There is an 84-year-old grandma on a famous picture website. She likes to wear fancy clothes, wears bright makeup, and wears pink nail polish. She loves to take selfies, is full of vitality, passionate and cute. Her selfies are often liked and commented by tens of thousands of people.
I saw a photo of the old lady. She was wearing a colorful T-shirt and surrounded by a group of young and handsome boys, showing a childish and funny expression. Her description of this photo is: "I love boys!"
Who would think that wrinkled face is not beautiful?
Who would think that an 84-year-old woman cannot like young boys?
This woman who lived to be 84 years old reminded me of what the French female writer Margaret Duras said to her closest girlfriend: "It's strange, if you consider age, I never think about it, age doesn't matter."
I think, people who still love beauty at the age of 84 and still pursue young boys, and those who say "age does not matter" are actually people who don't care about the ending.
In their eyes, life is a process, every present, this time, here.
84-year-old woman is still worried about the ending of breaking up? Love one day means making a profit one day. Dulas , who is in his 70s, writes a novel. Are you still worried about whether it can be sold and whether it can be exchanged for praise from critics? Writing one more word is the best explanation for this wonderful life.
Many times we think that doing a job, realizing a dream, loving someone, and living a life, all of this must point to a sunny ending, otherwise it will be failure, otherwise it will not be worth it.
, actually, not. In the Thai movie "The Little Things of First Love", the heroine Xiaoshui was just an ordinary girl with no strengths at the beginning. The only thing she had was youth, but youth was just a foil to highlight her ordinaryness.
Adolescent children have longings and yearnings. Boys yearn for the cutest and most beautiful girls, and girls also yearn for the best and most handsome boys. It is in this longing and yearning that they use others as mirrors to reflect themselves for the first time.
From the outstanding and handsome senior named A Liang, Xiaoshui saw his useless ordinary for the first time, and deeply felt inferior about it.
Like all girls who are in love, in order to get close to the handsome senior, she did a lot of stupid things: she deliberately took a long way to pass through his classroom; peeked at his every move in the corner; and even when she was sleeping, she would fantasize that the pillow was his arm...
In order to be worthy of the excellent senior, she began to change herself very hard. She joined the dance club to learn dancing, participated in small dramas, and also learned military music command... Everything is to get closer to Aliang, even if it is just a little bit.
By the third year of junior high school, Xiaoshui finally faded away his original ordinaryness and became the cutest and most popular girl in the school. When she graduated, she had enough confidence and courage to confess to her senior. Unexpectedly, the senior was already with another senior sister a week ago. At the end of the movie, Xiaoshui becomes a first-class fashion designer and returns from the United States to reunite with her senior. After missing nine years, the prince and the princess finally lived happily together, like the ending of all fairy tales. I read
, but I thought it was a redundant ending.
Cinderella lost her prince and love, but she has transformed into growth. The story can be concluded here. Because, regardless of whether she is favored by the prince in the end, she is already the most dazzling princess in the crowd. This is the best ending.
There is a friend who has always liked a Japanese idol male star since middle school. In order to learn about his movements at the first time, she won the opportunity to work in Shanghai and joined the fan group based in Shanghai. In order to understand his words, she taught himself Japanese and passed the second-level Japanese proficiency test; the male star rarely came to China, so she tried hard to find opportunities to go abroad; even because of this obsession, she eventually married a Japanese man.
The parents once said that she was not doing her job properly, and her friends also scolded her for NC fans. She even lost her job to listen to one of his concerts.Until now, she is still a member of the male star's fan club and is still obsessed with this star who is far away from a foreign country. Although she has never spoken to him, she has only a few close contacts. Sometimes I ask her why she is obsessed with an out of reach and what kind of results she wants to get?
She smiled and said, not asking for results. What is the result of
? Nowadays, she is no longer the same as the shy and introverted girl in middle school. Because she often participates in fan club activities, she has extensive social interactions and has developed first-class organizational and planning skills. Because of her good Japanese, she switched to a Japanese company and her career is getting better. Now, her family is also happy and happy - isn't this the best result?
Not all efforts must be achieved with a perfect ending.
Even if you only make yourself grow, it is the best ending.
Some time ago, everyone around you read an Internet buzzword: "I feel tired but not love." When you are heartbroken, you don't love love; you are too busy with work, too stressful but not love work; if you work hard, you can't see the future, you can't see hope, you don't love dreams... All obstacles that lie on the road of life will become reasons for "not love".
But you hear Duras say: "Love is not the love of my skin, not a vegetable and a meal. It is an immortal desire, a heroic dream in a tired life."
People in the world think she is talking about love, but I think she is talking about life.
I met a girl at work. She was beautiful, tall, and had an impeccable appearance. When I first met, I was amazed in my heart, wow, I looked like a model.
Asked, he was indeed a model.
"It happened a long time ago." She mentioned the past, her tone was calm.
Several years ago, she was a college student. She won the runner-up in a modeling competition and signed an agency. From then on, she began a glorious life in the spotlight on the stage.
"It's really glamorous. Sometimes I wear expensive evening gowns sponsored by manufacturers to attend cocktails, hold a goblet, and be surrounded by everyone, and I will have the illusion of being as noble as a princess."
That's right, it's an illusion. I left the cocktail party, took off my clothes and sent them back, and I was still an ordinary person. In such a gorgeous day, she was addicted for half a year. It was not until she went to a dinner party and a wealthy businessman asked her to drink with her. There were many disrespects in her words that she suddenly realized that her glamorous appearance was what many girls dream of, but this was definitely not the future she once dreamed of.
quit her job as a model. She had a period of time and had nothing to do, but soon found something to do. When she accompanied her business father to attend an industry event, she met the son of a friend of her father, and thus began her first love and first entrepreneurship in her life.
The two of them took out all their savings and opened a clothing store. Starting from e-commerce, they established their own brand step by step. The beautiful girl who once worked as a model went to the factory, the channel, and even inspected the origin. Sometimes she plunged into the factory, sleepless for several days, was dirty and had no time to care about her dirty face.
has no reward for hard work. Clothing e-commerce has been pregnant, and what is lost is the enthusiasm, money, and love of the two people.
The boyfriend left dejectedly and found a nine-to-five job. But she was not discouraged. The idea for the second business venture was something she thought of when she traveled to Paris a long time ago, but she suffered from a lack of start-up capital. For this entrepreneurship, she has visited almost all major investment institutions, but no one is willing to invest, and no one is even willing to listen to her. A friend introduced the investor to her, so she booked a flight ticket overnight to the local area to discuss cooperation.
She was already thin, and during that time, she was even more thin. My friends joked, "I can make a living by my face, but I have to rely on my hard work."
She still had the calm tone: "The appearance will grow old, but I will not work hard."
Nowadays, she is still talking to many investors and still has not obtained the first investment.But, I think it's only a matter of time before her success; I also know that even if this business ends in failure, she will not stop working hard or stopping. Because she has the "desire of immortality" and her "heroic dream"
A girl who never stops, has no reason not to grow up, and has no reason not to gain more from loss.
Sometimes we pursue and work hard, although we can get a happy ending that
can point to a happy ending.
A fairytale ending, success and happiness, but no one can guarantee that every time you chase
, the reality is often: chasing may not necessarily make you get it, hard work may not necessarily make you gain, and even everything you have may be lost at any time.
The loss and failure of life are somewhat indescribable, which makes you have a premonition and catch you off guard.
You can only accept it and swallow the bitter fruit alone.
But everyone is growing little by little on this road, transforming little by little, becoming brilliant.
Don't be afraid, take steps.
You should know: all endings are the best endings.
