Why is this child so procrastinating? When it comes to the reasons why students are procrastinating, I think the following reasons are worth pondering.
⑴After the child completes his homework, parents continue to put pressure on him.
Some children will complete the tasks assigned by the teacher after they go home. Parents will still assign some homework to their children, such as parents will take out some exercises they bought for their children to continue to do. Originally, the child thought that after completing the homework assigned by the teacher, he could play happily for a while and have his own time and space.
But they were helpless to find that after they completed all the homework assigned by the teacher, parents would still endlessly assign some homework that they could not finish no matter how they did: after they completed the set of homework assigned by the parents, parents would take out the second set; after they completed the fifth set of papers assigned by the parents, parents would take out the sixth set of papers... Since they could not finish the homework, they would exhaust the "power of the prehistoric force" to procrastinate. When this kind of procrastination behavior formed a habit, it would be difficult to change.
⑵ Pursuing perfect handwriting gives up writing speed.
, a child who pursues perfect handwriting, generally has good academic performance, but they suffer particularly during the exam: the test bell rings, everyone else handed in the paper, and they still have a lot of questions that have not been completed. Why is this happening? This is because these children have been pursuing perfect handwriting. They want to write like printed handwriting, so they sacrificed their precious time to "carve" every word seriously.
In fact, as long as parents or teachers consciously ask them to practice the writing method of "quick writing of regular script", they will definitely undergo changes that we can see in the naked eye in a short period of time. At least one of the students in our class has undergone earth-shaking changes in the writing speed. Sometimes she can even be the first to hand in the paper. During exams, this student is usually the last to hand in the paper.
⑶ There is no sense of urgency at all to complete the learning task.
If parents are more doting on their children and do not teach them specific methods to complete homework, but allow their children to play while doing their homework, then the efficiency of their children in doing their homework will definitely be very low. For example, some parents will ask their children to do their homework while watching TV, so their children will definitely be very procrastinated when doing their homework. Over time, they have no sense of urgency when completing their learning tasks. They think that doing homework is a "careful" way and they can't get faster.
If you are such a student, parents must make their children feel a certain sense of urgency when doing their homework. Electronic products such as TV, computer, and mobile phones must stay away from the children who are doing their homework, and at the same time, they must restrain their children based on the normal completion time of each homework: if the child can complete the homework within the specified time, they will be rewarded verbally, spiritually or materially.
Of course, if the child fails to complete the homework within the specified time, parents can appropriately deprive the child of some power: such as compressing the time to watch TV, increasing the workload of housework, etc. As long as parents have strong execution ability, there is still a certain chance that children can correct their problems of being procrastinated.
For those kids who like to be slow, what other tricks do you have to help them get rid of bad habits? Welcome to leave a message and give advice.
