Mothers who can take care of their children will let their children sleep well every minute, but mothers who can't take care of their children will let themselves collapse every minute. But it’s a pity that there are really many mothers who can’t take care of their children. Afte

The mother who will take care of the child will let the child sleep well every minute, but the mother who will not take care of the child will let herself collapse every minute. But it’s a pity that there are really many mothers who can’t take care of their children. After all, novices usually have no parenting experience, so it’s understandable that they can’t take care of their children.

Xiaozhu's baby is already more than one year old . The baby is also very healthy and feels very obedient, but there is one problem, that is, is difficult to coax and sleep . When it comes to sleep, Xiaozhu always needs to coax the baby for a long time before the baby can sleep peacefully.

And, after the baby falls asleep, if Xiaozhu does something, the baby will wake up quietly. If the baby sees the mother and finds that she wakes up, he will smile and run to the side, just like playing hide-and-seek and being discovered by the mother. Xiaozhu was really helpless about this situation and didn't know how to coax her to sleep well.

Xiaozhu's friend Yanyan is more helpless than Xiaozhu. It is difficult for her child to coax her child to sleep. Yanyan, as a novice mother, is not as good-tempered as Xiaozhu. After coaxing her child for a long time, her temper will rise and she starts to yell at the child . Compared to coaxing children, yelling at them seems to be more effective.

Although the child will cry after being yelled by the mother, he will go to bed immediately, so Yanyan often uses the method of yelling at the child to make the child fall asleep.

Incorrect sleep guidance will prevent the baby from getting high-quality sleep

Xiaozhu's ineffective coaxing sleep and the Yanyan's roaring sleep are actually bad for the baby's sleep.

The wrong coaxing to sleep is not effective, and it is not useful

Xiaozhu is a novice mother, and he uses the traditional coaxing method taught by her mother-in-law to coax her children. This method is nothing more than patting and hugging. When the baby is not sleepy very strong, it is very likely that the baby will not be able to fall asleep quickly .

And because the baby is "interested" at this time, he may play some "games" with his mother, such as pretending to sleep, secretly observing his mother's behavior, playing "hide and seek" games with his mother, or sometimes the baby is coaxed to sleep, but when the mother moves a little, the baby's light sleep state is interrupted, and he will mistakenly think that the mother is going to play with him again, so he gets up and "interacts" with his mother.

Generally speaking, uses the wrong method when coaxing to sleep , which will make the baby "spirited" when it is time to sleep, thereby delaying the baby's sleep time and duration, and interfering with the baby's sleep quality.

You should know that sleep is very important for babies, because this stage of the baby is the time to grow the body, and the secretion of auxin is mainly concentrated when the baby is sleeping. Poor sleep in will directly affect the baby's physical development.

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Compared with Xiaozhu's baby, the beautiful baby is more negatively affected. Xiaozhu's ineffective coaxing to sleep will reduce the baby's sleep quality and sleep time, but Yanyan's roaring sleep will bring some psychological pressure or even obstacles to the baby.

You should know that a sense of security is very important for the baby's growth, and mothers are the main source of baby's sense of security. If mothers often yell at the child, the baby will lose a lot of sense of security, which is very unfavorable for the baby's growth.

In addition, the incident of yelling at the child also happened before going to bed. Although the child was yelled to sleep, the psychological pressure from the mother still exists. The baby may experience unstable sleep, waking up at night, etc., which seriously interferes with the baby's sleep quality, and sometimes the baby will cry and wake up, etc.

Therefore, this method of sleeping is not only not beneficial to the baby's physical development, but also seriously damages the baby's psychological environment. greatly affects the baby's healthy growth.

How to make your baby fall asleep peacefully? One word: "Pretend"

Xiaozhu spent a long time coaxing the child to sleep, which made him exhausted. After all, every day when he went to bed, he had to "fight wits and courage" with his baby for an hour. It was really tiring. As a result, Xiaozhu accidentally fell asleep once.

However, Xiaozhu woke up soon. Although his physical fatigue made Xiaozhu fall asleep, his sense of responsibility as a mother woke Xiaozhu from his deep sleep.

When Xiaozhu woke up, he looked at the baby's condition immediately. As a result, he found that he did not coax the child this time, but the child slept very soundly, which made Xiaozhu very confused. Could it be that sleeping alone will affect the child's sleep?

So, when I was sleeping the next day, Xiaozhu just simply coaxed the baby. Seeing that the baby was still having difficulty falling asleep as usual, Xiaozhu began to turn over and pretend to be asleep by herself.

At first, the baby was quite energetic and crawled beside the mother and wanted to play with her. However, when she saw that her mother was "sleeping", she slowly lay down and muttered for a while and fell asleep immediately. After hearing the baby's stable breathing, Xiaozhu was surprised to find this technique: Mother pretended to be asleep, and the baby would naturally sleep with .

And, babies who sleep in this way are generally not easily awakened by the mother's movements such as turning over and getting up. The baby has a stronger sense of security, a better quality of sleep and a deeper degree of sleep.

This situation occurs mainly because of three reasons:

First, Mothers sleep first will give the baby a more down-to-earth mental state and a more secure sense of security, because the sleeping mother will not quietly walk away after she goes to bed.

Second, Without mothers to play with, the baby will feel bored and become sleepy, and then fall asleep.

Third, sleeping is "contagious", which will cause the baby to feel sleepy due to the mother's sleeping behavior. After

, Xiaozhu often uses this method to guide the baby to fall asleep, and as a result, there is another surprise waiting for Xiaozhu.

Because Xiaozhu often guides the baby to sleep at a fixed location, the baby's sleep has formed a regular pattern. After that, when it comes to sleep time, even if Xiaozhu does not guide the baby to sleep specifically, the baby will feel sleepy and sleep independently. This is actually the development of good sleeping habits.

Write at the end

On the road of parenting, don’t worry and don’t panic when encountering problems. In fact, some problems can be solved by using a very simple and labor-saving method, but mothers need to discover, implement and persist.

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