Dad, is the person who loves his daughter the most in the world, because his daughter is his little padded jacket, be careful, he hopes to protect his daughter for life.
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In the show "Daughter's Love", Zheng Shuang’s father chatted with Zheng Shuang and said that it is a good thing for his daughter to fall in love and get married, but he is afraid that Zheng Shuang’s feelings will be hurt. Zheng Shuang’s father said, I know that you are a person of love, and you may get hurt if you are too dedicated.
Zheng Shuang heard dad’s worry on the sidelines and nodded silently. When he heard dad say that she was too dedicated to feelings, she smiled and asked Dad again, is it possible to be not dedicated to feelings?
Dad looked very entangled, saying that he was afraid that Zheng Shuang would be hurt, and then advised her not to entangle in the relationship. The old father's worry was beyond words.
Probably every father is like this. Facing the growth of his daughter, he is happy for his daughter's feelings, and he is afraid of her daughter being hurt in the feelings.
Because the father is the one who loves his daughter the most in the world, he just wants to see his daughter happy.
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Also in the show, Guo Biting's communication with her father is already discussing the topic of marriage.
And Guo's father asked a question that netizens are very concerned about, why did he rush to get married after only 8 months in love with Xiang Zuo? Father Guo hopes that the two can spend a longer time together, and also hopes to get in touch with each other more.
Guo's father is an introvert. He doesn't talk much in the show, but he has been rationally facing his daughter's love affair in his heart for the happiness of his daughter, and calmly helps her daughter analyze the relationship.
And Guo Biting's answer to her father's question also expressed her own considerations. Because of age and physical problems, Guo Biting felt that she didn't have much time to fall in love anymore, and the problem of running-in could be done after marriage.
For dad, the happiness of his daughter is not just the short-term happiness in front of him. As a person who has passed by, dad always hopes that his daughter can think carefully about the happiness of his daughter. Dad’s love is always So deep.
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I remember that in the movie "The Leftover is King", Jin Shijie, who played Hsu Chi’s father, was moved by the monologue facing his daughter’s marriage problem. Countless people:
He said: Daughters should not marry for their parents, they should follow the people they like, and get married together with their heads held high, especially hard-hearted, longing, as if they have won.
One day suddenly appeared in front of my dad, pointed at him and said to me, dad, look at him, I found it, this is the person, I don’t want him to marry.
I don’t know when that day will arrive, but I will stand with her because I am her father
She is here with me, she can only be happy, nothing else.
In this monologue, countless people have cried. Every father has these words in his heart. Whether he says it or not, he will love and protect his daughter in his own way. Own daughter.
The daughter does not need to get married or fall in love, but the father will definitely accompany his daughter and wait for happiness with his daughter, because the father believes that the daughter will find her happiness.
Perhaps, in the eyes of other people, the father is the daughter's slave, but because of the daughter's slave, the father also enjoys it, because the daughter is the little lover of the father in the past life.
Wu Zun once printed the criteria for choosing a son-in-law on his own brand of clothes, and Deng Chao also stated on Weibo that he did not want his daughter to marry. The heart that loves her daughter is always revealed everywhere, because the fate of father and daughter in this life makes father endless gentle when facing his daughter.
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The love of parents has always been far-reaching.
A father and daughter life, hope that more daughters understand the father’s painstaking efforts, understand the father’s original intention, and get along with him warmly.