Two days ago, I saw a video where a mother was emotionally broken while teaching her first-grade daughter Pinyin, yelled, threw the child's book all over the floor, and finally cried in anger.
The first grade between primary school and kindergarten is a difficult time for many children.
is still mainly fun in kindergarten. When you enter the first grade of elementary school, you must start to focus on learning knowledge, and the difficulty of learning has also increased greatly.
Some children get up early and quickly adapt to difficult learning.
Some children are a little late to get up to the teacher's pace in class, and parents' tutoring after class has little effect, which makes parents furious and even gets angry and is hospitalized.
In fact, children are not "stupid" when they get to know each other late, but they develop slowly and need some time to adapt.
Parents don’t have to “hate the iron without getting strong” because of this, and make tutoring lessons become a “criticism meeting” for their children.
more helps children find learning methods, and if one doesn’t work, change the other. If you really can't learn it, just put this part of the knowledge first and learn it later.
My son was not going well when he first started learning pinyin because he learned to sing English alphabet songs in advance, so he often mixed pinyin and English pronunciation.
, and some of the sounds in the pinyin are difficult to pronounce, so you need to use your mouth to force it, otherwise it will be pronounced in a standard way. But he always said that his mouth hurts, and after learning it a few times, he didn't want to learn it anymore.
In order to protect his interest in learning, I decisively terminated the "cramming" teaching and decided to wait until he gets older before making a long-term plan.
Half a year later, when I taught him the pinyin again with a try attitude, I obviously felt that his learning ability had become stronger. I could learn a lot of pronunciations once or twice, and my pronunciation was much better than before.
has been studying smoothly, and he also feels very accomplished. With my encouragement, he was even more enthusiastic and had a very positive attitude towards learning. Just learn a little every day and finish the pinyin easily.
So, if your child is also the one who is late, don’t worry, and don’t compete with others. There are not many knowledge points in primary school, and even if you fall behind temporarily, it is easy to catch up later.
I believe many people have heard or seen such cases: some children have poor grades in elementary school, but after entering middle school, they slowly catch up and even rank at the top; some children have excellent grades in elementary school and often get 100 points, but after entering junior high school and high school, they have difficulty learning and their grades have declined significantly.
Life is long, "winning at the starting line" does not mean anything!
Develop good learning habits for children, cultivate good mentality, protect their enthusiasm for learning, and believe that your children will be the next generation and outperform the "marathon" of life!
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