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I received a message from my ex last night. He said he missed me and wanted to see me. When would I be free to meet?
I only replied with three words "It is not necessary", and no matter how sensational he sent me, I ignored it.
changed to me half a year ago. If I saw the news he sent, I would definitely not be able to be so calm. At that time, I hadn't come out completely, and I was still immersed in the pain after breaking up. Now a year has passed, My side has long been tall and long, and I have no nostalgia for him.
When they separated, the two of them were not very happy. It was he who decided to leave. I tried hard to keep it, but it was in vain. There will be no going back.
He was very decisive when we broke up, and I was weak when we broke up. Now the two of them have completely changed. Now he pretends to be affectionate, and I am heartless enough.
He said that he regretted leaving me, and that he remembered my goodness after the separation, and asked me to give him another chance, but I just felt very sad, why did he have to come and ask me for a chance after the breakup? In the days we were together, I gave him so many opportunities, but he didn't cherish it. He wanted to wake up after losing it, but it was already too late.
There are a lot of yin and yang in relationships. When I love you, you don't love me. When I give you a chance, you don't cherish it. After the breakup, you start to realize it later, and stage an affectionate drama, just You must know that no one will stand there waiting for you except in the movie, and your affection is just a self-directed and self-acted joke.
You must have heard the classic sentence in "Journey to the West": I once had a relationship in front of me, I didn't cherish it, and I regretted it after losing it. If God gave me one more time, I would love that girl Say three words "I love you", if you have to add a deadline to this love, I hope it is 10,000 years.
No matter how beautiful a promise is, once the current deadline has passed, it will be invalid. When you are in love, even a simple and simple love will make the other party move for a long time. After losing, the language you speak is more beautiful, and the gesture of admitting mistakes is more beautiful. It's hard to make up for what I owe her, and it's hard to get back such sincere feelings.
When girls still love you and are looking forward to this relationship, it is difficult to be heartless. They will give in again and again and give you opportunities again and again, but they are used to their concessions. Most of them are trying to make ends meet, and in the end they will not leave until they have enough disappointment.
The heroine in the movie "Forgive Him 77 Times" also once gave the boy 77 chances. Every time she was disappointed, she wrote it down in her notebook, remember it from the bottom of her heart, and wait until one day She only chose to break up when she found that she couldn't bear it any longer.
Many times the reasons for breaking up seem to be trivial things, as if they are not worth the reason for separation at all, but you have to know that when the branches are bent by the snow, every snowflake is innocent. Necessary little things, in the end, lead to irreversible results in the long run.
To a certain extent, the world of love is full of small things. After all, love is made up of all kinds of small things, but in other words, there is no small thing in front of love. Every time you neglect her, she will give you Every time you ask you to ignore it, you are wearing out your love and her patience with you in this inconspicuous little detail.
You forced her away from you with your own hands, shouldn't you thank her for leaving after breaking up, so that you can happily devote yourself to a new life, why should you go back to her?
In my opinion, all the affection after breaking up is superfluous. If you really love her and can't live without her, cherish it even more when you are together. Don't give her a chance to leave, instead of forcing her away with your own hands. Come back and struggle to save.
Don't underestimate a girl's patience. When she loves you, she will be very patient. Even if you have hurt her countless times, as long as she still loves you, she will never let go easily.
But don't overestimate a person's feelings for you, no matter how much she loves you, she doesn't want to continue if she is hurt a lot, her heart is tired, and she really has no strength to maintain a relationship.
All the people who will come back after breaking up are actually mostly people who are not ideal in reality. At the moment of separation, they really thought that they would find a better person after leaving you. After losing you, there is a vast world ahead , but the reality is that he never met someone better than you in the future, and the road of love is very difficult. Believe me, if he really meets someone who is better than you in every aspect, he still loves you very much. People, will not look back to you again.
Therefore, don't believe that a person who will eat back grass is really arrogant, unswerving in your love, recognize the reality clearly, and don't be easily deceived by his rhetoric.
And I would also advise those who go back to their ex after breaking up, give yourself some self-respect, you want to lose her, she has given you countless opportunities, you don't cherish it, no matter what happens after separation Don't go back and disturb her no matter what. If you really love her, you might as well let her go.
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