A primary school in Hangzhou mentioned a sentence at the opening ceremony:
"The main factor affecting children's grades is not the school but the family."
There is a saying that goes: Parents are the first teacher of their children, and the family is the core factor of their children's growth. This is absolutely the truth.
But unexpectedly, this sentence immediately aroused rebuttal from some parents and quickly became a hot search, and the discussion was very fierce.
In fact, the main question of netizens is that they feel that the school is passing the blame and are full of anger.
Anger is like a snowball rolling bigger and bigger, making more parents lose their minds.
Personally understand the emotions of children's parents very well, and doubts and distrust of motivation defeated objective judgments.
In fact, the main factor affecting children's grades is not just the school, but the education of the original family is indeed particularly important.
No matter how many reasons parents have, there is a fact in front of us:
The growth of children is inevitable, and the help of a good family environment to children's growth must not be ignored;
Home education care or not will gradually widen the gap between them during the growth process of children.
Survey data shows that the family atmosphere is good, and the proportion of children with excellent academic performance is 74.12%;
For families with "study" who have excellent academic performance is more than 30%.
. In family parent-child interaction, 39.11% of the children in families who can listen to their children's opinions have excellent grades, and only 19.9% of the children have poor grades.
So the probability of a family with a good atmosphere cultivating excellent children is much higher than that of a discordant family.
If parents are keen on "playing with their mobile phones, watching TV, playing computers" or even "playing cards and playing games", and want to cultivate children with excellent grades, it can only rely on God.
As the saying goes, at the age of three, you will learn what you see when you are young, and what you learn will affect your child’s life.
So the learning atmosphere of the native family is really important.
I have been a farmer in my childhood. I have been going to help my parents work since I can remember
The adults in the family have always been concerned about whether your grades have improved
Usually, the relationship between parents in the family is very poor, and they often make big fuss
The direct relationship between parents and grandparents is also relatively stiff, and they often make noise
Until later, they divorced
Father never cared about our siblings' study and life
He was alone at home There are also many people who are not easy to farm in the village. They have a weird temper. Sometimes they lose their temper, which seriously affects our family atmosphere.
Originally, our study was not too high, and gradually began to decline gradually.
plus father likes to play mahjong in his spare time, which makes us not care about our parent-child education, and there is no atmosphere of reading and learning. Learning has plummeted
So as parents, parents should not be lucky and lack of communication.
No one dares to bet on their children is a genius.
The lives of children are something we cannot imagine. What we can do is to accompany them patiently.
Although care and companionship may not necessarily make him grow into a towering tree.
But if we lack our care and companionship, he may be even more unbearable.
But we must understand that most parents are exhausted due to the pressure of life and no longer have the patience to wait or even accompany their children to gain something.
Daily office workers may be fine. Those who travel on business trips outside the country all year round have very little time to meet their children every day.
From two aspects, on the one hand, it is the needs of the children and the requirements of the school, and on the other hand, it is the powerlessness of parents in facing reality. Such contradictions are really heart-wrenching.
This may be the most important reason why most parents place their hopes on their teachers.
But in terms of taking ten thousand steps:
Teachers will educate countless children in their lifetime, and there will be success and failure among these children;
And your child may only be one ten thousand of the students the teacher has taught, but this child is the heart of these parents.
So children's education has an important connection with every parent.
Objectively speaking, parents cannot blindly kidnap to teachers.
Teachers and schools have the responsibilities they deserve, and parents also have the responsibilities they deserve.
Whether treating teachers as a sacred profession or an ordinary job, as parents, they should be serious and responsible for their own and their children’s lives.
should believe that every teacher does not want everyone to deify the profession of teachers, nor does it hope that all educational responsibilities will be pushed to teachers in the name of "respecting teachers".
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