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A college professor assaults a female student, a primary and secondary school teacher hurts a girl, it’s interesting to see There are too many. Although I am angry, this kind of thing happens all the time. There are always some human scum who come one after another, just to seek some cj, and they do not hesitate to hurt these girls.
These people should naturally be severely punished, on the one hand to make them pay the corresponding price for their evil deeds, and on the other hand to warn those who are eager to try.
However, as parents, we don’t know what kind of people our children will meet in the future, and we don’t know what kind of environment our children will face in the future. What we have to do is to look for characteristics, guide children to enhance their self-defense capabilities, and prevent children from becoming the victims of those gentle scum. Chinese food.
These teachers’ target girls have these common characteristics:
- 1, introversion, not many friends
These girls often don’t have many friends, always like to be alone, introverted, gentle and shy.
The targets of these people are generally girls with this kind of introverted personality. They will not target girls with cheerful personalities because the risk of exposure is relatively high.
These solitary girls are often able to keep secrets.
- 2. They are timid and cowardly and dare not speak out.
Some girls are introverted, but they have a temper and dare to fight back. After many trials, these girls selected targets who are introverted, and timid. They can’t help but be frightened and dare not speak out. , for fear of ruining his own future and reputation.
The more scared children are, the more arrogant they become . They always threaten them with their children's future, asking them to keep secrets, and maintain underground relationships with them to satisfy their selfish desires.
- 3. Simple and easy to trust others
Some people have violated many girls during their teaching career, but they have been doing this job without any harm, which looks sanctimonious. Because they have a keen sense of smell, they can always choose the "right" candidate.
Their target girls, are often simple and easy to trust others, so that they can succeed step by step, letting them get stuck in it and unable to extricate themselves, otherwise they will threaten them with their reputation and future .
- 4, similar family backgrounds
These girls also have similar family backgrounds. The following family backgrounds are the target groups of these teachers: simple and kind-hearted girls from single-parent families. They do not want to cause trouble to their mothers for fear of hurting their mothers. Or it may make the mother worry; if the family conditions are poor, the relationship with the parents is average, but the girl has a strong heart; if the relationship between the parents is poor, the parent-child relationship between the girl and the parents is also average.
These girls who lack love are easy targets for them.
- 5. Promise them benefits and increase their favorability.
These people will promise these girls some benefits, such as ensuring that they pass the exam, or tutoring them in private courses. Let the girls feel that they have received unique care, think that the teacher has special feelings for them, and develop a good impression of the teacher.
wants to improve their goodwill, which is the first step in their plan.
Educate your daughter well and keep her away from these "beasts"
No matter how strict the system is, no matter how strict the crackdown is, it cannot be eradicated.
From a parent's perspective, our obligation is to provide a warm, reliable, and safe haven for our children, so that they can grow up healthily, give them the greatest care, guide them to become healthy, confident and cheerful people, and educate them to be able to distinguish between good and bad. Bad, encourage children to be brave and reject others. When someone tries to do something to hurt them, they can speak out and stop the loss in time.
If all parents do this, these "beasts" will have no chance.
I have a daughter. Some suggestions for parents:
- 1. Children don’t have to be too innocent or too kind.
When asked what kind of person they hope their children will become, many parents will say without hesitation: I hope she will be kind and simple.
Kindness is somewhat necessary, but kindness should also be based on reality, and simplicity is necessary.
Children should learn to distinguish between good and bad in time, distinguish between good people and bad people, and be able to know what is good for them and what is harmful to them . Children do not need to remain simple and trust others unconditionally.
People who want their children to be able to distinguish between good and bad realities, instead of being simple people, must start by letting go and not over-protecting their children. An over-protected child will easily become a simple person who easily trusts others.
- 2. Children should be brave enough to refuse others.
Guide children to say "no" to people and things they don't like.
This is not difficult, but parents must be aware of this in advance. For example, when a child is around 2 years old and does not want to share toys, we should respect the child and not share the toys, and reject the child who wants to grab the toys.
When children grow up, they are unwilling to say hello to adults they are unfamiliar with. There is no need for parents to force their children to say hello with a smile.
As children grow up, they do not need to be sensible at all times or smile all the time like adults. We must allow them to express their attitudes towards people they are unfamiliar with and dislike.
- 3. Guide children to express loudly
In the process of children growing up, we must guide them to learn to express loudly and express their true inner thoughts, guide them to express dissatisfaction loudly, and guide them to learn to talk out their hearts.
A child who likes to express his or her inner feelings, expression is their first desire, and they will not keep fear or dissatisfaction deep in their hearts.
- 4. Mothers must maintain a good relationship with their daughters and communicate more
In addition to the above, family relationships are also particularly important.
There are daughters in the family. The relationship between mother and daughter is very important. If the relationship between mother and daughter is harmonious and the daughter and mother talk about everything, the daughter will not keep her fear in her heart. When the daughter tells her true feelings to her mother in time, the mother will Naturally, you can make the right choice and let your daughter stop the loss in time.
- 5. Let daughters believe that no matter what happens, their parents will support them behind them.
When our daughters grow up, we must let them believe one thing: no matter what happens, their parents will always be their backing, and the door of the home will always be there. They were wide open. With their parents as their backing, they don’t have to shoulder everything alone, and they don’t have to be deceived over and over again.
We can't make the bad guys disappear, but we can improve our self-defense ability to a certain extent and be a solid backing for our children. At least let our children know that before they grow up and have sufficient personal abilities, their parents It is their greatest sense of security.
