Text/Jinshanyue
"Confucius Collection of Words·Yizhe" says: "The rise of humanity must be done by couples."
family is like a landscape painting. The father is a towering mountain, and the mother is a endless river. My father uses the character of the mountains to support a world; my mother uses the delicate water to make life lively and fragrant.
The father's pattern and mother's emotions determine the future of children and the prosperity of the family.
The overall pattern of father determines the height of a family
British psychologist Elf said: "The father has a huge impact on the child, and will seep into the child's blood bit by bit and embed into the child's soul."
The father's love for his son is taught to be righteous. Fathers are the benchmark on the road to growth of children. The father’s love for children is to tell children what the right way is. Children's exploration of the boundaries of life depends on their father's vision and pattern. In the novel " Kill a Mockingbird ", the protagonist Atticus is a white lawyer and a father. He took time to accompany his children as much as possible, gave them respect and taught them to read and learn to be wise.
One day, the town of black man Tom was framed and was about to be imprisoned. In that era when racial discrimination was prevalent, no white lawyer was willing to take the risk of defending him. Atticus stood up when Tom was most difficult and helpless.
Because of this incident, residents in the town mocked him. The neighbor's wife even said in front of the two children that their father was embarrassing the white man. Hearing that others insulted their father like this, Atticus's son couldn't control his anger and broke all the flowers in his neighbor's house.
Adix did not blame the child, but said gently: "Don't care too much, show your gentlemanly demeanor." After , he asked his son to apologize to his neighbor.
Even though these things put Atticus in a huge dilemma, he did not give up his integrity as a lawyer and insisted on defending Tom. No matter what the result is, he tells the children with practical actions that a mob is not necessarily correct, and what a person cannot lose is his conscience.
educator Ning Shiyi once said: "For the development of the family, the father's pattern will have a very important impact." The father's vision and pattern are the character of the family mountain, and the power of the children all come from this character. The so-called pattern is not strength or wealth, but the quality of being a human being.
Father is the guide for children to the outside world. If a father has a noble quality, the child will naturally have a pure texture; if a father has a far-sighted vision, the child will have a bright future.
My father used his insight and wisdom to measure the future of a family.
The good mood of a mother determines the temperature of a family
There is a saying: to see one person knows his family, and to see one mother knows the virtues of a son.
The personality and morality of children can be seen from their mothers. A gentle and optimistic mother will always surprise you in the ordinary life. No matter what we experience, we can be cured by the fireworks at home.
Just as the writer Liang Xiaosheng said: "Mother's love is great, this greatness is in the small things in life; maternal love is sincere, this sincerity is in the slightest reminder."
Liang Xiaosheng once told the story of childhood and his mother in the novel "Mother".
On winter nights, my mother put him and his brothers and sisters on a warm kang, doing needlework and talking about homework. Suddenly, the mother formed a villain book like a magic trick. The children snatched it to read it, and the mother went to bake a few sweet potatoes and wash the cotton coat.
In Liang Xiaosheng's writing, his mother can be said to be "magnificent in power". The earthy house at home is like a cellar, but under the care of my mother, the windows are bright and clean, warm and comfortable. When I can’t eat, my mother will climb onto the tree and pick up the elm seeds with agility, and then make the elm seeds into steamed cakes , small tofu, and batter soup. It is delicious and has a fragrance on her lips and teeth.
The tenderness of my mother is like sowing a generous seed in her heart. No matter what happens, she will be calm, not anxious, not complain, and be open-minded and relieved.
Until many years later, Liang Xiaosheng still said with emotion: "In every lonely day, I miss my mother, deeply."
The older generation often said that children are like crops in the field, growing when they see the wind. In fact, the wind is never outside, but the smell comes from my mother's heart.
The real educational power of a mother lies in the softness of her emotions.
"Mother is the soul of a family." Mother's emotions determine the atmosphere of the family. If a mother does not want her child to be sensitive and inferior, she cannot let herself be unstable; if she wants her child to be optimistic and confident, she must be optimistic and confident first. Only with a gentle mother can children give their children a relaxed and happy family environment.
The best family education is inseparable from mother; and the best education for mothers is inseparable from stable emotions.
Eastern Jin celebrities Xie An said: "The best family education is that parents should be the best self." A warm family cannot be separated from the strong support of their father and the considerate mother.
The father is determined and strong, and the mother is gentle as water. The fortune of a family must be smooth and smooth. The father will not exaggerate himself too much, nor will he deliberately hide his shortcomings, but will calmly use his actions to give the best demonstration of his children; the mother will not affect her emotions because of small things, and try to speak calmly when encountering problems, rather than lose her temper at the top of her lungs.
"If the father is the sun in the family, and the light shines to guide people, then the mother is the moon, and the clear light shines everywhere to soothe people's hearts." The father is a good guide and the mother holds up the back, which can bring infinite happiness and hope to the family.
Anchor: Xuemei
News broadcast host of Dazhou Radio and Television Station, Sichuan Province
Wish to add a touch of warmth and sunshine to the world with a warm voice
Article source: Insight (ID: DJ00123987)
Author: Insight·Jinshanyue, not every view can be called Insight.
Produced by: People's Livelihood Weekly (ID: msweekly) New Media Editorial Department
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Until many years later, Liang Xiaosheng still said with emotion: "In every lonely day, I miss my mother, deeply."
The older generation often said that children are like crops in the field, growing when they see the wind. In fact, the wind is never outside, but the smell comes from my mother's heart.
The real educational power of a mother lies in the softness of her emotions.
"Mother is the soul of a family." Mother's emotions determine the atmosphere of the family. If a mother does not want her child to be sensitive and inferior, she cannot let herself be unstable; if she wants her child to be optimistic and confident, she must be optimistic and confident first. Only with a gentle mother can children give their children a relaxed and happy family environment.
The best family education is inseparable from mother; and the best education for mothers is inseparable from stable emotions.
Eastern Jin celebrities Xie An said: "The best family education is that parents should be the best self." A warm family cannot be separated from the strong support of their father and the considerate mother.
The father is determined and strong, and the mother is gentle as water. The fortune of a family must be smooth and smooth. The father will not exaggerate himself too much, nor will he deliberately hide his shortcomings, but will calmly use his actions to give the best demonstration of his children; the mother will not affect her emotions because of small things, and try to speak calmly when encountering problems, rather than lose her temper at the top of her lungs.
"If the father is the sun in the family, and the light shines to guide people, then the mother is the moon, and the clear light shines everywhere to soothe people's hearts." The father is a good guide and the mother holds up the back, which can bring infinite happiness and hope to the family.
Anchor: Xuemei
News broadcast host of Dazhou Radio and Television Station, Sichuan Province
Wish to add a touch of warmth and sunshine to the world with a warm voice
Article source: Insight (ID: DJ00123987)
Author: Insight·Jinshanyue, not every view can be called Insight.
Produced by: People's Livelihood Weekly (ID: msweekly) New Media Editorial Department
"People's Famous Products"
Understand different "people's" domestic products and create extraordinary "famous products" for people's livelihood.
" People's Livelihood Weekly "
The only news weekly in charge of the People's Daily is China's only news weekly that focuses on people's livelihood.
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