I am Yan Xiaoyan, a full-time mother born in the 1990s who lives and writes while living. Click [Follow] above to improve myself and grow diligently with me.
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Hello, I am Yan Xiaoyan.
Recently, I have received a lot of encouragement messages because of frequent updates to articles. Especially the messages from full-time mothers touched me even more. I thought I could have an income in the gap between raising children. They said they wanted to learn from me, but they had no direction, and were afraid of not having time, energy, and even more afraid of being eliminated by society. I hope I could share my experience.
This should be the happiest thing I have ever written. It is regarded as a benchmark and a learning object by some full-time mothers like me. This is also my biggest gain since my writing.
Because I am a full-time mother and I am working in self-media, I have attracted a group of friends with the same frequency. We all have a similar point: taking care of children, liking to write, and wanting to monetize by writing.
In fact, it is not difficult to monetize the writing of . As long as there is a correct method and persistence, it can be achieved. But there is another factor behind this that is easy to disrupt the plan, that is time management.
Today, I will share with you an article about "Can you really make money while taking care of your children?" I will share it with you with your own personal experience, hoping to help you in front of the screen.
1. First, I share with you my day schedule:
Because I am one-and-two, the second baby is just three years old, and I don’t have much time to allocate. Except for the 8 hours of sleep, I have to share the rest of the day with three meals, housework, homework, companionship, etc. The last time is the time I can arrange freely.
01. Use the plan to make plans for tomorrow before going to bed.
I will be used to writing tomorrow's to-do items with a pen before going to bed. Work, housework, exercise, and reading will be listed according to the importance. Then check the completion status of the day every night, and the completed drawings will be posted until tomorrow. I have been sticking to this habit for a year, and this habit can help me complete things in my life in an orderly manner, which is very helpful to people like me who have procrastination.
02. You don’t have to be too serious about some details in life.
Recently, I don’t know why I started to see a lot of videos or articles about the spotlessness of my home. These bloggers are keen on meticulously organizing the home.
To be honest, I followed suit when I saw it at first, but after a while, I gave up. I was too tired, not only my body and my mind were tired.
I don’t have the ability to buy some of the housework helpers recommended by these bloggers, nor do I have the time to organize them so carefully. Maybe my child is a bomb, and I’m just trying five or six times a day, but I can’t stand it and give up.
When I simply put the toys in the toy box, dragged them a floor, and sorted out the picture book, I had a lot of time. I spent all this time on reading and writing, which was so easy.
03. The big treasure brings two treasures, and the two treasures can play casually.
It is no exaggeration to say that after I gave up sorting my family, our family was like bombs every day, and the whole house was full of toys and books. I was too lazy to clean up, so I threatened Dabao and Erbao to clean up.
If the child is allowed to do whatever he wants at home, he will not disturb me, but the price is that the family is in a mess. But if you think this way: mess can give you more time to write, read, do what you like, and then monetize, and you can accept it happily.
2. About the direction of my writing.
I regard my full-time mother as a new job, starting from the three dimensions of heart, brain and hand, and re-organizing my life. Nowadays, I am not only a full-time mother, I can also monetize and become the most popular freelancer at the moment.
But I sorted out these three aspects about my writing direction. You can also ask yourself these three questions. After finding the answer, you can also write.
01. What do I want in my heart?
Before doing self-media, you must first be clear about what you want in your heart. Just like Xiaoyan, what I want most in my heart is that can accompany my children to grow up, but also have a job with income.
As a full-time mother, first of all, I definitely hope to be able to give my children a happy childhood through my own support and company.
But while they grow up, I can also achieve self-growth, and choosing self-media can well balance this life state.
02. What do I like to do?
After finding what you want, you must also clarify how to get closer to your goal step by step. The first condition is to know what you like to do. Xiaoyan does what you like to write.
The premise of accompanying and supporting children is to have sufficient theoretical support to solve various problems encountered in life, such as: children's education, homework, conflicts between second children, etc.
What you need to do at this time is to read, read a lot, Through reading, I found that my joys and sorrows, situations, and choices were not annihilated by time, but just a different way.
So my anxiety, confusion, and helplessness all came out, and I was understood, comforted, and warmed one by one.
If the input is a loading port, then the output is a switching port, and one entry, one input, one input, one spiritual world is composed.
03. What are my own advantages?
The mothers around me have outstanding abilities because they have backing, so they have no worries except monetization.
. I don’t have many advantages or post-protection. I can only learn a new skill to improve my competitiveness and rely on my favorite writing to achieve monetization.
So, Dear mothers, don’t rush to deny yourself first, think that you can’t know anything, seriously think about what your strengths are and what you like, and then clarify your goals and make efforts. You will definitely persist for a longer time.
As a full-time mother, to be honest, there is a huge gap in my heart. I feel a lot of reluctance to the past and a lot of unwillingness to the future, and I am also full of confusion and anxiety about the future. These are all a process, but you must know that no matter how you think, you can't change anything, it will only increase your worries.
We cannot change the past, but what will we become in the future and what we can become, then today we can have the final say. Focus on ability, live every day in the present, and your future life will definitely change. The same goes for full-time mothers.
Full-time mothers. We really can’t compete in career like professional women, but we can still work hard at home, just like Xiaoyan, who writes while taking care of the baby, has income and work, and at the same time realizes self-worth.
Finally, I want to say that full-time will not hinder you from becoming better, and will even help you become better. As long as you are rich and positive, you can still live a wonderful life.
or above, encourage them together.
Author introduction: [Yan Xiaoyan]
Love writing, and keep things as they happen
A post-90s who focuses on personal growth and self-media information
is relying on writing to change her brave women
slight words:
My biggest wish is to realize all freedom
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