Everyone has many inspiring words in their student days, such as: Only by enduring hardships can one become the best. When I heard such words in the past, I might encourage myself to study hard, but many people only know that suffering must be rewarded if they have to endure hardships, otherwise what will it take to endure hardships?
In fact, this sentence should be understood as follows: If you want to be a superior, you can lay the foundation by enduring hardships, but no one can eat the useless bitterness. If you can become a superior person by just enduring hardship, then the vast majority of people in ancient China would no longer have to go hungry. For most people, it is useless to just endure hardship. If you suffer the hardship, you will most likely be an ordinary person.
Some people think that even if they are an ordinary person, since they have endured hardships when they were young, they cannot let their children suffer any more.
A sentence in the speech of middle school students has attracted unlimited feelings for adults
But for children in the new era, most people are middle-aged people and do not have better resources. It is not easy to break out of the barriers of learning. Many people have changed their minds from high school. Many students have changed their minds. In high school, they face high pressure every day but are still full of confidence in the future. However, after going to college, they have few classes a week, and they feel tired every day, and sometimes they have to skip classes and indulge in entertainment. Especially, this happens most of private schools after being strictly controlled. The transformation of
has caused a gap in many students, and some students sighed that "high school is too simple." Look, a while ago, a middle school student delivered a speech, and one of the sentences made netizens feel very moved. The girl mentioned: "When compulsory education reaches high school, students can get 60 years of ease after 12 years of hard work."
sounds very straightforward, but it is intriguing
When I saw this sentence, I smacked my lips. This girl matures early, and it’s so mature that it makes people feel distressed. And how many children are around us like this?
Does this sentence sound similar to "Only those who endure hardships can become the best person"? This sentence from the students is nothing more than encouraging students to work hard. No matter how hard you work now, it is worth it. Life after getting into college will be relaxed. It's also encouraging yourself!
But this will also have a motivational effect on students, but it seems that it does not have that much power to adults. The world of adults is realistic. I once thought that as long as I work hard to get into college in primary and secondary school, I could break free from the high-pressure constraints of exams, but I didn’t know that there were more factors to consider when entering society, and there were more constraints on my body. Looking back at studying, it was the time to relax.
Otherwise, no one would have expressed any feelings about not even studying, and what else can you do.
There is a gap between ideals and reality
The reason why many netizens lamented that "the world of adults is realistic" is actually because they heard too many inspirational words like "Only those who endure hardships can be the best" during their studies. Reading was once considered by many people as one of the ways to change their background and transcend classes, but when they feel that it is difficult to see similar sentences again, they will reexamine them.
Of course, there are indeed many people around who have changed their background and embarked on the path of politics or business, which is enviable.
Authentic, I talked about ideals in my school days, including what I look like after adulthood. I even feel that everyone puts more time and endures more hardships during their studies to get good grades, and good college entrance examination results can also allow students to enter higher education institutions and become a support for future employment.
But it would be too natural to think that it is easy to work hard in primary and secondary school years and to become an adult. Because many students from higher education institutions have good academic performance and work hard after work, and even spend very little time with their families. But does this mean that their salary is high? It's really not necessarily. Objectively speaking, even students who graduate from 211 colleges and universities still have a lot of salary not exceeding 5,000.
Looking around, most of the students who are doing well use their family resources. On the other hand, if they don’t have resources, they can only rely on their own efforts. Because as long as you work hard, there will be a glimmer of hope.
But what is the difference between people without ideals and salted fish?
We must clearly understand: hardship may not necessarily result in rewards. If you always endure hardship but fail to achieve it, many people will doubt the correctness of hardship rewards, and they will question hardship and diligence. If you have a clearer understanding of reality and understand the truth that hard work may fail, you may not be so frustrated after encountering setbacks. Such people have greater ability to bear pressure.
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