Some time ago, CPPCC member Ma Xiuzhen suggested that sex education be included in the middle school curriculum system, and gave a clear class schedule.
As soon as this suggestion came out, it immediately aroused heated discussions among parents. Some netizens said: This is good, it should be put on the agenda. In addition, I hope some parents understand that you think sex education is too early, but bad people will not think your children are too young;
Some netizens also said: Support it, the teacher should speak openly and don't automatically skip it again!
In traditional education, due to the lack of sex education for children and parents’ “sexual talk”, children lack self-understanding, gender awareness, and knowledge about getting along with the opposite sex, which is not conducive to the growth of teenagers.
However, regarding sex education, both as parents and teachers, if you want to talk to your children, but don’t know how to say it, it feels difficult to say it.
The book "My Body is Changing" has given detailed answers. This book is written by the Japanese author Nojima, who is a Japanese sex education expert and a former urology nurse.
She has also been invited to give lectures in kindergartens, elementary schools, junior high schools, high schools, and companies many times. More than 20,000 students have participated in her sex education lectures, and she has even trained more than 200 sex education lecturers.
This book is divided into 5 parts, namely the structure of the body, girls' stories, boys' stories, life stories, learning to protect yourself, and stories of the soul . Using pictures and texts, it can be read by parents and children together. It is simple and easy to understand and will not be boring. At the end of each part, there are parent-child quizzes and suggestions for parents, which shows that the author is very thoughtful.
I once saw such a chilling title on the Internet:
A 11-year-old boy molested a 5-year-old girl. The parents actually said: The girl did it voluntarily!
Wang, the chairman of a listed company, has been detained for molesting a 9-year-old girl...
This represents a serious lack of sex education in our country, and children fail to develop a sense of self-protection in the face of sexual assault.
In fact, sex education for minors is like vaccination, which should be done sooner rather than later. The book points out that if you want to provide sex education to children, you can seize the golden period of sex education for children between the ages of 3 and 10.
Children will suddenly ask questions such as where they come from one day. How should parents talk to their children?
Parents can tell their children, baby, you are created through an egg from your mother and a sperm from your father. The two meet and combine to form a fertilized egg. This fertilized egg is the starting point of life. It grows into a baby in the mother's womb.
Then this little baby happily rotated and moved its arms and legs in the amniotic fluid of the mother’s womb for about 10 months.
Until one day the baby decides to come out, it will send a signal to the mother to give birth, the mother will have labor pains, and the baby will be born from the mother's vagina.
Children have been full of curiosity since childhood. They want to know and ask about all novel things. If you, as a parent, always avoid answering, now is the Internet age. Children search online. In order to prevent children from making mistakes, parents can educate their children in advance, guide them, and prevent them from going astray.
To this day, many parents still regard sex education as a scourge, always thinking that their children will understand it when they grow up.
However, many children who have been hurt feel very regretful when they grow up: If only someone could tell me how to protect myself earlier.
Professor Li Meijin said: Sex education should start from the moment you enter kindergarten.
Therefore, parents, as the first teachers of their children's sex education, should talk to their children about sex generously to prevent children from being harmed and from harming them, so that children can take control of their own lives.
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