said that the twisted melon is not sweet, and there is no happiness at all. Some people would rather turn away than entangle themselves when they know that the other person doesn't love them. Knowing that there is no result, it is futile to keep entangled, it is better to hide the other party in the bottom of your heart.
And this non-entanglement behavior is still a kind of love. Because love is mutual affection and willingness, not by means of forcing a person who does not love himself to fall in love with himself. Many people know that the way to love someone comes from the truth in their hearts, rather than being moved by entanglement.
Besides, it has been entangled with a person, without even the most basic respect, and does not take into account the feelings of others. It is selfish to ask others to fulfill their wishes. For the so-called love, it is still a kind of hurtful behavior, because the other party loves you and will respond to you, but if you keep entanglement, it is obvious that the other party has rejected you, so you will not give up.
The person who has been pestering you, in fact, can't get it, so he will bother you in the name of love. The more you can't get , the more you want to get it, then you will keep entangled until you get it.
has sometimes rejected a person, but the other person treats it as if he doesn't know, and insists on entanglement all the time, as if he will miss you if he is not with you. You want to get rid of it, but you can't get rid of it like candy. It also makes others think that the other party is infatuated with you, but in fact, he can't feel the other party's sincerity at all, and only think that the other party is doing something deliberately to move others.
I think a colleague liked me at the time, but I didn't like him. Although I didn't reject him outright, he occasionally invited me out to play, or invited me to eat, and I would reject him.If you don't like others, there is no need to accept others' goodness, so as to avoid misunderstandings, and then you will not know how to explain it. It is better to keep a distance from him, then he will feel my indifference.
But in fact, he kept pestering me, making it hard for me to even breathe. If you don't like it, don't say it! My refusal was already obvious, but I really admire him for being able to take things seriously. And he likes my business, has been pestering me, and let many colleagues know. Some colleagues still laugh at me, why don't you stay with him?
But I don't like him, and I hate that he keeps pestering me. I definitely won't ignore my own feelings and try to fulfill him. Besides, he has been pestering me all the time, and he has not considered whether I like him or not, and it also bores me. You say, will I like him? Will you be moved? Absolutely not, just want to be far away from him, not even want to see him.
And, I'm sure, many people have been entangled in the face of this, and in addition to being very annoying, they also hope that he will never appear in front of their eyes.
However, I believe that some people will be moved by the people who have been pestering. When a person keeps appearing in front of you and greets you, you will slowly get used to the presence of the other person, and you will be moved. However, you are really moved, maybe the other party not only cherishes you, but also treats you as a dispensable. Because has been entangled with a person, it has a sense of freshness and unknown stimulation. Once you get it, there will be changes in your heart. Anyone who has experienced
knows that when the other party pursued him, he was really frequent and hard-working. When he caught up, he left you in the cold, making you feel that the people you knew before and the people you met later are completely different. The same is true, in order to get the desired result. Therefore, has been pestering you, don't think about whether the other party loves you or not, and don't be moved, just keep a distance from the other party.Because indifferent feelings can last for a long time, and entangled feelings will only make you hurt.
A person has been pestering you all the time, but only if you can't get it, will he touch you, and he doesn't really love you at all. People who truly love you will respect you and will not force you to accept the kindness of others.
At any time, first follow your inner thoughts before deciding the next step. Don't let others pester you all the time, just love you . When you are moved and choose to be with each other, you may regret your original decision. You know, moving is not love, love is natural, and moving is passive.
So if you don't love it, refuse it, keep your distance, and don't let the other party keep pestering you.
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