Author: Zhao Xiaoming Editor: Zhou Fang Yang Liyun
Xiao Ming Quotes
For a child, the worst thing is not the parents' strict demands on him, but the parents' neglect and indifference of him, and prohibiting the child from speaking, which is equivalent to forbidding the child to bet on his parents.
01 Lacan School - Adult Body Image
Understand the concept of body image to understand the way children's psychoanalysis work is carried out.
The most important way Lacan says is to treat a client or a mentally ill patient lies in to reconstruct his physical appearance .
For adult visitors, they may discuss with him the body, clothing , and body feeling . The purpose is to rebuild his body appearance.
02 Dordo - Children's Body Images
For children, Françoise Dordo's method is to draw.
She lets children re-reflect and project children's problems with body image functions through painting .
She believes that children need to communicate with others very early.
through the linguistic process. uses linguistic and symbolic methods to sublimate its own needs and requests .
Each sublimation makes the child further separate and moves to the adult world .
What does all of this mean?
03The role of parents is very important for children's growth
You can think from two perspectives that children need to grow up: On the one hand, must be separated from the mother, and then all this is achieved by obtaining language , which is Dordo's point of view.
On the other hand, a child needs a father to grow up, The father created an ideal image, and he recognized it according to this ideal image, and then formed his own various functions .
These are two essential links for a child in his psychological development and growth.
For a child, the worst thing is not the strict requirements of his parents for him, but the parents ignore and ignore of his , and prohibits children from talking , which means that prohibits children from betting on their parents .
In this case, since the child does not know which model and requirement to cultivate himself, his personality will be cultivated into, so that the child's function of the body image of will be lost, and it is possible that is in a state of incompetence .
Therefore, children cannot get a self-ideal .
04 Case parsing
After a case is used to illustrate all this.
Dordo once encountered a case of a ten-year-old child. The child drew three paintings, one of which painted two tanks, one without a cannon and the other without ammunition, presenting a representation of that cannot implement his body image .
The second painting is a boxer, but he has no hands, which is also a symbol of inaction.
The third picture is about two boxers, one of which is his good partner, but the friend was beaten by his father at home because he did something wrong.
So, Dordo asked the child, "Do you also want to be beaten by your father like a friend?" The child's answer was no, and the child said that wanted to be controlled by his father .
The current situation of this child is that his father rejects him, ignores him, is indifferent to him, and refuses him to make a sound to make a noise. The child's Libido is closed , and cannot truly implement the battle, and the body image cannot implement this function. Therefore, cannot grow up according to the father's requirements, because the father did not ask him for .
This is why The father's indifference and no requirement for his children is the more terrible . In this way, the child will not dream, his creativity is deprived, and he will not be able to implement his desires. The case of
well interprets the general meaning of body schema and body image that Dordo said is .
Xiao Ming Quotes
Children need to communicate with others very early. Through the process of linguistic. Sublimate your needs and requests through linguistic and symbolic ways. Each sublimation further separates the child and moves to the adult world.
Original public account: Heart Partner (ID: xhbeap)
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