Adolescent,
Although it is a child who is constantly troubled,
is a child who moves from immature to maturity,
The pain parents must experience
We seem to find it difficult to understand:
Why a common suggestion, a look of incomprehension,
will instantly ignite the child's anger,
makes him hysterical.
In fact,
is not the child who deliberately wants to fight us,
but because their brains are experiencing war,
"reason" and "emotion" "You go back and forth,
is constantly in conflict
Since the problem has always existed, why should you compare adolescence to
"The end of the world" and "the beast"?
uses a positive attitude to scientifically understand adolescence, and the
problem will sooner or later be solved.
Adolescent children
The body has developed almost the same as adults,
but the mentality is still very naive.
No matter how cold they are on the surface,
installs us so much that we don’t need us,
parents are still their god,
family is still their safe harbor.
The child was disobedient when he was 5 years old,
We beat him, scold him, and threaten him,
He was quiet;
When he was 15 years old,
He was 100 times more rebellious than when he was a child,
At this time, it would be useless to beat him and scold him again.
Adolescent children desire uniqueness the most,
The most fear of becoming a copy of others.
The more parents are obsessed with proving to their children that they are right,
requires their children to do their own standards, and
The more children want to escape.
At this time,
might as well exit from the "high teacher".
treat yourself as your child's classmate
There are really many worries about adolescent children:
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The pressure of going to school, the recognition of
teachers, the recognition of
classmates, the strong willingness to grow up for self-cultivation
and the contradiction between insufficient self-management ability...
inferiority and anxiety follow, but no one tells you.
But please believe in the courage of children to face and deal with problems independently,
This is exactly the necessary stage for them to discover themselves,
to explore the road of life.
all day long,
wear clothes and picky,
don’t want to cut your hair...
under the appearance of a boy and a girl,
actually wraps the heart that wants to show their personality and pursue independence
primary school knowledge,
is easier for most children.
But after entering junior high school, the number of subjects of
increased and the difficulty increased, and
Many top students in primary school began to be confused.
plus body development,
different teaching modes for middle school teachers,
are confused about the future,
want to quickly adjust your rhythm,
has never been an easy thing.
Low-level parents lose their temper and reason;
High-level parents all know to cook more and talk less;
cooking more,
to provide sufficient nourishment for children's body and mind,
to speak less,
to keep silent and not talk about the big truth.
seems simple,
can effectively improve the relationship between parents and adolescent children
You can go to heaven or into the earth during adolescence,
can be a knife or a flower.
The behavior of parents,
determines whether the child will eventually hurt others or bloom with fragrance.
Patient parents,
will wait for the child;
confident parents,
will trust the child;
caring parents,
will be considerate of the child.
Understand and empathize with ,
is always the best answer to cope with puberty.
The debt owed in childhood,
Such as companionship, communication, character development,
is like inflammation. If
can be treated in time during puberty, most inflammations can disappear; if
are ignored,
inflammation can also turn into cancer.
It is difficult for children to be connected with happiness, health and happiness in their lives.
Finally, I want to give a passage I like very much to all parents who are worried and worried about their adolescent children:
"I love you
If there is a road ahead that I once fell beyond recognition
but you insist on going
I hope my way of loving you is not to hold you up, telling you that you can't go
But prepare the most durable shoes for you
prepare umbrella
tell you that the second intersection is very slippery
0 There is a thief in the fifth street
Go
When you come back, you have food at home”
"Like" , I hope to encourage you with all my parents.
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