On the day of May 1, 2015, I updated a text titled "Spring Notes 460—The World Is So Big, I Want to See It", the content is as follows:
Time: April 14, 2015 Sunday morning;
Location: Henan Experimental Middle School;
Character: female psychology teacher Gu Shaoqiang ;
, a female psychology teacher who has served for 11 years; A word—the world is so big, I want to see it;
result: approval by the leader;
follow-up: such a headstrong and unrestrained attitude of resignation has aroused hot comments from major media and netizens.
For office workers, resignation applications are not uncommon. The salary is not high enough, the development space is narrow, the promotion is hopeless, the boss is too stingy and violent, etc., all can be reasons for resignation. Of course, in order to change jobs more smoothly, you always have to write euphemistically, such as "I want to go home to build a house and prepare to get married", "Wife is about to give birth", "Too far away from family to take care of children" and so on. Regardless of the reason, you have to be implicit or even "low-handed" so as not to be caught by the boss and refuse to resign.
But teacher Gu of Henan Experimental Middle School is not so exquisite, she may think it is unnecessary.
Gu Shaoqiang: I don't want to do it anymore. I want to release the burden of the "pressure mountain". This is my truest thought. Why should I be so mundane and hypocritical, saying something that is against my heart and not marginal? Too many people have been completely overshadowed by the big social dyeing jars, and thus have lost their true selves. I disdain to do that, my mind is still upright!
"The world is so big, I want to see it", this is the content of Mr. Gu's resignation letter.
Gu Shaoqiang: My job is very stable, my title has been promoted, and the salary is good. But deep in my heart, there is always an uneasy flame burning. For 11 years, if the school is a well, I am really like the frog in the well; if the school is a basin of water that starts to cool and then slowly warms up,I am also like that frog in the water. At first I felt at ease, so I didn't want to jump out, and then the water slowly heated up, and then I wanted to jump out, but it was even more difficult. Fortunately, I am not a frog at the bottom of a well or in a basin. My reason tells me: There are many ways to live in life, such as job titles, tickets, houses, cars, face, etc., all of which are like floating clouds and fleeting. Why should I live so tired for these foreign objects? A more exciting road is still waiting for me to go.
The world is so big, I want to see it.
Such a fanciful resignation letter has been praised by many netizens. They even think it is "the most emotional resignation letter in history, there is no one". What is the interpretation of the word "feelings"? I think there is humor, authenticity, freedom, and magnanimousness. Yes, when a person cares too much about fame and fortune, it is difficult for him or her to escape the shackles of material desire, and thus there is no real happiness.
In fact, many people also understand, "Fish and bear's paw, you can't have both." But between choosing and discarding, more people will choose more realistic ones and discard those that seem unnecessary. The contradiction is that reality tends to make life more tiring. The fast-paced life urges us to keep on rushing, so that we have no time to appreciate the scenery on the roadside. And those that are discarded, such as dreams, such as the long-suppressed distant place, will start to move around until it becomes unstoppable.
Teacher Gu's waywardness makes people yearn for. In fact, many people have long wanted to go out and have a look, but what about the tickets? Without the support of votes, even if I go out, can I be happy? Can you have a walk-and-go trip? Some netizens ridiculed: "I want to go too, but my five elements are short of money." "Shanglian: The world is so big, I want to go see it; Xianlian: The wallet is so small, I can't go anywhere; Hengbiao: go to work well."" The world is so big, I want to see it. I will take you with you, and you will take the money"...
If one day, I have to write a resignation application, will it be so capricious? But my most real thoughts at this time are exactly the same as those ten words of Teacher Gu-the world is so big, I want to see it.
any similarity is purely coincidental. (End)
The article is written here, let’s take a brief look at the highlights and follow-up:
2015 Spring Festival,Gu Shaoqiang traveled to Yunnan alone. I met Yu Fu while working as a volunteer in a cafe in Shuanglang, Dali. Through chatting, I found that each other didn't like the prosperous city, they both yearned for a simple life, and both wanted to open a small inn, where they would work at sunrise, and rest at sunset, reading books, drinking tea, and playing the piano.
Yu Fu runs a haircut business in Chengdu, and he also came to Yunnan for vacation.
In this way, two people with the same ambitions met. Love meets unexpectedly. After dating the person in love, Mr. Gu’s wish also changed: “The world is so big, let’s go and see it with you.”
Yu Fu quickly transferred the storefront of the hair salon, and Gu Shaoqiang resigned the ten-character name that swept the country. The letter is also thunderous on the ground.
On April 13, 2015, Gu Shaoqiang resigned. On the 16th, I came to Chengdu to join Yufu.
After several months of travel, after discussion with her husband, Gu Shaoqiang decided to settle in Chengdu. While planning to open an inn, while preparing to do a psychological training project for young people in Chengdu.
On August 19, 2015, Gu Shaoqiang and her husband Yu were hired by a tourism company in Zhengzhou as a "Lifelong Free Smart Travel Experiencer". The employed Gu Shaoqiang and his wife will enjoy the treatment of free travel to the tourist attractions of the travel company for life, and will share their experience as an experience teacher. It is reported that this is Gu Shaoqiang's first commercial endorsement behavior.
On October 10, 2015, Gu Shaoqiang and Yu Fu held their wedding at No. 95 Zhenwu Street, Jiezi Ancient Town, Chengdu (the inn jointly opened by them).
In March 2016, Gu Shaoqiang became pregnant. On December 9th of the same year, his daughter was born.
At the beginning of 2021, Gu Shaoqiang took the children and returned to Zhengzhou with his mother. Yu Fu stayed in the ancient town to run an inn. Due to the epidemic and heavy rains in Zhengzhou, she temporarily stayed in Zhengzhou.
At the invitation of a friend, Gu Shaoqiang talked about a talk show in a small local theater. She compiled a paragraph about her experience over the past few years.
In the six years since he resigned, has Gu Shaoqiang regretted it?
Gu Shaoqiang: "No, I am a person who never regrets." "I don't know how many beds have been made in the past 6 years.How many quilt covers and how many toilets were used. Everyone may think that this is a kind of life of enthusiasm, but I don't think so, I think this is the real life.
"It is human instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. Your choice at that moment must be the most desired result at the moment. If you feel bad afterwards, just change it.
"From resignation to the present, I have no specific plans for the future. I just move forward at my own pace." When you are in a mood to travel, you will give serious lectures when you need to give lectures. When you take care of your family, you will be fully engaged.
"I just want to live a different life." Now it seems to be basically achieved. "
Some people praised this way: this kind of life is really good, do whatever you want to do, without being overwhelmed by life or reality, this is the real life.
Some people sigh with emotion: it is a person who chooses one. It’s just a kind of life. Poetry and the distance are more of the inner realm. The word dream is abused. In fact, the best thing we should say to ourselves is: stop dreaming, wake up. A little ideal can stay close, unable or adjust It’s good to give up, and it’s fine. The garden in your dream can’t be as good as a small flower next to you. The days pass unconsciously (there is no trace of time), and it is a good day and a good day.
Some people criticized it like this: stupid, not knowing the heights of the sky. After waking up from the dream, I realized that the world has not changed, but how old I am.
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