Both boys and girls have received marriage certificates , but they broke up without holding a wedding, and also went through divorce procedures.
The cause of the incident is: the man's parents moved into their marital home and left the old house where they lived as the marital home for them to live in.
The wedding house was purchased by the man, a 148-square-meter building, and the woman was responsible for the decoration. When we first talked about decorating the house, the woman was not willing to be responsible for the decoration. Because the name of the house is registered in the boy's mother's name, and the renovation budget exceeds 600,000, once there is a relationship problem between them, the girl's renovation cost will be wasted.
Since the local population is more female than male, considering the actual situation here where there are more female than male, the woman’s family didn’t say much.
The girl's father spent more than half a year going to the construction site in person every day to supervise the decoration construction and inspect every decoration material , fearing that the materials were not environmentally friendly and would affect the health of the children. In order to decorate the house, the girl's father lost seven or eight pounds in the past few months.
The girl's father also goes to the building materials market to personally select ceramic tiles, wooden floors, latex paint, doors and windows and other building materials. Before each order, he will shop around to select materials with good quality and suitable prices.
Sometimes, a girl’s parents want to ask the boy for help with an idea. But my parents-in-law said: Didn’t we agree that you would be responsible for the decoration? What are you doing here to find us?
Hearing this, the girl's father felt very uncomfortable, but for the sake of his child's happiness, he held back and said nothing.
In order to protect the environment, the girl’s father was very cautious when choosing the latex paint for painting the walls and chose the environmentally friendly diatom mud latex paint. This alone cost fifty or sixty thousand. cabinets , bed, bookshelf, bathroom ceiling. The best local materials are also used. After the decoration of
was completed, the project settlement cost a total of more than 600,000 yuan, which was half of the savings of the old couple! However, when they thought that their daughter and son-in-law could live happily, they did not care about this. The decoration was completed, but the room was still empty, with nothing in it. He spent hundreds of thousands more to buy a TV, a refrigerator, a washing machine, a computer, a microwave, an air conditioner, a water heater, an range hood, , and a sweeping robot for his children. wait. It can be said that a daughter's life is: everything is ready, all she needs is the east wind. What is Dongfeng? This is their wedding.
My daughter and son-in-law also came to see the new house. They were very happy when they saw that the decoration was so beautiful, exquisite and elegant, and they were ready to get married. So they began to sort out the marriage formalities and prepare to hold the wedding a year later.
Just one month before their wedding, the boy's parents suddenly moved into the house they were going to use for their wedding, which made the girl feel particularly confused. The boy's parents said that living together would make it easier to take care of grandchildren when they have them in the future, so they decided to move in early and make preparations for their married life. Because there was no discussion with the girl beforehand, the girl was unwilling. She hoped to live alone with the boy and live a world of two. But the man’s parents refused to move out no matter what. They said confidently: Why can’t we move in the house we bought?
This made the girl's parents very unhappy. They felt that they had worked hard for more than half a year and spent more than 700,000 yuan just to make their daughter's life comfortable, not for her parents-in-law. It would be best for the young couple to live together and live their own lives.
Answer from the man’s parents:
If the son and daughter-in-law insist on living a world of two, let them live in the old house and live their world of two there! Anyway, we, the old couple, have already moved in, and we are determined not to move out.
has never seen such parents. The girl asked the boy to do his parents' work. The boy frustratedly said that if he did not agree with his parents living together, his mother would rather die than move away.
The girl felt unbearable and decided to file for divorce, hoping to prompt the boy's parents to change their minds.However, the boy's answer was: He would rather get divorced than force his parents to move away. In this way, both sides were deadlocked.
What the man was thinking at that time was: The woman invested more than 700,000 yuan, renovated the house, and equipped it with so many household appliances. She would not really want a divorce anyway, but she was just treating the divorce as forcing her parents to move out of the new house. Just conditions. So he won't give in.
But what the woman's parents thought at the time was: Through this incident, they recognized the character of this family and were no longer willing to marry their daughter to such a family. I would rather let the more than 700,000 yuan go to waste than leave my daughter to such a family. In this way, the girl's parents spent more than 700,000 yuan renovating the house for the boy's family. In fact, they can seek justice through court proceedings. The boy's parents may be very proud and feel that they have taken a big advantage. However, can the boy's parents feel at ease living in that new house? If another girl knew what had happened when she made friends with a boy, would anyone be willing to marry him again?
In the past, it was very common in the area for the man to buy a house and the woman to be responsible for the decoration. However, the cost of decoration is getting higher and higher now. The house has pre-marital property certificates that belong to the man. So how should the woman’s rights and interests be protected? I wonder if this mode is still appropriate?
Do you think what the boy’s parents did was right? Should the girl’s family ask the boy’s parents for the cost of the renovation? Please leave your valuable feedback in the comment area.
