Meimei: If you don’t have money, don’t have children? Then how did you come?
Meimei read a comment from a five-month-old mother yesterday, which was really chilling! Meimei just wants such a comment. Most netizens have seen it. I don’t know what you think, but Meimei thinks that people who comment like this are too cold-blooded! Meimei wanted to tell her own opinions. Interested friends can come and argue!
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1. Don’t get pregnant if you don’t have money?
Don’t get pregnant if you don’t have money? Don’t have children if you don’t have money? Meimei wants to ask these people: Who gives you the power to interfere with the right of others to get pregnant and have children? Even the law has no right to interfere with women's freedom of childbirth. Where can you get the right to say such things!
Although the mother kept complaining that she had no money, the mother did not ask her friends for funding. How could she say that she didn’t have the right to complain?
Meimei wants to ask these people even more, if you count for three generations, are there all rich people in your family? If you follow your logic, shouldn’t you exist in this world?
Meimei doesn't want to blame anyone, she just hopes that everyone is kinder. You can't understand what the other party has experienced. You can choose to be silent, but please don't be a hurt keyboard warrior. You have to know that your insignificant words may be the last snowflake on the eve of the avalanche!
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2. Men who make women pregnant are not responsible?
Since it is something that needs to be done for men in the eyes of netizens, then the one who should be criticized is not a man who cannot take responsibility after making a woman pregnant? Why can only blame the injured woman? How can this theory of guilt of victims be used so naturally? The expectant mother in
is a married man with a husband. Compared to everyone who criticized Baoma, Meimei felt that she should call on her husband to take on his own responsibilities!
From ancient times to the present, men and women have their own responsibilities. Since women have assumed their own responsibilities for fertility during the fertility stage, men should also work hard to give their wives a safe fertility environment!
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3. Having children is also the power of women
Furthermore, having children is a choice in itself, and it is a decision that women can make on their own! Since a woman chooses to give birth to a five-month-old child, she is at least a responsible mother. Although the comments from many netizens are out of good intentions, the comments in good intentions reveal malicious guidance, and such words are also very hurtful!
Besides, the mother in the dynamics is now in trouble and wants to have a breathable outlet! He did not ask netizens to donate and fund it, but just wanted to find a place to complain. As women, if we cannot understand and are unwilling to sympathize, please do not blame or stimulate her with cold needs.
Women during pregnancy are sentimental. If men cannot understand, women should be able to understand, and every woman who has experienced the reproductive stage should understand even more! Therefore, as a woman, why bother to ignore another woman who is in a difficult stage!
4. Only by kind suggestions and comments can she overcome the difficulties in front of her!
Meimei read the comments under the news in detail. Fortunately, among the many bad comments, a few people chose to understand and provide appropriate suggestions, although they did not receive a reply from their mother.
Meimei wants to thank all kind people, and at the same time hope that more people can become such people.Because only when more people choose to help people in need solve problems, the world will become warmer, and people in need will be more confident in the future, and the occurrence of many tragedies in can be reduced!
suggestions from netizens
Meimei wants to say that the hardest thing for women is not poverty, not fatigue, but grievance! I made the wrong choice in a ignorant situation. When I wanted to find help, I found that I was surrounded by people who were taking advantage of the situation! Men cannot understand the difficulty of giving birth, so how can women not understand the pain of giving birth! Why should women make things difficult for women? Please be kind [rose] [rose]!
Meimei is also a single mother and is currently in the most difficult stage, so there are times when complaining, but that is only a moment. Fortunately, she has also received the support and understanding of many netizens, so now she can face the future with more confidence! Meimei is here to thank all the kind netizens! Thanks!
At the same time, Meimei also hopes that all unfortunate women can overcome the current difficulties smoothly and gain more understanding and support from others! At the same time, I also hope that people who have been trapped in sadness will get out of their emotional dilemma as soon as possible and find the hope in their hearts as soon as possible. Come on!
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