As parents, they all have the heart of "hoping their children to become dragons and girls to become phoenixes". Since the implementation of the double reduction policy in September last year, many parents' anxiety has increased instead of reducing.
Because the difficulty of the college entrance examination has not decreased significantly after the implementation of the double reduction policy. Many parents are worried that reducing the burden will make their children learn less knowledge. So how can help children successfully break through in the fierce competition?
In fact, the most important thing is that returns to the "essence of learning" and allows children to transform from excessive knowledge learning to cultivation of abilities.
The future world is changing rapidly, and what is needed in the future is people with super learning ability. What is important to is not what the child has learned, but the ability to learn new knowledge. It can be said that the different learning abilities of determine the different lives of children.
and thinking ability and concentration are the keys to determine learning ability. thinking ability and concentration will not only affect children's learning, but also in future work, people with strong thinking ability and concentration will be better at work, and naturally it will be easier to succeed.
~6 years old is the golden period for the explosive growth of children's brains, and it is also a critical period for cultivating children's thinking and concentration. How to cultivate children's thinking and concentration?
. Find the child’s interest points
The more children are interested in things they are interested in, the more they can maintain their concentration and enthusiasm for actively thinking, parents may wish to observe their children more, see what they are interested in, and then cultivate them in a targeted manner.
When children make progress or achieve their goals, parents must praise their children in time, which can further stimulate their children's confidence and motivation.
. Use discoveries and questions
as an opportunity to exercise children's thinking ability
Children are curious and may care and question all kinds of things that adults do not pay attention to. The various questions they inadvertently arise are manifestations of serious thinking, which is also an excellent opportunity to exercise their thinking ability.
No matter how small the child raises questions, parents should listen patiently and reply seriously, interact with their children as much as possible, and guide them to think more deeply.
For example, you can ask your child the following questions:
Why is this happening?
What problems did you find? Why is this happening?
What interesting questions have you discovered recently?
.Don't rush to give the answer,
Give your child enough time to think
When the child encounters a problem and comes to ask you, will you immediately say the answer and end the conversation?
teaches children the answers to let children learn, although it is also important to exercise their thinking ability, recommends that adults do not give answers immediately, but give their children enough time to think.
It is very important for parents to not take the lead in answering . You might as well let your children think for themselves first. Maybe their ideas and answers are wrong, but isn’t it more meaningful to let them express their ideas and opinions to guide them to think actively?
. encountered a problem that parents themselves don’t understand,
searched for answers with their children
explored, thought and tried with their children, and finally came up with the answer or conclusion. The most important thing in this process is not to give the child the "answer" directly, but to guide the child to discover and solve the problem by himself.
Try to add more questions and opinions when talking to your child to help your child develop divergent thinking, and guide your child to solve problems by asking questions and prompting them.
In this process, if encounters problems that parents themselves do not understand, then check them with your children, so that they can help the children think actively and proactively.
can guide children through the following questions and conversations:
Maybe this is the case, let’s check it together!
I think so, what do you think?
What's going on?
The most important thing to improve children's thinking ability is to "create time and opportunities for children to think" . In daily life, parents can also use some thinking games to exercise their children's thinking ability and concentration.
This set of "German Classic Children's Thinking Power Game" is very good. is not a boring exercise book, but an intellectual game book that can stimulate children's curiosity and learning ability. It is recommended to everyone.
This set of books is developed by LOEWE, a classic German preschool education brand. It is carefully created by the authoritative German early childhood education expert group. After personal experiences by millions of parents and children, it can cultivate children's thinking and concentration in multiple dimensions!
The book selects 8 themes close to life . There are 176 fun and educational thinking games , which can enable children to complete 8 basic cognitions before school age: color, shape, size, number, quantity, spatial orientation, comparison, order , so as to master the basic thinking abilities such as observation and imagination, classification and comparison, analysis and judgment, identification and understanding, logical reasoning, etc., and comprehensively develop the child's brain!
1 themes, corresponding to a scene. takes "Forest Explorer" as an example. This book takes forest as the theme and helps children master basic cognitive abilities such as color and graphics recognition, sorting, and classification of through game forms such as connection, painting, and sorting.
While children are playing games, they can not only cultivate their thinking and concentration , but also enrich their natural science knowledge and enhance their enthusiasm for actively exploring things.
1 games exercise 1 ability. The book contains 176 thinking game . The abilities of each game are different, allowing children to develop their brains while having fun.
Especially busy parents, they don’t know how to accompany their children efficiently. The book can not only help children stay away from computers and mobile phones, but also enhance parent-child relationships.
Unlike monotonous and boring question-based exercises, this set of books includes rich game forms such as connection, sorting, clipping, and coloring , which can further stimulate children's interest and allow children to play with strong thinking and concentration!
Moreover, this set of books also sets " game time ". Every time the child completes 5 thinking games, there will be 1 exercise game, allowing the child to move his body while promoting blood circulation and increasing the intake of oxygen . After the game is over, the child can devote himself to learning.
The game form of dynamic and stillness can better train children's thinking and concentration.
Nowadays, it is very serious to "educational inversion". It is difficult for parents to not be anxious in such a general environment.
But because of this, parents should adjust their mindset. They should not blindly follow the trend and sign up for countless training classes for their children, but spends time patiently with their children and understand what their children like? What are you good at? In which direction does he want to deepen his cultivation and gain his core abilities?
This will help children win a place in the future competition!
