The same treasure in the same world, throw whatever you see! Is the baby who throws things unbearable? In fact, the relationship between being good or not is only a little bit, mainly because of the following reasons:
Such an annoying action actually contains many little secrets of the baby.
Adults seemingly simple movements, but in fact, it is not simple for children. It requires the combination of hands and eyes and depends on the coordination ability of hands and eyes. Through visual cooperation, the limbs control the hand to the designated position, which then tests the grasping ability of the palm. The five fingers are flexible to open and close, and at the same time, they need to have a certain upper arm support to successfully complete the throwing action.
In addition to the above parts of exercise, children can also sense the whereabouts and heights of objects from the process of throwing things, and inform children of their logical analytical power. What should they do if the benefits outweigh the disadvantages?
◆It is the process of the baby understanding the world
For a child, throw an item out, when there will be countless question marks deep in his heart. For example: Why does the ball thrown up by itself? If an apple is thrown, why does water splash? , it can even be observed that different items fall at different speeds, and different strange sounds will be made, etc. These are one of the reasons why children get old and pick different items and throw them on the ground. When children face the unknown world, their minds are full of questions, which prompts them to find answers through repeated explorations.
◆It is the way for babies to express emotions
Babies will grow up one by one, one by one a day. As you grow up, you will naturally feel self-awareness. When you have emotions that need to be expressed, you will choose to throw things to express your inner emotions if you lack words.
Some points to note when throwing things:
① Clearly tell your child what to throw and what not to throw: This is a lesson learned from all mothers: you must tell your child what not to throw, and some things are not suitable to throw, parents should patiently persuade them, tell the purpose of the item, what dangers will be if thrown, etc.
② Provide children with items to throw toss: such as balls that can be held, sponge-made frisbee, dolls, etc. Under the supervision of parents, these toys will generally not be in danger of throwing them to children. At the same time, parents can also play with each other to enhance the relationship between parents and children.
◆Children's cathartic throwing things
Facing with the child's cathartic throwing things, parents must stop this behavior in the "cradle". Pay attention to observing the child’s reactions and feelings. If the child throws things to the attention of parents, then parents should solve the problem from the root, give their children more company, and satisfy their sense of security. Point out the right way to express your needs for your parents. If the child throws things to vent his emotions, parents should provide their children with suitable ways of venting.
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