Introduction:
said that it was a "baby boom" at the end of the year, but the appointment was missed. Experts suggest opening up three children as soon as possible. Netizen: I don't even dare to get married, so how come I have three children.
Those who are not married dare not get married, and those who have not had children do not want to have one child. A family that has only one child does not have time to live together, and the second child can't even think about it. How can you dare to have a third child?
A family with one child
Xiaoli has been married for 8 years, and she has a 6-year-old daughter who is just entering the first grade this year. When the daughter was born, her mother-in-law forced her to have a second child. Her mother-in-law was too old to help with the children, and because of financial pressure, Xiaoli had never dared to have a second child.
Xiaoli took her daughter and her husband to rent a house in the city. After her daughter was in the first grade, Xiaoli also went to find a job. She took the child to school in the morning, put the child in the afternoon nursery at noon, and went to the evening nursery to pick her up. Come back home. Shopping for food, cooking, cleaning and homework, I have to be busy until about 10 o'clock every day, and fall asleep when I'm busy, and even the couple's life time is cancelled. Day after day, year after year, when will such days survive?
No, the experts suggest opening up three children again. My mother-in-law called Xiaoli to give birth to a second child every day, and asked her if she had a physical problem! Also reminded: If there is a physical problem, you must go to the hospital for examination in time. Xiaoli hoped that there was a real problem with her body, so she cut her mind on her mother-in-law.
Xiaoli’s situation is the same as that of most unwilling families, low wages, high housing prices, high prices, high education, and it takes a lot of effort to raise a child. She also recommends opening up to three children. The third child is an expert’s business, and it’s my own business to have a few children. I really do what I can to have children.
Xiaofang, a family of two children, has been married for 10 years. When the second child was opened, relatives and friends around him said that Xiaofang was lucky and did not have to be fined for having a second child. Xiaofang, who originally didn’t want to have a second child, was persuaded by her in-laws and relatives and friends. Others told Xiaofang: One child is also to be raised, and two children are also to be raised. Just add an extra pair of bowls and chopsticks at home. Happy! You will be happy when the children are old.
Hearing such words, Xiaofang, who was hesitant, chose to have a second child. Only after having a second child did he realize that those who say that two children are raised as one child are all deceptive. Two children are two children, and it takes both energy and money. Xiaofang faces two children alone and is unable to do so. Only those who have brought children can experience the tiredness.
If there is only one child, Xiaofang only needs to tutor one child’s homework and can also choose to work at work. But with two children to take care of, Xiaofang can only stay at home. As he gets older, it becomes even more difficult to find a job.
So you can persuade anything, don’t persuade you to have a second child and have a third child.
This is the fact that it is too difficult to have a child and raise a child.
can consider having three children if the four conditions are met.
experts suggest that the opening of three children should be expedited. Families who want to have three children can have three children if they meet these four conditions.
01. Families with good economic conditions
need to spend a lot of money at each stage of pregnancy, pregnancy, childbirth, and raising children. Raising children is "burning money."
If the financial situation of a family is good enough, you can consider having a second child, a third child, or even as many children as you want.
02. Families where someone helps with children
It not only costs a lot of money to raise children, but also a lot of time and energy. If a family has no one to help with the children, it is very difficult for one person to bring three children.
Rich families can ask a nanny to take care of their children. Families with normal family situations should consider whether there is an elderly person to help take care of the children before giving birth. If so, they are considering having a second or third child.
03. Families that like more lively children
Some families have financial conditions that allow some people to take children, but they like quiet, do not like the children to be noisy, then such a family is not suitable for three children.
Families that give birth to three children are the kind that like to have a lot of fun with children, think that many children are more blessed, and the children and grandchildren are full.
04. A woman agrees to have a child
for a womanIn other words, whether it is physical changes or psychological changes, they have a great impact. Therefore, many women are unwilling to have a second child, let alone a third child, and they are unwilling to have a child no matter how much money.
A family has good financial conditions. Someone helps to bring the children. If you want to have three children, you have to agree with the woman. If
meets the above 4 conditions, three children can be considered. Z1z
writes at the end:
giving birth to a family is a major event in the family, and it needs to be discussed with the whole family, and it depends on the actual situation. It is not an expert's suggestion that a second child will have a second child, and a third child will have a third child. After all, it is not Experts help give birth and raise children.
If the country rewards childbirth, are you willing to have two or three children?
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