Reading Review Reading Book Sharing: Take the Essence (3) "Cognitive Difference" Zhou Guiyi
Education has never been a child's homework, but the practice of parents. To educate a successful child, parents and teachers are likely to take all accidental factors into account. Mistakenly believed to be an important factor in success. If you want to regard enlightenment as education, it is better to give up such education. Effective education needs to avoid the common attribution bias in order to truly return to the position of correct communication.
All the things that are praised are just edited fragments. What we see is just an image of the world rather than the truth. Nowadays, many children are forced to attend various training classes and learn various arts. In fact, what children need more is to learn to understand art. They do not have to be artists, but they must be able to observe the world, know how to feel the world, and understand emotions and expressions.
Every careful person can become a life master. If you have no sense of details, then the details will always determine success or failure. It will always be just slogans and emotions. If the consciousness does not know which are the key details, then the fact that details are important is meaningless. The perfect details in life are the meaning of life itself.
Every journey in life has meaning, whether it is failure or taking the wrong path, it is all to make you different from others, and finally make you become yourself. Real life is not deleted, skipped, or rewritten. Whether it's waste or delay, twists and turns are the normal state of life. Brilliance and turning points are all used to be written on resumes. It is the useless years that contain the meaning that distinguishes us from others.
Life is a cycle of seasons, and emotions sometimes hide mysteries. In this world, countries and regions that are richer and have more choices have a higher rate of depression. Why can't I feel happy? Because the rewards we give ourselves make us mistake them for happiness, once the rewards are ineffective, our unhappiness will rise in vain and we will feel depressed.
Everyone has a sensor installed in their body. We can read the inner essence of another person through countless details. The inner emotions and thoughts of a person will be unconsciously reflected in the external image. Even something as seemingly free and easy as wearing clothes requires effort and learning to find a style and method that suits you.
It is easy to indulge and just stay in the comfort zone, but self-discipline is anti-human and means that we have to constantly escape from the comfort zone. True self-discipline is based on self-knowledge and self-confidence, rather than blind self-restriction, self-oppression, and self-criticism, because self-discipline is also a kind of balance.
The author of this article: Shang Yulan
