I have nothing to do and summarize the twenty reasons why women I come into contact with don’t want children.
First, there is no throne in the family to inherit.
This first came out of my mind, to be honest, I was a little surprised. Maybe it's because now, now there are people who mention the throne, which may have impressed me a lot. The implication of not having the throne to be inherited is that I personally guess it is a luxury for the man's family status. Women who hold this view should believe that their children are born for men. Assuming that the man has a throne in his family that can allow his children to inherit, then this woman who may become the empress dowager in the future may be considered for giving birth.
Second, giving birth is painful.
It is said that the pain level of is quite high in . Of course, I must have never experienced it, but I can still imagine it when I see many film and television works and literary works. If a woman doesn’t even dare to look at the injection and is particularly afraid of it, then having a baby is undoubtedly an insurmountable psychological fear for her.
Third, the pregnancy process is very troublesome.
Such a big bag bulges out of the belly, and there are various things to pay attention to. If a girl says it’s not troublesome to get pregnant, then this girl may really be the kind of person who is not afraid of trouble at all. Moreover, this time is not three or two days, but it is often several months, and I cannot live my life as I wish. Some girls should also dislike this.
Fourth, there are many sequelae after giving birth.
There may be a lot of searches for fertility sequelae on the Internet, but for me personally, the biggest sequelae may be the body and skin problems. Although pregnancy is said to cure some minor health problems in women, compared with various potential sequelae, this should scare away many beautiful girls. The key is that among girls, the vast majority of them love beauty.
Fifth, raising children is more expensive.
Although things are compared, I feel that there are quite few people in today's society who don't want to compare with others at all and don't care about other people's opinions at all. Seeing that other people's children have a good material life, many girls must also want to give it to their children. However, due to limited conditions and if you or your husband's family cannot give it to you, many girls may indeed give up on the idea of having children. After all, no woman wants to let her children suffer.
No. 6, raising children is also more energy-consuming.
I have never raised a child, but I have raised a puppy. When a puppy first arrives in a new environment, he may bark all night long in the first few days, making it impossible to fall asleep. Kids, kids, kids, that's not a problem for the first few days. It may be that the first few months, or even longer, will take great energy to parents. Feeding, cleaning, and dealing with possible diseases will probably cause many people to collapse and despair.
No. 7, children will come to rely on their parents if they are unpromising.
Want your son will become a dragon and your daughter will become a phoenix is the long-cherished wish of many parents. But how many things in this world are you able to control? For example, when it comes to becoming a child, it is estimated that few parents do not want their children to become pillars of the country, but there are only so many children who can be considered promising. Of course, many people will worry that raising a child will be unprosperous and will not be able to make a good fortune, and will eventually worry about their pension money. It’s better not to raise children as soon as possible and live your own life.
8, it’s not worth it for good men to have too few bad men.
In the past two years, many scandals of male celebrities in the entertainment industry have been exposed, and I guess it has had a considerable impact on many women. In fact, no matter whether it is a man or a woman or any other object, as long as it is truly "good", it is scarce. A good man is no exception. As for having a baby with a bad man, it is probably not something that normal women with brains would consider.
ninth, having a baby is not a must.
In the farming era, having children may be a must-have option. If you don’t have children, you will have no labor force, and your family, including yourself, may have no food to eat. However, the 21st century has been around for more than 20 years, and having children is no longer a must for women.More and more women choose to live their own wonderful lives, not letting their children or even letting their marriage hinder themselves.
No. 10, I feel a little disappointed with the world and mankind.
I remember there was a heartwarming saying - "I hate the whole world, but I don't hate you at all." There are so many people on the earth, and I guess there will be people who hate the world. Especially since mankind entered modern society, various contradictions have been further highlighted. For example, environmental pollution and social violence incidents, many people may feel insecurity about the environment and feel disappointed with human beings. In this case, it is understandable that some people don’t want children.
11, I still have too many things to do.
also benefited from the development of human science and technology and the progress of civilization. Modern humans can do much more things than the residents of ancient times. As long as you have a certain economic foundation, many ordinary people can even enjoy it more than ancient emperors in a free environment. Of course, some people may pursue more than just enjoyment. They are more willing to explore the meaning of life and try different and more interesting lifestyles. If you don’t have children, you will certainly have more time to experience the wonderfulness of life.
twelve, my genes are too bad and I won’t get involved.
With the development of the Internet, we can see all kinds of handsome men and beautiful women without leaving home, even anytime and anywhere. Not only are they good-looking, but their body lines are also beautiful, and even homosexuals may drool when they see it. Look at yourself in the mirror and recall your achievements. Many people may have the idea that their genes are not good. Since I feel that my genes are poor, of course I will not want my descendants to appear in this world to serve as a foil for the best among humans.
thirteen, you may die if you have a child.
The advancement of modern medicine has actually greatly reduced the mortality rate of women with childbirth, but reducing it does not mean elimination. There are still a very small number of unfortunate women who have lost their lives during the childbirth process. Since there is this probability, it will have a certain psychological deterrence to women. After all, children can be denied, but they only have one life.
14, I am afraid that I will not be able to give my children a good life.
A good life should not only include material life, but also spiritual. Although material things are very basic and take up a large part of the matter, there is too much effort to give birth to a child. Ensure that life is rich, ensure sufficient companionship, and ensure good guidance and education. These points alone may discourage many people.
15, if you can’t raise a child well, he will harm society.
For some people who think about it for a long time and thoroughly, they may also think of this level. Although no one wants their children to become a disaster, some things do not change by human will. Children's education is a major and requires a lot of energy to be invested. Once the child accidentally goes astray, it may cause serious harm to society.
16, I don’t like children.
Some people may not like durian, just like some people do not like garlic, different human individuals have different preferences. So the question is, is there some people who just don’t like children? Of course there is! Although the reasons may be explored in depth, it is not ruled out that some people hate it without any reason. Who knows?
17, the figure will be distorted after giving birth.
Almost no one doesn't want a good shape. For women, body shape is as important as appearance. If the price of giving birth is the relaxation or sagging of certain key parts of the body, then naturally many women will choose to refuse to be harmed. After all, not having children will not commit crimes, it is just a personal preference and choice.
18, scars will be left after giving birth.
This should be relative to caesarean section. A complete skin is torn apart because of giving birth, which may be difficult for many women to accept. After all, everyone has to take a shower, and it is not ruled out that they will not wear clothes and look in the mirror after taking a shower.If you have a big scar on your body from now on, some people may hate the mirror and even hate themselves from now on.
19, may encounter workplace discrimination.
A job hunting may be asked when to have a child before giving birth, and it is difficult to ensure that your project or the opportunity to get promoted or study will be taken away during pregnancy and childbirth. If you are determined to not have children from the beginning, maybe you will be more competitive in the workplace? Workplace discrimination can be avoided to a certain extent.
Twenty, too weak to have a baby.
people have more than one hundred, all kinds of people, not only have different personalities, but also have uneven physical fitness. Not every woman has a healthy body that can withstand the torture of pregnancy and the pain of childbirth. If the body is really unable to tolerate childbirth for some reasons, then infertility may be the best choice.
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