I'm really stupid.
The bow length said:
Talking about love with someone who doesn't understand love at all is an insult to love. Mr. Zhou in the article thinks that he has given everything for love, but the other person is not moved at all. He chose to marry him only because she accidentally conceived someone else’s child, and others abandoned her for a living. She chose to commit herself to the flesh and blood of her lover. However, Mr. Zhou is not allowed to be close after marriage. What is she insisting on? For her, Mr. Zhou chose to break with his family. For children with congenital diseases, Mr. Zhou did not dislike him. For this " love ," he did not care about personal gains and losses, and took all of his belongings. Give it to the other party, and repay the debt that the other party owes for consumption without any complaints. What will you get in the end? But it is the word divorce, so sad.
Mr. Zhou's dedication,Is this called being born for love? Mr. Zhou said regret, saying that he was too stupid, but did he really realize that he was stupid? There is nothing wrong with the divorce, and I have to bear all the debts, leave all the property to the ex-wife, and choose to make a comeback by myself. Is this love great? Is it worthy of sympathy?
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