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Text: Shili
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Everyone will experience different stages of emotional in their life, and they have met different people, and each of them brings us different emotional experiences. The same, maybe people always learn to grow up slowly after experiencing different things .
For example, once experienced a relationship, two people knew each other and fell in love at the beginning, then the conflict broke out later, and then separated later, this may be a very normal process. However, after leaving one emotion and immediately investing in another emotion, some experiences accumulated in the previous emotion, or some mistakes made may be corrected in the next emotion. This is how people gradually mature into and . Many people will say, I have found a person who really understands me, loves me and loves me, but I found such a person, has he had a few emotional experiences? In the previous emotional experiences, has he also made some mistakes and learned some lessons to be as mature as he is today?
Especially as a past person, after experiencing some emotions, I gradually became more mature, learned to take care of the other half, and learned how to go to to manage to maintain a relationship. But once, especially when faced with some relatively young emotional experiences, you will make many mistakes. In the process of managing such emotions, do you have some supervision and correction from the other half? It is precisely Because of this experience, I can control this emotion very easily today.
The protagonist of today's story is called Xiaoqiang. Xiaoqiang and his current girlfriend get along very well. The girlfriend also feels that she has found a gentle, kind and handsome warm man, because in the process of getting along with the two, Xiaoqiang does whatever he does. are considered very comprehensive.
Girls like romance very much, and they like boys to remember and various festivals. It has been more than two years since the two met each other. The feeling that Xiaoqiang brings to his girlfriend is that every day is like being in Like Valentine's Day. Whether it is the anniversary of the two of them, the half-anniversary, or even the 100-day anniversary of their acquaintance, Xiaoqiang always gives his girlfriend some surprises, and like these days, Xiaoqiang gives some surprises in different ways. Girlfriend feels very happy.
Usually, if Xiaoqiang is dissatisfied with his girlfriend, he will never say it directly, but learn to use to euphemistically express , and sometimes it is even very funny. For example, sometimes Xiaoqiang feels that his girlfriend wears a little and exposes , but he never shows jealousy in front of his girlfriend, but adopts a more euphemistic way. For example, once Xiaoqiang said to his girlfriend, "It's so cold outside, you should wear more clothes than now." Because that day, Xiaoqiang's girlfriend's clothes were a little revealing, and Xiaoqiang didn't want her girlfriend to wear it like this. So I can only say this to my girlfriend euphemistically, I didn't think of my girlfriend, I accepted this statement and suggestion very well, and changed into another dress.
In fact, in the process of getting along with his girlfriend, Xiaoqiang always handles it with ease. Sometimes, Xiaoqiang's girlfriend knows exactly what Xiaoqiang means, but the words come out of his mouth. very happy to accept it.
In fact, the reason why Xiaoqiang can do what does today is , and has the ability to deal with emotions and things so maturely today, the most important thing is that Xiaoqiang's former girlfriend taught him.
Before this, Xiaoqiang was relatively straight, and in the process of getting along with his former girlfriend in , no matter what he did, he was always too straightforward. For example, his girlfriend came over to play coquettish with him, saying that today is the 100th anniversary of their acquaintance, but a girlfriend like Xiaoqiang said, we only have the anniversary, what kind of holiday is 100 days? At this time, Xiaoqiang's 's ex-girlfriend is very angry.
Another example, Xiaoqiang's ex-girlfriend sometimes likes to dress sexy and revealing, but when Xiaoqiang sees it, he directly says, who are you wearing so sexy for? If you express it so bluntly, it will also make his ex-girlfriend look Feel very angry. Although it was said that his ex-girlfriend was more angry, after Xiaoqiang said these words, his ex-girlfriend kept correcting Xiaoqiang. Take the matter of wearing clothes, it was also his ex-girlfriend who taught him how to deal with girls.
Later, the two chose to separate because their relationship broke up. In fact, when they separated, Xiaoqiang was still reluctant to part, but there was no way, the two had no emotional foundation. After starting the next relationship, Xiaoqiang learned from some mistakes in the process of getting along with his ex-girlfriend. He never thought that when he was getting along with his current girlfriend, he would get miraculous results. The relationship between the two was getting better and better, and Through my own behavior and correct handling methods, my current girlfriend can basically accept some of my suggestions.
Xiaoqiang is very lucky. He met a girlfriend who can properly correct his shortcomings and let him learn more things in a relationship. It's a pity that he didn't get to the end with his ex-girlfriend. When managing the next relationship, Xiaoqiang became obedient. He applied all kinds of things he had learned to the maintenance process of this emotional management, so that he could let this emotion of his own. , became so relaxed and comfortable.
Sometimes people should learn to point out their shortcomings, especially in the process of emotional maintenance, they should thank those who learn to love themselves. Although sometimes, due to some reasons, you may not continue to walk with him, but you should keep in mind what your ex did, because that is a person who really taught you to love.
Each of us will meet all kinds of people in our life, some people make us happy, some people make us sad, whether it is happy or sad, we should all be in the process of getting along, right to learn something. Especially some former lovers, they gave us more love, gave us more care, especially let us learn how to love an emotional experience, can make a person grow a little more, experience a few more paragraphs Emotions can make a person more mature.
Thank you for those who taught you to love! Because in their hearts, they will only say these words to you if they want to make you better. People are always feeling the beauty of love, but they often ignore the person who taught them to love.
Falling in love is the process of letting a person grow and move forward in emotions. Although not every relationship will have a good result, we should also remember those and give us more help in some emotional failures. people.
once you, there will be various contradictions, but since you choose to leave, you must forget some bad things, try your best to remember and of the other party.
Of course, what I say here is to remember the good of the other party, not to make your revive , which is a very bad thing. Who says you can't be friends after a breakup? As long as you can remember each other's goodness, you can also become a very good and good friend. Only when two people remember each other's goodness well can they make their next life more fresh.
Instead of thinking about the bad things when you think of the other person and making yourself feel particularly angry, it is far better to remember someone's good than to remember someone's bad. Even if you finally choose to separate, you can pretend to be a stranger when you meet on the road, but you should still remember his kindness to you in your heart.
When a person learns to love well, it is the beginning of that person's maturity. On the road of maturity, it will make oneself and others more comfortable. Maybe this is the trajectory of life growth! Maybe everyone has experienced these things. Only after they have experienced them can they know how to cherish them, how valuable they are, and how to be grateful.
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