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Life is a flash of old age, a hurry life has not had time to enjoy the life of old age, and ended up alone, in the lonely old age, many single The elderly will choose another wife they like to spend the rest of their lives with.
In the married life of the elderly, many elderly people are reluctant to choose to remarry. After obtaining the certificate, the problems of property and children will inevitably affect the stability and happiness of life, and such marriages will not last long.
Coupled-style living will also cause a lot of entanglements due to housework. The two parties who hire a live-in nanny are just a simple employment relationship, or lonely lack of company.
Nowadays, nanny-style paid companionship is very popular. It allows both parties to have emotional exchanges, can also take care of each other, and can get their own corresponding remuneration. It is very popular with single elderly people.
70-year-old Uncle Tao and 58-year-old chose this way of companionship. Now they have gone through 5 years. They are satisfied with each other and have a very happy life.
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Narrator:
Tao Mingming; 70 years old
I am 70 years old this year, and I was a span 34 span cadre before retiring. , I have two children with my wife, and they both work on the railway system. My wife passed away 10 years ago. I live alone in my own home. The children said that I should live with them. Don't go and mix with them.
Later, I also thought about finding a wife to live with, but in reality it is not so easy to find. It is either to spend money or to specify the ownership of the property after remarrying. None of them really want to live with you.
Now it is more realistic for the elderly to remarry.Don't talk about having a partner taking care of each other in life when you are old, except for money and wealth, other things are not discussed, this is the biggest confusion in finding a wife.
Later, I also thought about hiring a live-in nanny, but I thought of it in the end. My legs and feet are very neat, and we are good at cooking. Although the pension is more than 10,000, hiring a nanny is a waste of money. There is no need for it. She is a woman who can have emotional communication with herself.
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Once a neighbor introduced me to a woman, Xiaoling, who was 12 years younger than me, and said that her family was in the countryside, and she grew up alone with her son and married his daughter-in-law. No, I want to be a babysitter. The neighbors see me alone, and they know the bottom line. They feel that we are fit together, so they want to bring us together, as long as they don't treat others badly.
After seeing this Xiaoling, my first feeling was simple and practical. After meeting, we opened the window and talked about each other's situation. I saved 5000 yuan for Xiaoling every month and living expenses 3000. If I can stay for a long time, I will leave a hundred years later. She will live in this house until she is old. My two sons also agree with me.
After Xiaoling arrived at home, she cleaned up the inside and outside of the house very neatly. She always thought about me first when she did everything. The rural people lived in a simple manner, so she was reluctant to buy a decent dress for herself, but I forced it. I just bought two of them, and I have a surplus in my monthly living expenses, and I never put them in my pocket.
My son's family came back and saw that we were having a good time and I was very relieved. My daughter-in-law said that it was me who enjoyed it, and every time the little grandson came, Xiaoling would give her grandson red envelopes with her money. In my heart Don't mention how comfortable it is, I can see all of these in my heart.
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The previous winter I went out for exercise and accidentally fell and broke a fracture. During the hospitalization, Xiaoling took care of me in every possible way. My son came to see me and asked him to go back early. At work, it is enough to say that she is alone.
Everyone in the ward thought Xiaoling was my original wife. Although I was lying on the hospital bed, it was warm and moved in my heart.
Under Xiao Ling's meticulous care, I quickly recovered. Seeing Xiao Ling who was waiting for me a lot, my heart is very sad, even my original wife may not be able to take care of myself so thoughtfully.
After I recovered, I booked a flight ticket to Hainan and went on a honeymoon trip with Xiaoling. It was a reward for her to feel the outside world.
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Last year, during the Chinese New Year, I discussed with my two sons. Xiaoling has been with me for 5 years and has been taking good care of me without any selfishness, waiting for me to take care of me a hundred years later. This house and my little savings are left to Xiaoling. After hearing this, my son and daughter-in-law all agreed, saying that as long as I live comfortably and happily, they will all listen to me.
Although it was so decided, I still didn't tell Xiaoling, I would surprise her again when it was right.
and Xiaoling’s five-year paid nanny-style company, I feel that as long as they treat each other sincerely, they can see it in their eyes. , The reason why we get along in such a harmonious and harmonious relationship stems from Xiaoling's careless devotion, and I can't just be grateful and not give back.
Xiaoling and I never conceal anything from each other, and there is nothing to hide, although we don’t get a certificate, this kind of nanny-like paid companionship makes me feel the joy of old age, and we can take care of each other and take care of myself. In his old age.
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When people are old, they shouldn’t take money too seriously, and they want to find a partner but don’t want to pay. They still count their own little ninety-nine, which woman is willing to be with you Are you with me?
You see that the partner will be here in a few days. Which one is not because of the money? It is either not honest in advance or regrets it afterwards. No woman will give it in vain.
If you want to be happy in your old age, you have to be willing, not to be careless, but to understand and support each other, and to make things clear in advance, isn't it a peace of mind?
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Conclusion
nanny-style paid companionship,It not only solves the emotional loneliness of the elderly, but also does not have any economic entanglements. It is indeed a good lifestyle for the elderly.
Although there will be rewards for paying, things must be clearly stated in advance. If it is suitable, we will be together, and if it is not suitable, we will go to different houses. Hiding and tucking will only leave trouble after being together, which will not last long.
Nanny-style paid companionship, not only get the rewards that they deserve, but everyone feels at ease and feels that when they can’t live together, they don’t owe each other.
Remarrying or partnering, women worry that they will not get any return for their efforts, men worry about their money loss, each calculates themselves, and finally the calculations are gone. The nanny-style paid companionship reduces each other's concerns, and it lasts for a long time. After that, there will be feelings, and only two people who are willing to take care of each other will be formed in life.
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