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If you have a choice, who would you like to choose to take care of your children, is it your own parents, or the other party’s parents?
I believe that any woman will definitely be willing to choose her parents to take care of her children when she has a choice, and will not choose her mother-in-law who has no blood relationship with her to take care of her children.
When there was a choice, Meng Yao chose her parents to take care of her children. The parents took their grandson to pay and work hard. As for the mother-in-law who didn't pay or work hard, Meng Yao just refused her pension request in the face of her retirement request.
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Meng Yao and her husband got married, and her mother-in-law spoke. She wanted to take care of the eldest son. Meng Yao asked her mother for help when she was pregnant and gave birth. She was unable to do anything.
mother-in-law spoke early. No matter how reluctant Meng Yao was, she could only compromise. Later, Meng Yao became pregnant and gave birth to a child. Her mother-in-law did what she said. She really couldn't come if she didn't come to take care of her. She also said that she didn't have this obligation.
The parents felt sorry for their daughter. Before Meng Yao could speak, they offered to take care of their confinement and children. After that, the parents did not leave and kept taking care of their children and doing housework at their daughter's house. During this period, my mother-in-law still ignored her and never bought a piece of clothing or toy for her child.
Meng Yao feels sorry for her parents and gives her parents 3,000 yuan in hard work every month. Not only should her parents not pay her own pension. Whenever she sees her parents paying money to take care of her children, Meng Yao can't let go of her mother-in-law's ignorance.
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I thought that my mother-in-law would take care of her children at her brother and sister-in-law's house, so she would naturally follow her brother and sister-in-law to support her. But just five years have passed, and as the two nephews grew up, the mother-in-law lost her surplus value and was kicked out of the house by her sister-in-law.
The mother-in-law who has no home has to turn to her younger son for help and try to come to her younger son’s house to support her. But Meng Yao's parents are here too, and she can't drive her parents away for the sake of her mother-in-law.
Meng Yao rejected her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law didn't give up and cried to her youngest son in various ways. My husband was soft-hearted and advised Meng Yao to accept his mother-in-law, saying that there are all parents in the world. No matter how bad his mother is, he cannot not support him.
My husband wants to raise his mother-in-law, but Meng Yao has no objection, but she will not let her parents serve her mother-in-law. As soon as the mother-in-law came home, Meng Yao also took her parents and children back to her parents' home.
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The couple was in a stalemate after this. Meng Yao could not bear the husband's decree and then report, and could not bear the care of her mother-in-law's retirement, so she could only hide back to her parents' home.
But after a long time, it is not a solution, after the child is clamoring for his father again. Meng Yao gave her husband two choices: either divorce, he lived with his mother, or sent his mother away, and whoever she bought a house for her to take care of her children, she would ask for someone to support her. She had no obligation.
When my mother-in-law heard Meng Yao’s two choices, she regretted it. She personally called Meng Yao and said that I was wrong. She shouldn't be so partial at the beginning. I hope you can forgive me for my son and grandson.
Meng Yao did not forgive or object, but just asked her coldly: I raised you, who gave me the parents who have brought me 5 years of child care? I have no obligation to let anyone who is biased towards retirement. Meng Yao has not made any compromise recently, but asked her husband to send her mother-in-law to her brother and sister-in-law's house.
Today's topic:
How do you think about the mother-in-law not paying money or working hard in the early stage, but she wants to enjoy the success in the later stage?
