Teenagers from junior high school to high school are in their most ignorant period. Adults feel like this, they are like that. They always feel wronged and unwilling to act according to the adult’s method (why do they say what we do), they have this kind of psychology, so they call it "rebellious" ".
What rights should parents give their children
autonomy
"you should", "you must", "what do you know" and so on are the mantras of many parents. Parents are advised to say as little as possible in the face of children in the rebellious period. Children who believe that they are already adults will not accept this kind of command.
have the right to speak
"If you don’t get into college, go sweep the road" and other words, many parents have said to their children, although it is for the children’s good, their ears have become calloused, and they can say yes to these words in the rebellious period "A hundred poisons will not invade" anymore. At this time, parents should talk less and listen more to understand what the child is thinking.
Time control rights
Children in this period are eager to have their own little world. Therefore, parents should not make their own claims. They should arrange their children’s time to full according to their own wishes. The children should arrange the time by themselves. Where it is reasonable, parents should make suggestions in a negotiating tone, and don't negate the child entirely.
Privacy rights
After children enter junior high school, some parents find that the children who used to talk to themselves have become less concerned about themselves, and the children have begun to have their own locked diary and private letters. Professor Xu said that if children really do not want to communicate with their parents, they should not be too forceful, especially not to peep into their children's privacy. While respecting children, they also earn respect for themselves.
Voting rights
Some major events in the family, such as moving, buying a house, etc., may wish to discuss with the child, consider the child’s feelings, ask for their opinions, and in a democratic family, the child is generally able to approach their parents.
Some pictures and texts come from the network
editing and typesetting | Cao Yunmei Li Yumeng
Graphic review | Liang Tao Shi Yuhang
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-