Parents are not happy, how can children dare to be happy?
This is what the teacher said in the past when he was taking psychology courses, but I have never understood it. I agree that parents are not happy and children may be unhappy, but when it comes to , they dare not be happy, still doesn’t understand.
Until today, I really understood this sentence.
Because of the epidemic, my husband and I were cooking in the kitchen together. He said, do you know what I am anxious about sometimes? (My husband has a bad temper and sometimes he gets angry if he is uncontrolled) What am I asking? He said, look, we cook every meal at home on time and on time, and we will improve it if we have time, and we will see that our father will settle for meat and other things at home all day (my father-in-law still has a job in his hometown, so he won’t live with us).
I was shocked at that time. Unexpectedly, such a trivial matter was like a rock in his heart.
I comforted me, this is not your problem. Everyone has their own lifestyle. How good or bad he eats is up to him. Now his living conditions are so good, he can definitely afford it. On the one hand, eating reflects his attitude towards life. He is not the kind of person who loves life and enjoys life. Can you ask him to immerse himself in the joy of cooking and tasting delicious food every day? If you feel guilty because he doesn't eat delicious food, then there is really no need. If you don’t let him eat well, that is your unfilial piety as a child.
My silly husband, I still asked in confusion, then do you think, isn’t my problem really?
I can only answer again with affirmative answer, really not!
As a child, his first task is: to live a good life.
We can only accept parents, and our efforts can only be for children. Be a happy and wealthy child and set an example for your own children.
Only when you are happy can your children dare to be happy!
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