The life of husband and wife is quite common in marriage. In fact, when it comes to some things in this regard, there is nothing to be ashamed of.
After all, if such an important factor is missing, the marriage will become very strange, very abnormal, and even there are many contradictions and problems visible to the naked eye.
Why do women resist having sex with their husbands when they reach middle age? From the reasons mentioned by the next three women, you can see that more are caused by various specific factors!
Ms. Hong
I am 44 years old and my husband is 48 years old. Both of us are indeed middle-aged now, but since a few years ago, there has been no normal married life. The main reason for
is that I am very resistant to him on this side, and always use my age and body to talk about things: I say that I am old and I don't have much interest in these things.
In fact, there is another secret.
This man used to be very strong and domineering, and he had domestic violence against me more than once. At that time, my salary was low, and I didn't have a strong sense of existence in the marriage. I couldn't resist him, and I suffered a lot of grievances and injuries.
Time has passed and I have changed a lot. Now I'm way better than him in terms of career: I earn more than twice as much as he does, so he's no longer strong in front of me.
But I have a great resistance to this kind of marriage and this kind of man, and I don't want to live a normal married life with him anymore!
because I don't love him at all, and hate him in particular.
Once, he treated me like a thorn, and it was stuck in my heart and could not be pulled out.The reason why
is not divorced is for the sake of the children. He wants to have anything else on top of me, and that's just an extravagant hope.
Ms. Zhuang
I am 42 years old and my husband is 45 years old. Now whenever he shows an attempt to live a married life with me, I always try to dodge and evade in various ways. Either
is using the excuse of being tired from work; or it means that I am tired of doing housework;
is either saying that I am not feeling well, I am not in a good mood, or I just want to make trouble for my children, use the topic to play, get angry and then It's logical to tell my husband that I'm not in the mood...
In short, I rarely agree to his request. As for why? Let me tell you secretly: because I cheated a long time ago and had a man I love more outside of marriage.
My heart and my enthusiasm are all used for that man, so I will reject my husband's approach and the sense of wanting to be intimate.
Ms.Yao
I am 46 years old this year, and my husband is ten years older than me, already 56 years old.
I didn't think so when I was young, I thought he was quite mature and attractive. But with age, this feeling has had a very big change. Now I look like I'm only in my early 30s, but he has a big belly, white hair, looks very old and haggard, and walks out like a person of two ages.
Back at home, facing him, I also felt very dull, and I couldn't say much love, let alone any passion.
He is still full of energy and sometimes asks me to have sex, but I really have no interest in accompany him.
why? Because at this time, he already had an old-fashioned smell, and it was a very heavy one. I felt uncomfortable when I smelled it, and my heart was even more resistant. How could I still have the spirit to be gentle with him?
This is the truth, but I will not say it, after all, it is very hurtful to say it.
But he probably knew in his heart that I despised him. In a word, this also affected our marital relationship more or less.
Conclusion:
Why do women refuse to have sex with their husbands when they reach middle age? In fact, it is nothing more than that she no longer loves this man, and even those who can make her endure and accept each other's intimacy are gone. Because of the considerable change in thinking, it will show such a style.
This kind of change or there are many contradictions in the source marriage, or it is caused by the huge age gap between the two parties, and the physical and psychological supply and demand conditions have not matched...
In short, although each has its own reasons, But women's reactions and attitudes are actually similar.
This also reminds some middle-aged couples: if you want to maintain a normal marriage; if you want to maintain a normal married life, the couple should always pay more attention to and maintain their marriage, keep their relationship online; keep your marriage At a certain temperature, perhaps these problems will not appear and affect your happiness.
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