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It will be painful to change yourself, and you will suffer if you don't change.
Not resisting change and not using old ways to deal with new problems is a sign of a person's maturity.
Many times, just a detail change will bring you great positive feedback. When you start to change your old thinking and expand your horizons, you will usher in a broader sky.
02
Regard failure as a good opportunity to improve yourself
People who are not good enough are afraid of failure; excellent people are used to treating failure as food.
You may encounter various obstacles on the road to success, but don't get discouraged. Summarizing experience from failure is far more valuable than the failure itself.
Many times, a crisis is also a turning point. If you can persist a little longer, you may be able to usher in a bright future.
03
The fastest way to grow: do harder things
When you know that something is difficult, but you still choose to do it, you are actually growing.
The more difficult the challenge, the greater the growth. But if you just want to stay in your comfort zone, it will limit your development.
The first step to break out of the cocoon and become a butterfly is to step out of your comfort zone and try things that once seemed difficult to you.
04
Review in time and turn experiences into treasures
There are many effective methods in this world, but why are they useless to you? Because you don’t know where your problem lies, you just move forward and forget to look back.
Compare your own behavior and sort out the problems in a timely manner so that you can take every step in the future well.
05
Focus on doing one thing well
Pursuing too many things at the same time will often waste too much time and energy. Only by focusing on one area and cultivating it intensively can we achieve detailed and practical results. On the road of growth of
, we need to be far-sighted, but we also need to focus and be down-to-earth to achieve the best in what is in front of us. If you worry too much about the future and ignore the present, you will miss the best opportunity.
06
Quit procrastinating and act immediately
Procrastination is the thing that is most likely to crush a person's fighting spirit. And taking immediate action is a great medicine to solve the troubles in life.
In fact, the essence of procrastination is the fear of unknown things. Because you are worried about not doing well, you use procrastination to escape reality, which in turn makes you more psychologically stressed.
When you decide on something, don’t delay, take the first step immediately.
07
Deal with the problem first, then deal with the emotion
When we encounter difficulties, it is inevitable that we will bring emotions. Some people like to vent their emotions first and then deal with the problem.
But if you put the problem aside every time and get stuck in your emotions, your energy and fighting spirit will gradually be diluted, and new problems may even arise.
Emotions come from problems, and the key to solving emotions is to deal with problems. As long as the problem is solved, the bad mood will naturally be uprooted.
