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Jingjing is now 8 years old, but I still remember the scene when she was born very clearly.
Because the child was Caesarean section, I could feel the doctor cut my stomach with a knife, feel the doctor pressing my stomach, pulling the child out, and hearing the child's crying loudly, and feeling the belly relaxed.
After a while, I heard the doctor say "8 pounds" next to me. In a few seconds, a doctor held the child. pressed her butt on my face and asked me: Boy or girl ?
Because I am highly myopic, although I am very close to the child's butt, I still feel like I am looking at in the fog, so I was stunned. The doctor pressed the child's butt closer to the child and asked me: Boy or girl?
At this time, I saw the child's butt and replied to the girl in a conditioned manner. The doctor took the child away because I had a caesarean section. Although I was lying down and still couldn't move, the doctor was still hemostatic stitching on my belly, busy!
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At that time, I felt very strange, Why did the doctor show me the child's butt instead of showing me the child's face? You should know that under normal circumstances, we recognize people as faces!
There was a classmate of a relative in the hospital where I was staying at that time. I also asked the doctor why after giving birth, the doctor showed me the child's butt rather than the face?
At that time, this relative's classmate smiled and said to me: Have you ever noticed that the child has an bracelet on his hands? I said yes, aren't this all hospitalized children?
Doctor smiled and said that it was mainly because he was afraid of admitting the wrong child. You should know that The facial features of a newborn child all look similar . If you didn’t wear this bracelet on your hand, it would be easy to get confused if you took a shower with your child!
So you can't tell anything about your child's face, but if you show your child's butt, at least you can still know whether you have a boy or a girl.
After all, many people still pay attention to whether they have a boy or a girl after giving birth.
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Because he knew someone, he also told us that 19 years ago, favored boys over girls and was very serious, and family planning was strict, so many mothers were very concerned about whether it was a boy or a girl at that time.
In order to avoid disputes later, doctors and nurses will also clearly show the mother whether they are giving birth to a boy or a girl. After all, only the mother is giving birth to a child in the delivery room!
Because some mothers secretly took B-ultrasound when they were pregnant, the ultrasound doctor swears to her that she was pregnant with a boy, but the girl was born. If she didn't show her, she might start to quarrel when she came out of the ward, yelling that it was the doctor who replaced her child!
It turns out that when the child was just born, he showed his butt instead of his face, and there was such a thing. This made me realize that once when the child was taking a shower, I stood outside the bath pool to watch. It was true that the child went down to take a shower naked together. I really didn’t know which child was, and when I was putting on the clothes at the end, I had to look at the bracelet on the child’s hand.
Three days before the birth of a newborn, parents must pay attention to these things
item 1: Try to drink breast milk
If the child can drink breast milk in the first mouthful at birth, it will be beneficial to the digestion of the child's intestinal tract, and can also avoid allergies in the child, and it can also improve the child's immunity .
So after the child is born, let the child get close to the mother as much as possible and then breastfeed.
I had a caesarean section at that time, and many people think that did not have breast milk after . In fact, I had breast milk for my child not long after giving birth, and I didn’t give it to my child at that time.
Part 2: Pay attention to insulation
I remember that our child was sent to the insulated box for two hours when he was born, so you must pay attention to insulation when the child is just born.
If you are born in winter, it is best to turn on the heating at home. If you are born in summer, don’t let the child blow the wind, because when the child is born, his body temperature regulation ability is relatively weak, and If you are blowing the child in air at this time, it will easily hurt the child.
item 3: Pay attention to the child's jaundice
If the child appears jaundice on the first day of birth, it is only possible that pathological jaundice , but if the child appears three days after birth, but he can eat, drink, sleep and play, it is generally physiological jaundice .
As long as you pay attention to giving your child more eating, drinking, pulling, and engaging , then it will generally disappear by itself.
The newborn is relatively weak when born, so parents must take care of it carefully.
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