Summary: When parents are not around, do your child have enough sense of prevention when facing adults who may have bad intentions?
Some time ago, a news story about "Dad washes his 2-year-old daughter and is 'scary' by her daughter" attracted the attention of netizens. When the father in the news was about to help his daughter take off her clothes and wash up, the girl suddenly cried and shouted "rogue".
Later, my mother came over to explain that it was in the afternoon when she accompanied her daughter to read children's books, and she recognized the body parts, and told her that boys were different from girls and that boys should not be allowed to touch her body. As a result, the baby remembered it all at once. After dad learned about this, he also said that the sooner the daughter learns this knowledge, the better, and he will definitely pay more attention to it in the future.
As the first person in charge of children's education, parents can't be missing from their families' sex education. Sex education should not be hidden, and parents do not need to be embarrassed. They can educate them openly. The sooner you give your child sex education, the sooner you can prevent danger.
allows children to have the awareness of "body sovereignty"
allows children to have the awareness of "body sovereignty"
allows children to have the awareness of "body sovereignty" html. Parents should respect their children's "body sovereignty" from early childhood and tell them: normal physical contact should be voluntary. When you want to interact with your child intimately but he disagrees, remember to tell him in time: If you don’t want to, I won’t touch you. This is your right.
draws a "love circle" for children
Many "bad people" are mixed among normal people. When he (she) has a dark purpose in his heart approaching your child, he may have a gentle and kind smile on his face, and he may even be an acquaintance. Mom and dad can make a table for their children to draw out their children's "love circle".
Only people in the love circle, such as parents, grandparents and other important family members, are safe and can hug and approach the children, but no one else can do it.
If someone outside the "love circle" touches the child, be sure to let the child tell his parents as soon as possible.
Be the "the person you trust the most"
Some children dare not tell their parents after meeting "bad people", because they are uncertain whether their parents will unconditionally trust everything they say and stand by their side. Therefore, parents must tell their children from an early age: No matter what happens, they can tell their parents, and they will protect you.
. If any misfortune happens, parents will definitely feel sad, anxious, and angry, but at the same time, what should be done is to stay calm and minimize the damage.
Action Tips
Timely arranges children to the hospital for examination and treatment to ensure the safety of their children;
controls their emotions while comforting their children, providing them with sufficient support and sense of security;
communicates with their children patiently, remember not to blame, and fully understand the truth;
calls the police or asks the local sexual assault prevention and control center;
takes the children to receive comprehensive psychological counseling.
let us talk about sex education with our children with a calm and sincere attitude, and convey the correct knowledge in the way children accept, so that every child can grow up healthily and happily.