Guiding children to clean up toys is not as simple as it seems

I’m Martian 30. This is the [758] day of Riseng’s plan. The whole house was almost flooded with children's toys. At the beginning of the topic of

, everyone couldn’t stop. They complained about the variety of their own toys. After complaining to the end, they started discussing again. Recently, there are no new fun toys to buy~~

In fact, many parents will encounter this The situation is that the toys in the house are everywhere, and they are almost piled up, but the children love the new and dislike the old, have no interest in those old toys, and always want to buy new ones.

is the same situation in our house. Newly bought toys were thrown everywhere in a short time, and they were sent to him to play. He also found it meaningless. The old toys neither "go", and new toys "come" constantly.

Actually, the root cause of this problem is that parents often buy toys for their children intemperately, and they do not sort them out. The result is a vicious circle. The more toys they buy, the less the children are interested in toys.

Our family also tried to communicate with the child several times. The toys that were not cleaned up were sealed up, but after several times, they found no effect. Over time, we feel that tidying up is useless, waste time, let the children play freely.

However, I recently participated in a book club, which mentioned the importance of "dissociation", and suddenly discovered that the ability in this area is still very important, and it is necessary to cultivate children's ability in this area since childhood.

Many times, we regard tidying up as a tedious and boring housework. But in fact, organizing and storing is not a simple throwing and placing of items, but a process of decision-making and judgment.

Arrangement and storage are not the same thing, but in order. Organizing is to selectively and consciously reserve suitable items for yourself. The storage can be entered after the complete management. Otherwise, there is no such process as the storage is just creating a beautiful warehouse.

Before we cleaned up toys in our house, we were actually storing them. We put away all the things we didn't play, and ignored the process of tidying up.

In fact, storage is classified on the basis of sorting, so that your things are arranged logically and structured. According to your thinking and behavior habits, you can form a system where you can return to your place at will and make life easier without knowing it.

For adults, we have to learn relevant knowledge in this area to be able to teach our children.

Let’s take a brief look at the benefits of organizing storage:

1, free up space;

is the most direct effect. Many people’s rooms are always occupied by some useless things, which can easily become a burden for you and work hard overtime. Earning money to buy a house, but instead of living in a more comfortable life, it is full of things that depreciate all the time. This account is definitely not worthwhile. From a simple economic point of view, you need to sort it out.

2, reduce the burden of attention; when the social development of

was not so fast in the past, there were few things at home, so it was easy to find. But now let’s take a look at how many things a random family has, especially the convenience of e-commerce, causing many people to suddenly buy a lot of things with hand injuries. A random family of three may have more than 10,000 things. The more things

have, the more effort it takes to manage them. Whether it is buying things, using things, looking for things, or deciding what to do with things you don’t want, they are constantly consuming your money, time and brain resources. These unorganized things do not belong to you, but they occupy you.

people’s energy is limited. There are so many things you have to do, work, study, and be with your family. You should not spend a lot of time looking for things and tidying things up. From an efficiency point of view, people need to organize.

3. Improve decision-making ability;

is a decision-making process, especially sorting, which is based on a person’s real and accurate needs, re-examining items, and then making a decision whether or not. The simplest decision-making ability training of

is to start from your own personal belongings, judge the value, and assess the risk. Only when something big happens in the future can you make a better decision.

4, bring yourself a good environment and a good image;

nobody likes a messBad people, whether at home or in the office, this is the most intuitive basic image. Organizing and storing can help you transform from passive chaos to refreshing and capable. This kind of image with control will strengthen the positive perception of people around you.

From the above points, we can see that it is very necessary to train oneself to organize and organize. Parents are the best role models for children. Only parents who learn by themselves can guide children on the basis of precepts and deeds.

Keywords: sorting, storage, dismissal