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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
In marriage, if a man has an extramarital affair, he will often reject women and do not want to be with women.
They will never go home on time again, but are immersed in the relationship outside of marriage and cannot extricate themselves.
Even if they come back, they will not be enthusiastic towards you, their words and deeds are cold and their sense of strangeness is very strong.
Even if a man pretends to be nice to you in order to reduce your suspicion, he will be very perfunctory and not at all careful.
For example, you will not take the initiative to take responsibility for your family's affairs, you cannot see your hard work, you will always dislike you for being bad, and even reject you for being intimate with you, etc.
In these details of getting along, men are completely different from before, but in fact they have changed their minds and no longer contribute to you.
No matter how you please him, it is difficult to make him change his mind, especially after a conflict occurs, he will immediately fight with you and will never care about you again.
He comes back and ignores you and refuses all forms of intimate contact. This is evidence that men do not love you. Men like
Most of them have an extramarital relationship. All their thoughts are on others. The love for you has long disappeared. Women should be aware of it in time and take measures to avoid worrying about gains and losses.
Generally speaking, after a man "cheating", he will not touch you in these three places. Women might as well deal with it like this:
1. If you don't have close contact with you, you should be alert
If a man has an extramarital relationship, the most common manifestation after he comes back is that he doesn't want to have close contact with you.
At this time, you must be vigilant and take timely measures to avoid being hurt in the future.
When a man loves you, he will habitually hug you when he comes back, like to talk to you, and do some intimate actions to deepen the relationship between husband and wife.
However, once he doesn't love you anymore and has other women outside, he will not be close to you, and the contrast between the front and back is very large.
His mind is all about others, he will be very indifferent to you and will not care about anything. Even if you take the initiative to communicate with her, he will still have a perfunctory expression.
When getting along, he basically won’t hold hands, hug, kiss or other behaviors with you, and he no longer cares about you.
So, when you find that a man suddenly has these abnormalities, you should be alert and not continue to give blindly.
A man who loves you cannot do anything intimate with you. When getting along with a couple, he will definitely perform "husband and wife rituals".
However, once a man loses this desire, he deliberately avoids you when he sees you, which means he has a problem, and it is most likely that someone is outside.
Women should not indulge themselves when facing such a man. They must communicate with him in time to see what is going on.
If he really doesn’t love him anymore and doesn’t want to continue, you have to plan for yourself and fight for your own interests as quickly as possible.
When a man who betrays you, don’t be soft-hearted or believe his words rashly. No matter whether he returns sincerely or not, you must observe his actions before deciding whether to forgive.
2. Regardless of your feelings, you will force yourself to grow
After a man betrays, he will basically not care about your feelings. She will not care about your life or your concerns.
Whether you are happy or wronged, he seems to have never seen you, completely ignoring and neglecting you.
A man like this is actually someone outside, and he no longer feels love for you, and it will be difficult for him to give his sincerity in the future.
Therefore, women find that men suddenly become indifferent and ruthless, so as to force themselves to grow so as not to be unable to live a normal life after the relationship falls apart in the future.
At this time, you must love yourself well, try to calm yourself down, and then work hard and make money.
When you have money in your hands and have the capital and confidence to leave, you don’t have to look at the man’s face to avoid falling into pain.
In fact, if a man doesn’t touch your thoughts and stops asking about everything about you anymore, it means that he has no place for you in his heart.
A man like this almost doesn’t care about the trivialities of his family and doesn’t want to continue to take responsibility. He may not give you a penny.
Your happiness has nothing to do with him. He will only be moved by women outside and be willing to give to others.
When you find that a man treats you like this, don’t have any more fantasies and force yourself to become independent.
If you have enough ability to live, you will not be dependent on marriage. If a man continues to hurt you, regardless of your feelings, or even causes harm to you, you can leave at any time.
A woman’s sense of security is not given by a man, but only she can give it to her. When a man betrays her, he will no longer love you, and you don’t have to rely on him. You can maintain the dignity of a woman by having money in your hands.
3. If you don’t care about your life, you must love yourself well
Once a man enters an extramarital affair, he will basically have no sense of responsibility and will ignore everything at home.
At this time, will no longer care about your life and will not make any contribution to your family.
Moreover, he will deliberately ignore you, even draw a line with you, and will never participate in your life again.
He will hardly care about any difficulties you have in life, and even if you make a request on your own initiative, he will refuse.
A man doesn’t even want to care about his family anymore, so he will naturally become even more heartless towards you. He only thinks about his lover outside and will not feel any pity for you.
Even if you are in a very wronged life, he will not feel sorry for you when he sees you crying. Instead, he will feel that you are annoyed and deliberately avoid you, or even find excuses to go out and never return all night.
So, when a woman gets along with a man, once she finds that he treats you like this, don’t be nostalgic.
He treats you as a stranger and lives with you. Even if you please me humbly, he will not let him love you more. Men like
basically only plan for themselves. They love the women outside and don’t care about you at all.
As long as the opportunity is found, he will be separated from you and will not care about your life or death. He wishes to leave you as soon as possible.
No matter who comes to persuade him, he will not make him soft-hearted. Once he is ready to marry his lover, he will not look back.
When a woman finds that a man is betrayed, it is best not to humbly recover. is better to love yourself and plan for your future as soon as possible.
Men don’t love each other anymore, there is no need to get entangled, spend time and energy on yourself, live a good life, and then work quietly to make yourself stronger.
In this way, you will not seem helpless when your marriage collapses, and you can better deal with the chaos in the future.
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
Summary, after a man "fraud" he will not touch you these three places:
If you don't have close contact with you, you must be alert; if you don't care about your feelings, you must force yourself to grow up; if you don't care about your life, you must love yourself well.
In short, if you find that a man doesn’t love you anymore and has feelings outside, you should take timely measures and don’t love you blindly.
In marriage, after betrayal, the relationship is no longer pure and is contaminated with flaws, and it is difficult for the relationship to continue.
Even if a man is willing to turn around, there will be a gap between the two people, and the woman who has been hurt can't let go of her heart.
Unless the man made a mistake unexpectedly, confessed in time afterwards, completely cut off the relationship outside, and asked the woman for forgiveness, perhaps the marriage could continue.
Otherwise, women use other means to force men to return, their feelings are not strong, and they are prone to betrayal again.
So, if a man really doesn’t love you anymore and refuses to return to his family sincerely, you don’t have to be sad. For men who are not worth it, it’s better to stop the loss in time.
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