"She ate twelve pumpkins from me while she was in confinement, and she still accuses me of abusing her. Didn't I let her eat badly? She is so unscrupulous, I am not willing to eat those twelve pumpkins, and I am not willing to let the pigs at home eat..." An old man in simple clo

"She ate twelve pumpkins from me while she was in confinement, and she still accuses me of abusing her. Didn't I let her eat well?

She is so unscrupulous. I am not willing to eat those twelve pumpkins, and I am not willing to let the pigs at home eat them..."

An old man in simple clothes cried bitterly in front of the camera, accusing his daughter-in-law of eating too much and making it difficult to feed her.

I originally thought she was an unruly daughter-in-law, but after listening carefully to what this mother-in-law said, I discovered that a mother-in-law only ate twelve pumpkins during her confinement period.

was accused like this. She thought she was an evil daughter-in-law, but she turned out to be an evil mother-in-law. He still has the nerve to cry in front of the camera and accuse his daughter-in-law.

Is it because the family is too poor? Why did twelve pumpkins cause a mother-in-law to be bullied like this by her mother-in-law?

Eating pumpkin during the confinement period makes the mother-in-law feel distressed and shed tears

Since ancient times, the most serious conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is confinement hatred. If confinement period is good, family harmony will be harmonious. If confinement period is not done well, the family will be uneasy.

During this month, you will always encounter some unbearable grievances.

Fang Baoqin and her husband met through a blind date. They were both of marriageable age, and they had the opportunity to get married through an intermediary.

As the woman, Fang Baoqin saw that the other party was a hard-working person with a monthly salary of about 10,000 yuan.

Such conditions are considered very good in their local area, and the other party also feels that Fang Baoqin is a good wife and mother, so the two of them hit it off.

Not long after the two got along, they came to the point of talking about marriage. At first, they thought it was the beginning of happiness, but they didn't expect that this was actually a tomb.

Not long after the two got married, Fang Baoqin discovered that her husband was too obedient and always asked her mother-in-law about everything.

Her mother-in-law has the final say in almost everything about the couple, and her husband is what everyone often calls a mama's boy.

My husband is indeed very capable, and his monthly salary is quite high, but the spending of this money is almost always decided by his mother-in-law.

At first, I thought I would find someone with good conditions so that I could enjoy happiness after marriage, but my mother-in-law was very frugal.

But to put it harshly, it is stingy, and the living standard after marriage is not as good as that in the parents' family.

Not only did her mother-in-law not let her eat meat, she couldn't even wear her own clothes.

Sometimes I would even wake up hungry in the middle of the night. I couldn't stand it anymore and had to sneak back to my parents' house to have a good meal.

She is a rural woman. People around her advised her that they had just gotten married, and the situation at her mother-in-law's family was better than her own.

As a new daughter-in-law, she would inevitably be treated as an outsider by her mother-in-law. If she had given birth to a child earlier, she might have been able to make her mother-in-law accept her sooner.

So Fang Baoqin tolerated it as much as she could at her mother-in-law's house. It didn't take long for her to get pregnant as she wished. She originally thought that she would finally be accepted by her mother-in-law.

But when she was in confinement after giving birth, Fang Baoqin realized that her mother-in-law was not a good person at all.

Women need nutrition very much during confinement, but Fang Baoqin’s confinement was all about pumpkins under the arrangement of her mother-in-law.

In this way, she ate twelve pumpkins during confinement. Who would give these to mothers during confinement? Fang Baoqin was originally very aggrieved.

But what she didn't expect was that her mother-in-law didn't want her to eat the twelve pumpkins, thinking they were too wasteful.

As a pregnant woman, Fang Baoqin also knew that she could not eat pumpkin every day, so she also proposed that she wanted to eat meat.

But her mother-in-law is not willing to let her eat pumpkin, so how can she let her eat meat, so every time she wants to eat meat, her mother-in-law will teach her about the previous conditions.

roughly means how difficult it was in my mother-in-law's time, how difficult it was to eat a meal of meat, and how hard it was during confinement.

As time went by, Fang Baoqin stopped mentioning eating meat, but her mother-in-law still felt that she ate too much.

even started to complain in front of the camera. His daughter-in-law ate twelve pumpkins, but he was reluctant to eat them and even shed tears of distress.

Seeing that the whole family was like this, Fang Baoqin was completely disappointed.

The woman was completely disappointed and ran away from home.

Fang Baoqin's grievances were not important in front of her mother-in-law. Her husband never cared about her feelings and just let her endure it.

and repeatedly defended his mother, ignored his wife, and even told his wife to be obedient and not to cause trouble, otherwise she would inevitably be beaten.

After living up to this point, Fang Baoqin filed for divorce and got out of the sea of ​​misery earlier.

originally thought that she could leave, but she had already given birth to a child, and the various preachings from the aunts and wives around her made her soften.

The couple chose to remarry, but this time the remarriage did not make each other cherish her more, but made them think that she could not live without their son.

After remarrying, she even bullied her. Even her husband helped her mother-in-law bully her.

When she remarried, her husband's sweet words turned into nothing, and his attitude made her mother-in-law even worse.

Even her father-in-law started to cause trouble for her for no reason, and sometimes even beat her.

The rest of the family just looked on with cold eyes. My husband was a soft-footed shrimp. As long as he stopped passing sticks around, there was no hope at all.

The stingy mother-in-law, cruel father-in-law, and indifferent husband, the family's face has been completely exposed. The beautiful imagination before marriage has now turned into a nightmare.

This time, Fang Baoqin completely lost hope. As soon as the confinement period was completed, he didn't even care about the child, just abandoned the child and escaped from this fire pit.

Because she had done it once before, her departure this time did not attract the attention of her mother-in-law and husband.

And the child is still in their hands. As a mother, she will never leave her child alone.

With their children in hand, the whole family was waiting for Fang Baoqin to come back.

But this time Fang Baoqin finally escaped, how could he come back so easily.

The child's mother left, and the care of the child naturally fell on the mother-in-law. She originally thought that she would be back soon.

But there was no response after a long time, and the issue of taking care of the child was really a headache.

So the family wanted to invite Fang Baoqin back, but Fang Baoqin's parents didn't say a word about her whereabouts.

But a sudden phone call completely ruined the family's plans.

His wife gave birth to a child, and her wishful thinking was completely in vain

Fang Baoqin's husband could not find her, but he always felt that the child was at home, and even if he left, he would still come back.

Until he got a phone call, the other party came up and congratulated him. He had another child. Now he has a son and a daughter. He has time to go through the procedures for the child.

He was also confused. His wife was not pregnant when she ran away from home. How come she has given birth to a second child now?

In order to find out what was going on, he hurried to the place where he needed to go through the formalities and asked the other party if they had left an address.

What I got was a strange place, not my own home, nor Fang Baoqin’s natal home. After

found the address, Fang Baoqin was indeed in the house, holding a newborn baby in her hand.

Standing next to his wife was a strange man, and the two of them moved intimately and ambiguously.

Even his mother-in-law was helping to take care of the child. Only then did he realize that his wife had abandoned the child and had a child with another man.

A piece of green grassland fell on his head. The anger in his heart suddenly came to his head, and he started to scold his wife.

stood on the highest moral level and wanted Fang Baoqin to be ashamed, but the other party didn't even look at him.

saw that he was being ignored, and even made a move on the spot later, but no matter how much trouble he made, Fang Baoqin ignored him.

The attitude of her mother-in-law's family towards her completely disappointed her. No matter what the other party said, she did not want to have anything to do with him anymore.

Regaining true love after leaving home in frustration

At first, Fang Baoqin escaped from her mother-in-law's house, but she still wanted to live, so she chose to go out to work.

After having money, she could also have her own freedom, and when she went out to work, she met her current boyfriend, the father of her second child.

Compared to her husband, her boyfriend’s family is not in a good financial situation, and his monthly salary is not much.

But her boyfriend was very kind to her, and feelings developed between the two of them.

Fang Baoqin suffered a lot in her husband's house. Now that such a person appears, she is naturally happy, but she has been married and given birth to children.

was afraid that being with the other person would drag him down, so he told his boyfriend about his past.

didn't expect that the other party didn't dislike it, and the two of them became more candid.

In addition, the two people are in free love, and their relationship is more stable.

But before they could fully enjoy their world together, Fang Baoqin got pregnant unexpectedly.

Because of the failure of her first marriage, whether or not to have this child has become a worry for her.

When her boyfriend found out about this, he agreed to give birth to the child, and her boyfriend's mother was very kind to her.

Although their family background is not good, everyone from her boyfriend to her boyfriend's mother holds Fang Baoqin in their hands.

From the time of delivery to the postpartum confinement period, we gave her the best as possible. We provided a variety of nutritious meals and never stopped eating meat and eggs.

Compared to my previous mother-in-law, my boyfriend’s mother has nothing to say to me. No matter who she is, she knows what to choose.

Now that such a fuss has been made, Fang Baoqin's husband still thinks it is his wife's fault.

The two have never divorced, but now his wife has given birth to a child by another man, so she wants Fang Baoqin to go back with her.

After all, their current relationship is still protected by law, but Fang Baoqin doesn't think so.

She has suffered enough grievances. Now she has finally found a man who treats her well. She never wants to jump into that fire pit again.

She only has one idea now: she wants to divorce and completely cut off relations with her mother-in-law and her family.

But can her husband let her go easily?

Fang Baoqin made up her mind to divorce and vowed never to remarry.

Fang Baoqin saw clearly the true face of her husband's family. After her husband found out, she did not want to go back. Many people came to persuade her, and even her husband's relatives threatened her.

But she just wanted to divorce her husband. Both parties had their own reasons, and the matter finally reached the village committee.

So the two sides came together in the village committee to vent their bitterness.

Fang Baoqin's husband threatened her because they had not yet divorced. This was bigamy. If she wanted to sue, they would go to jail.

Fang Baoqin’s boyfriend knew that the two of them were together in a bad name and their words were not smooth. Hearing that the other party was going to send his girlfriend to jail, he wanted the other party to let them go.

Such setbacks made the husband's family even more arrogant and even wanted to take his wife home.

The current husband's family is like a den of jackals to Fang Baoqin. She can go in but may not be able to come out again.

Therefore, Fang Baoqin is very sure that even if he is accused and goes to court and goes to jail, he will not go back to that pit of fire again.

This was Fang Baoqin's only wish. Seeing how determined she was, the person she wanted to persuade completely shut her mouth.

Finally, after mediation, Fang Baoqin's husband finally relented, but they still have a son at home. Now that they are divorced, the child will naturally be in their hands.

Fang Baoqin had to pay monthly if he did not fulfill his obligation to support her, so he proposed to pay 1,500 a month in support.

Seeing that he could finally get a divorce, he happily agreed.

Seeing her agreeing so quickly, her husband panicked and felt that the money he wanted was less, so her husband and father-in-law immediately regretted it.

bluntly asked for more money. Fang Baoqin's patience reached its peak and he directly rejected the request for more money.

Seeing that the request was rejected, her father-in-law turned against her on the spot and brought up the crime of bigamy again.

warned Fang Baoqin to pay him obediently, otherwise when it comes to court, Fang Baoqin, as the at-fault party, will definitely lose more money.

Fang Baoqin's husband is a weakling. When his father said this, he obediently threw away the pen in his hand.

Fang Baoqin was heartbroken and asked him to tell her. This sentence left her husband helpless.

could only sign the mediation letter, but even after the matter was over, he did not understand what he was doing in terms of income, family background, and appearance.

He was not inferior to Fang Baoqin's current boyfriend. He couldn't understand why his wife not only betrayed him, but also wanted to divorce him at all costs.

He never understood that character was much more important than family status. The whole family criticized Fang Baoqin harshly, and sometimes even beat her up.

No amount of good family conditions can make up for this. Divorce is a matter of time between two people.

However, his threat of bigamy to Fang Baoqin did indeed violate the law.

But what Fang Baoqin did was helpless. I hope she can be happy in her future life.