Everyone has been exposed to mobile computer games! Knowing that there is a function in the game that is hosting, that is, if we don't operate it, the computer will automatically play cards for us. For game hosting, this function is generally used when there is something to leave the game temporarily. Nowadays, even when we are at home, when we go to the mall, when we are queuing, when we are walking in the park, we will find that some parents will directly give their children a mobile phone or tablet to "carry" their children. In these years of clinical contact, we have seen many examples of "custodial" children, including language delays, backward social skills, language regression and so on. When learning about the situation of the family, ask the child what toys he likes, say mobile phone or pad, as long as the child is crying, hand him the mobile phone or pad to be quiet. What these are not proper "custodians"!
always has the following reasons:
1, parents are busy. I have to go to work during the day and take care of other people's lives when I come back from get off work. I don't have extra energy and time to interact effectively with my children. When the child is noisy, the phone is more effective than anything else. As everyone knows, in fact, children are just attracted by those colorful dynamic pictures, and they do not really comfort the children.
2, the problem of taking care of the elderly. Everyone knows that the physical strength of the elderly can not support the energetic children's noise. In addition, the elderly at home often have different concepts of raising and raising from their parents. Therefore, as long as the child does not cry or make trouble or toss, watching the mobile phone can make him happy. This way, you can take care of the small and free your hands to take care of the big one.
3. Insufficient awareness of parenting. Young people nowadays are immersed in the world of mobile phones and cannot do without mobile phones. A mobile phone can meet the needs of daily life and work, and there is no time to take care of children, and naturally they have no awareness of raising children.
Everyone, do you think there are many "custodial" phenomena in your life, and what harm will these "custodial" children cause in the end? Here is a list for everyone:
1, backward language development, low social skills, language regression, behavior problems, etc. are the points that we can most intuitively see and then attract attention.
2, eyes. Watching electronic products at close range for a long time can easily cause myopia, and the incidence of myopia among adolescents and children in my country is on the rise.
suggest
1. It is recommended that children should not be exposed to electronic products prematurely and long screen exposure.
2. The growth of children is inseparable from the companionship and effective interaction of their parents. The way of raising children before the age of 3 plays a key role in promoting the brain development of children. Without companionship and interaction, children's developing brain will not have to To stimulation, the developmental level of children is relatively backward. Put down your mobile phone and work. Set aside a certain amount of time every day as parent-child time, and invest your children wholeheartedly.
3. The old saying goes well when you are three years old and look at the old when you are seven years old. The child does not form any ideas after birth. The child observes every move in our daily life and under the influence of the interaction during the interaction. Form cognition. Therefore, parents should strengthen their awareness of words and deeds and teach by precepts and deeds.
Author: Huang Qiuhui
layout: fill Yan Qi (Guangxi Sports College)
proof: Liu Yuan Cheng
review: what cool
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