Still remember that when a lazy mother was breastfeeding, there was a "human" around her. Reminder: Never sleep with breastfeeding, otherwise you will not be able to quit in the future. The baby will always have to eat and sleep.
In fact, lazy mothers resisted this statement at that time, and the main reason was that it was difficult for to coax them to sleep . They spent more time to coax them to sleep every day, and they were about to fall asleep. The baby had not yet fallen asleep. The milk sleep could allow the baby to fall asleep easily and easily, and he could sleep for a while.
Why do babies like to eat milk and sleep?
There is certainly a reason why babies like to eat milk and sleep.
- The first reason is the special effect of breast milk.
As we all know, breast milk is the most suitable baby food for infants and young children because it is natural and non-irritating, economical and safe, nutritious and delicious, easy to absorb, in short, there are many benefits.
However, in order to protect the mother, breast milk has another good effect, that is, breast milk contains a certain amount of " sedative-killing-" ~ a natural morphine substance.
When the baby eats a certain amount of breast milk, it will produce a sedation effect, which can make the baby fall asleep after taking milk.
What's more, breast milk itself has a strong soothing effect of .
This is very consistent with the principles of nature, so that the mother can rest and recover after breastfeeding.
- The second reason is that the baby is really tired.
says that eating milk is a physical job, and this is true. The baby needs to use a lot of effort when consuming milk. When the weather is not that hot, if the baby eats a meal, you will find that the baby is warm and there are some fine little sweat beads on his head. It is really hard to eat milk.
So I don’t know when I started saying this: “ uses all the energy to feed ”.
, especially for babies within three months of the year, because has a small stomach capacity and emptied quickly. You have to eat milk every 12-3 hours.
How much effort does it take to finish a day? So sometimes even if the baby is not full, he will fall asleep halfway because he is too tired.
If you are full, it is easier to fall asleep peacefully with a satisfied face.
- The third reason is that the baby really needs to sleep.
The growth and development of a baby cannot be separated from sleep, and the younger the baby, the longer the sleep time it takes.
The sleep time required for newborns is about 18 to 20 hours per day.
htmlbaby 12-3 months old sleep time is about 16 to 18 hours a day.
-6 months of age babies sleep about 14 to 16 hours a day.
When the baby is already sleepy, eating milk will be like dozing off someone gives him a pillow, so why don’t you go to bed quickly!
Moreover, in fact, the baby does not only like to sleep with breasts, but also likes to sleep with and shaking .
mainly sleeping methods, which makes the baby feel more secure and comfortable to sleep.
The baby can "hide" in the mother's arms. The feeling of being surrounded by warmth is like the feeling of being tightly surrounded by the uterus in the mother's belly, as if there are still a lot of amniotic fluid swaying around, making the baby feel comfortable and at ease.
Is it really that bad to sleep with milk? In fact, sleeping with milk is not as terrible as you imagined!
Many people say that babies cannot sleep while eating breasts, because this is not good for babies:
The baby always holds the nipple/head while sleeping. In fact, in addition to , it is easy to cause chapped nipple/head , and it may also cause bacteria to breed because of the long time of breast storage, so
Moreover, if the baby maintains the breastfeeding position for a long time, may also affect the development of the maxillary bone , change the structure of the baby's entire face, and affect the baby's appearance.
In addition, when the baby is sleeping while eating milk, he may contain milk in his mouth and fall asleep before he swallows it. If the baby suddenly wakes up, he may choke on by milk and put the baby in a dangerous situation.
But in fact, milk sleep is really not that scary. is compared to a baby who coaxes over and over again and is unwilling to sleep, and is very lacking in sleep and can sleep while standing. Breast sleep can make the baby fall asleep quickly , which allows the mother to spend less energy to coax her to sleep, and he can rest more by himself. What is the meaning of a breast sleep!
Of course, it does not mean that lazy mothers recommend sleeping with breasts, but only the comparison of is just a choice.
To be honest, lazy mothers also let the baby sleep while eating breastfeeding. They really lack sleep during breastfeeding. They completely rescued themselves by sleeping on breastfeeding. Moreover, the baby sleeps normally after weaning, and there is no so-called dependence or bad teeth.
Many mothers around me also feel this way. Since giving up on the shortcomings of sleeping with breast milk, they have been much more relaxed. After all, many families actually have mothers taking care of their children alone, but it does not include taking care of their children only. Only they know the hardships.
Although milk sleeps "good", you can't always indulge in it.
In fact, if the baby is often allowed to sleep while eating milk, the baby will be more dependent on his mother than before. If there is no family helping him take care of the baby, in addition to reducing the time to coax him to bed, the baby will be even less free when he is awake, because the baby doesn’t have anyone else except the mother.
so it is best to correct it at the appropriate time of .
Baby usually fall asleep at to 6 months old. Parents can correct the habit of when they like to eat milk and sleep.
is just that some babies are more dependent and should not be too tough when executing. Try to use a gentle method.
If the baby is more resistant or crying hard, you can try again when the baby is
During this period, parents should do two more things:
Babies have deep obsession with their . They may not care so much when they are young. When the baby gets older, they will appear more meticulous in the execution of the .
" American Academy of Pediatrics Parenting Encyclopedia " on the sleeping advice of babies 4-7 months old: Babies are more alert and active at this stage, and it may be difficult to calm down at night. Developing a consistent "bedtime routine" for him will help him fall asleep.
So parents can help the baby set it first, such as taking a bath, brushing teeth, eating breasts, turning off the lights, telling stories, listening to music, chatting, etc.
can be set according to the baby's specific situation. Then when these bedtime programs are performed every day, the baby will consciously have the idea of sleeping with .
Usually, mothers usually have more mothers to accompany their babies, so many babies will rely more on their mothers.
But our family, especially fathers, should spend more time with their babies and increase the parent-child relationship with them.
This way, when quitting milk, coaxing to sleep, or weaning, or even daily life, can better "stand alone". prevents fathers from becoming the most useless maternal and child products and babies over-reliance on mothers.
Baby likes to sleep with breasts. It is normal for them to sleep with hugs and sway. Parents don’t need to be as nervous as they face a big enemy. Who doesn’t have any hobbies? If you can’t beat them, just join.
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