The bed-sharing of mother and baby is in line with the traditional Chinese parenting concept.
is convenient for breastfeeding and easy to take care of the baby.
changes to wet diapers in the middle of the night, night milk or something,
feeds directly next to him, and immediately falls asleep after feeding
How convenient is it that you don’t need to open the quilt and sit up. Why do you want a crib?
occupies space, and it won’t take a few years to be idle
wasting money, and also occupying space
……
In short, there are many reasons to tell you that
does not need to buy a crib
baby sleeps with you
Actually, it is not certain To be like the West,
babies must sleep in their own cots
or the baby must sleep in their own room
to exercise the baby’s independence
babies born before 3 years old
is more important than exercise independence. One point is that
feels the love of parents
. So, at this time,
, if the baby is very dependent on you
, then it’s not safe to accompany the baby to sleep in the same bed
just need to pay attention to safety
I am more supportive of starting from reality
It doesn’t affect the baby, just be happy with each other.
Recently, I was reading the secrets of childhood
. I learned why
should contact her mother immediately after the baby was born. Because she needs our body temperature to bring her a sense of security.
Sleeping in bed with mother and baby is indeed beneficial Maintaining a close parent-child relationship
facilitates mothers to feed and take care of their babies at night.
actually sleeps with the baby,
we can also have some more scientific methods and skills~
such as:
1. Choose a large bed + baby anti-pressure crib
1.8 meters or 2 meters large bed, plus a small A small baby anti-pressure crib is also enough. Babies have their own space, so they don’t have to worry about being crushed, and they don’t have to worry about sucking in the carbon dioxide from the two of you. Buy all kinds of cute cribs. I think
can be bought at grandma’s or grandma’s house. It would be better for temporary use. In her own home, Xuan's mother still recommends buying a crib. Choose different beds in the same room, but you can also be very close to your parents.
2. Baby crib, splicing bed
crib can actually be used as a splicing bed, one side of the guardrail is put down, the baby can see mom and dad. It's also very safe. And the crib can actually let the baby sleep up to 4.5 years old. Later, the crib can be transformed into a sofa, toy space, etc. It is also very practical.
Now the girl is sleeping on the big bed with us.
We let the girl sleep in the innermost position
is equivalent to making a space for herself
suddenly remembered that in the winter in Hunan, the little girl slept in a small bed by herself,
would climb to an hour before getting up every morning. Sleeping among us,
may be acting like a baby, or it may be heating up, anyway, the daily wake-up ceremony is quite fun.
Now on weekends, when the family sleeps until they wake up naturally,
will also coquettishly say, I want to sleep among you, and then
will roll from me to the middle.
This really becomes a wake-up ceremony.
So, when do you share a room with us?
I am determined not to force her to sleep on her own.