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Been in love for two years, cheated six times, and forgiven six times. She thought that the other party would be grateful to Dade and restrained. I didn't expect the other party's attitude to be arrogant, but intensified...
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Love is like an investment. The time, energy and money we invest are like our costs, and the time, energy, and money that the other party spends on us determines the Are we losing money, recovering money, or gaining profit .
has more than 700 days in two years, the girl must have invested a lot of time and energy to maintain this relationship, even at the sunk cost of . Boys should have given the same feedback, so that the girl's investment could pay off. But he spends too much of his time, energy and even money elsewhere. In
, under the matching of the same resources from both sides, the girls are fully committed, and the boys are invested a little, and finally a situation of unequal resources and unequal exchanges is formed.
Boys don't need to be complacent. They feel that they are awesome and can make people go round and round. The reason why a girl can forgive 6 times is not because she loves so much, but because she invests too much. She can't accept losing money, and she is not willing to accept losing money. At this time, she was like a gambler, reckless, just wanting to make a comeback.
Although the IQ of the girls in love is O, but they are only in love. There is a limit to the person who can bear it again. When she can't bear it anymore and turns her face, the boy's dashing and happy days will come to an end.
Don't underestimate the ruthlessness of a girl. The more ruthless a girl is in the early stage, the more ruthless she will be in the one-time solution. It's like a spring, the lower the pressure, the higher the spring.
Whether it's dating or making friends, don't bully people too hard, don't make things too ugly, and leave a way out for yourself. After all, feng shui takes turns, and no one can guarantee that her today will not be your tomorrow.
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If you want to have a good relationship and run a good family, you must establish your own bottom line of principles, and from the beginning, you must clearly and firmly tell the other party the consequences of offending. The bottom line of
is like a ruler engraved with scales. Where it cannot measure is the restricted area that each of us cannot touch. From the moment
establishes the bottom line to demarcate the boundary, it means that you allow the other party to do whatever they want above the line.
Compared with the things that can be done, people are often only curious about the things that are not allowed, cannot, and are not allowed.
Therefore, those who are curious and eager to move will test your attitude again and again and test your bottom line.
If you endure, give in, and lower your own bottom line standards, then the scope of the other party's activities above your bottom line will become larger, he will taste the sweetness, and he will know that he can do whatever he wants.
Being unsatisfied, getting ahead, and pushing the nose on the face has always been a cheap but inevitable part of human nature.
This is why there is a first cheating and a second cheating.
It's human nature to seek excitement, once you try it, it's hard to control, just like taking drugs. This is why there are only 0 and countless times of derailment.
No matter how good the feelings are, they are no match for the passing of time, and no matter how beautiful the hearts of people are, they are no match for the evil of human nature. Don't overestimate feelings, and don't underestimate human nature.
We can't control the direction of things, but we can prevent things from starting. When he tries and tramples on your bottom line for the first time, you should do your part and deal with him with a tough attitude and means. Either break up decisively, or take measures that make him fearful so that he does not dare to do it again.
I know an aunt whose husband often chats and hooks up.She was ruthless and talkative, she didn't cry, didn't make trouble, she put ZY medicine directly in her husband's meal, locked him at home, and stayed by herself for four days. After coming out, not only did he not dare to flirt, but when he saw a woman, he ran away instead.
Those who can talk about love well and manage their marriage well may not have less words, but their means must be extraordinary. They never cry, never sell miserably, never compromise. When someone violates their boundaries, they fight back. When the other party sees their methods, they will be afraid and jealous. Even if the other party is unscrupulous, it doesn't matter, because they will run away without hesitation when the time is right. If
has a problem, solve it, and if you can't figure it out, replace it. If you just blindly close your eyes, cover your ears, don’t listen or see, just cry, cry, betray yourself, move yourself, and comfort yourself, then in every relationship you talk about now and in the future, everyone you meet will be This is destined to be the end.
knows that it is its nature for wolves to eat sheep, but allows sheep to run around around wolves. Instead, they hope that wolves can open up and let the sheep go. This is not naivety, it is ignorance and stupidity.
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