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"As long as I am not embarrassed, the embarrassing is someone else."
In our lives, there are always some things that say the wrong words or send the wrong message. However, at that moment, I simply wanted to find a crack in the ground and crawl into it, and I had no shame to see people.
Parents accidentally sent a message to the class group and experienced the embarrassing "moment of social death"
In the class group, the teacher always notifies some important matters or reminds parents to prepare some things. When parents reply after seeing the message, it is also a respect for the teacher. However, it is when you reply that you often make mistakes.
This teacher reminded parents to remember to let their children take their hands on their work, and the parents also replied that they would complete it on time. However, there was a parent who did not play by the rules and sent the message that should have been sent to his wife to the class group. If he accidentally did not take any attention, his opinions were seen by the teachers and parents.
This male parent complained to his wife that the teacher always assigned homework and would turn around the homework every day. If he didn't pay attention, he would express his thoughts that most parents dare not say. At this time, other parents probably liked him in their hearts.
After seeing this embarrassing "moment of social death", netizens said:
"There are too many such moments. Once I sent a message to the male head teacher and typed the teacher as my husband. Because I usually send messages to my husband, after I typed old characters, the input method was matched with the male characters by default. I was so embarrassed at the time that I no longer dared to look directly into the head teacher's eyes."
"Once, my husband went to pick up his child from school. It was the first time he met the class teacher. The class teacher was a little fat and a little black, so he wanted to send me a message to complain. Unexpectedly, he went to the class group by mistake. He said why his son's class teacher was a black fat? I wanted to quit the group at that time." The difference of one word may be a huge difference, As an adult parent, he should also be a positive role model and leave a good impression on the teacher. If parents have high quality and actively cooperate with the school's work, then teachers will have a better impression of their children.
★In the class group, parents should pay attention to these points:
●Before sending, check the information
After the child goes to kindergarten, there will be an additional "parent group" in the parents' address book that is set to the top state, for fear of missing important information sent by the teacher.
Moreover, various group messages such as work groups, communication groups, parent groups, etc. will jingle and jingle every day. It is precisely because of this reason that many parents will send wrong messages between various groups.
In order to avoid embarrassing situations, before sending a message, we need to see the content we sent and the group name we are in, check whether it is correct, and then send it out. This action takes about 10 seconds. It not only saves you a lot of trouble, but also avoids leaving an impression on others.
●See the notification content clearly
Sometimes the school’s notifications will be more concentrated and numerous. If the teacher sends too frequently, then parents will see the information incorrectly. If you see
too quickly, you will also have a mistake in understanding. Once parents misunderstand the teacher’s meaning or misread important information such as the time and place of the information, it may cause unnecessary trouble.
Parents are often busy. Whether it is housework or work, they will take up a lot of their energy. I believe the teacher will understand it. However, the teacher’s work also requires the cooperation and understanding of parents.When you see the teacher’s notification or information, parents spend a few minutes patiently reading it. Cooperating with the teacher’s work will not only save the teacher’s worries, but also learn about some of the school’s activities and arrangements, which will better help their children.
●Don’t chat, ask the teacher separately if you have something to do
The reason why many parents have embarrassing moments in the parent group is that they chat too much.
Parents, you have to talk about one sentence after another. Then when chatting, you may forget that this is a parent group, which will lead to "there will be mistakes if you talk too much", chat too hard, and inappropriate words.
Parent group is generally a platform that is mainly teachers and is used to send notifications. If parents want to chat, they can chat with each other privately or create a small group chat to avoid occupying large group resources, affecting the teacher's work, and other parents who read group notifications.
If parents really have questions and want to consult, they can send a private message to the teacher alone, which can also avoid the embarrassing moment of saying the wrong words because of too much chat.
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The reason why the parent group has existed in recent years is that it has certain advantages. Although there was no WeChat more than ten years ago, teachers could communicate and visit home with parents, but this also caused a lot of trouble to teachers and took up personal time after school.
Nowadays, the advancement of technology not only brings convenience to our lives, but also greatly helps students' learning and growth. Parents can communicate with teachers at any time, understand students' dynamics, and guide their children in a timely manner, which is also very helpful for their children's growth.
Parents, have you ever sent the wrong message?
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