Parents’ love for their children is selfless, and they are willing to give their children what they have. However, in real life, some parents will habitually favor one of their children, such as the traditional idea of patriarchy, and Or they are overly partial to the children they like, and the consequences of an uneven bowl of water often lead to family conflicts and even adversely affect the children's body and mind.
Some time ago, the hit TV series "Everything is Good", the second child Su Mingcheng has been spoiled by his mother since he was a child. On the contrary, Su Mingyu is not treated well, and his weak father is unable to help her. Her childhood was too miserable. Even when she grew up, she couldn't escape the oppression and expropriation of her family. People's hearts were complicated. Sometimes even in the face of the closest people, if they were treated unfairly, she had to dare to resist. Maintaining one's own interests, blindly weak and obedient, often only make one's life miserable.
Xu Yang is the eldest son of the family and has enjoyed the pampering of his parents, but since the birth of his brother, everything has changed. Maybe it’s because he is still young, or because he is more cute. He is good-looking and obedient, so his parents put all their energy and time on him. Xu Yang often hears this sentence at home: brother is still young, you have to give more when you are an older brother He will help him more if he is capable in the future.
The eccentricity of his parents Xu Yang can naturally feel that the lack of love since childhood has also made Xu Yang's character introverted, but there is always a force of reluctance in his bones, and he works hard just to leave this home as soon as possible. , Was able to go out independently, fortunately after graduating from university, Xu Yang stayed in other cities to work.
Later, when Xu Yang met Yang Hong, he felt cared and loved again.Xu Yang cherished this relationship very much, but when deciding to get married, his parents acted as a shopkeeper and were unwilling to pay a penny. They also said that Xu Yang was already working and making money, so he was not obliged to provide financial services. The help on it.
Fortunately, Xu Yang worked hard, and saved some money over the years. With the help of Yang Hong’s parents, the two of them had enough of the down payment. Although Yang Hong was a little dissatisfied with the indifference of his in-laws , But it’s not easy to talk too much, anyway, if you have your own house, at least you don’t have to live with your in-laws, so you won’t be afraid of conflicts.
Until later, after Yang Hong became pregnant, her mother-in-law suddenly volunteered to help take care of it. This surprised Yang Hong. After all, after entering the door, the relationship between herself and her in-laws was not very harmonious, but The mother-in-law was kind enough to refuse, so she agreed.
After the mother-in-law arrived, she was indeed rushing to work, and she was even colder to her daughter-in-law, but after a week, the mother-in-law suddenly said: I heard that your house is going to be demolished, and it will be Isn't it possible to divide a suite?
Yang Hong had a bad premonition after hearing this. The parents did say that they would give her a house when the time comes. Although they were married, their parents still treat each other equally, and they will not favor each other and hear their mother-in-law. After the question, Yang Hong nodded, but her mother-in-law then said: , we are also a family, then you will give the house to my uncle. He just works now and can’t make a lot of money. , The house was just right for him.
The mother-in-law said cheerfully,Yang Hong's face became more and more ugly, and then he directly replied: It's impossible, why should I give him the house my parents gave me. The mother-in-law was stunned as soon as she heard it, and then started crying twice, but Yang Hong was determined not to let go. After Xu Yang came back, her mother-in-law started to complain again, and Xu Yang was just faint after listening. Say: Mom, I don't care how you favor your little brother all these years, but don't think about my wife's house, don't think about anything that doesn't belong to you. then issued the eviction order, and the mother-in-law had to go back after asking herself to be boring.
The eccentricity of parents is a kind of harm to children, and a bowl of uneven water often has an immeasurable impact on children. Those who are favored will have no fear, and those who are not favored will suffer. If you feel wronged and don’t know how to treat your children equally, how can you get the children’s respect and filial piety in the future? People need equality and sincerity to get along with each other, not to mention between relatives, otherwise it will only cause more family conflicts, and it will be difficult to live in harmony. #情擊# #愛情書所# #婚与家庭#
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