The current educational atmosphere is very strange, and it is increasingly showing the characteristics of "polarization".
Some parents spoil and let their children go astray and let them go in the name of "happy education". As long as the children are happy, they can act recklessly; while the other parents talk in their children's ears all day long about the importance of the high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination, and always judge their children's character and personality based on their learning status and test scores, which is for "examination-oriented education".
It is true that every parent knows well: exam-oriented education is not good, and happy education is good.
However, in life, more parents have made academic and life choices on behalf of their children, spared no effort to urge and force their children to stay up late to study hard.
It seems that as long as the child is admitted to a prestigious university, the fate of the child and his family can be changed and transformed, and even solve most of the problems related to employment, marriage and life.
But in fact, exam-oriented education is not omnipotent, and happy education cannot ignore anything.
The most important thing in educating children is rationality, tolerance and care. It does not mean that parents make extreme choices of pure exams or pure happiness on behalf of their children, and their children's lives will be more fulfilling and happy than children of the same age.
Moreover, although most academic children are particularly good at and excellent in their studies, they are often prone to falling into work difficulties with excellent resumes but poor performance in their workplace and business due to poor communication and disagreement in their personalities.
This shows that in the exam-oriented education that pays too much attention to rote memorization, children can only learn knowledge theory and problem-solving methods, but they cannot have a more comfortable, free and laissez-faire emotional life like children under happy education.
Of course, the so-called "happy education" is not just about being happy as long as the child is happy. As long as the child feels relaxed, comfortable and happy, he can ignore his studies and grades, and even care about the cultivation of his children's character and morality.
The true happy education should be to give children more heartfelt companionship under the framework of some exam-oriented education and academic education, while ensuring hard study and academic performance, and at the same time, lead children to experience different life, environment and concepts more, so that children can understand and understand the external world while improving their thinking and knowledge.
After all, in today's increasingly severe employment situation and workplace environment, it is completely useless if a child only learns to be happy, is eloquent and eloquent, but does not have the education, knowledge and skills that can reflect his own value.
If you don’t have an education, most employers will not let you enter the interview after the written test;
If you don’t have knowledge, the company boss just wants to put you in a high-paying position and has no way to start;
If you don’t have skills, it will only delay, delay and reduce the performance of the company’s relevant departments. Which company is willing to take in you for employees like
?
Therefore, happy education is not laissez-faire education and illiterate education.
On the contrary, the higher the quality and high education, the better the enlightened parents are to combine theory with practice, and on the basis of accompanying and disciplineing their children's studies, they guide their children to develop learning habits, set learning plans, and take time to play and entertain.
So, in the eyes of many parents, is becoming more and more "two extremes" exam-oriented education and happy education should actually complement each other and be inseparable.
Because every child, including adults, will not feel happiness and satisfaction because of simple and thorough laissez-faire.
On the contrary, we will feel extremely happy and happy because of the occasional "leave a break from your busy schedule" rest and entertainment that happens day after day in the school life and workplace that seem increasingly boring day by day.The same is true for children. During winter and summer vacations, they must be cheering and overjoyed at the beginning. However, as school is getting closer and closer, the children will have an inexplicable sense of hope for the start of school because of their longing for the children and teachers in their class.
The result is that is waiting for the start of school during the holiday, and the start of school is waiting for the start of holiday. This is actually a very common psychological state for children and adults.
In fact, the learning tasks and test results in academic education are themselves the source of children's satisfaction and joy. But the premise is that parents should guide their children to preview and review on time and in a timely and step by step.
Because of learning, this is the case:
If the child cannot concentrate in class and does not focus on the classroom listening and textbook content, then after school and weekends, even if you spend several times the time and energy and dozens of times the tutoring fee, you may not be able to fully master the relevant chapters and knowledge points after school and weekends.
In short, parents should educate their children to concentrate on studying in the school classroom where 80% of their study time every day, complete homework on time during the remaining 20% of their family study time, and carefully prepare and review each lesson.
Only in this way can children feel more happiness and satisfaction on the premise of completing the "examination-oriented education", and parents will be more confident and enthusiastic, take out time and energy to do a good job of "happy education" that cares for and accompany their children.
In the final analysis, happy education is not about children not learning anything. Parents should spoil their children all day long. Instead, in the process of academic education, we should take advantage of the situation:
Let children gain a sense of satisfaction when completing learning tasks, improve their test scores, and enjoy a sense of pleasure when taking a break from their busy schedule to relax and entertain.
This is the real happy education.
