When children lose their childishness and grow up gradually, in addition to learning, physical development is also an important issue that many parents pay attention to.
Research shows that , 9~12 years old is the stage when children enter puberty. During this period, children will develop rapidly in physical, social and emotional aspects. has obvious changes in physical characteristics compared to girls’ adolescence, but it is difficult for boys’ mothers to detect their son’s body, and it is actually changing quietly.
I remember one day during the summer vacation, I took my son to see the children's growth department, and the son's friends and the child's mother were also here. On the way, the mother expressed her confusion: The child is just in the fifth grade and looks like a little kid. Will he develop?
Actually, I was also confused. I decided to look for a doctor because of the reminder from my friend of a past person.
However, after coming out of the doctor's office, the mother was glad that she had sought medical treatment in time: according to the doctor's diagnosis, her son had just started to develop!
Parents can promptly grasp the development of their children, so as to effectively help their children adjust from various aspects such as diet and life, and then "reserve height" for their children .
Boys are puberty, dad please go to the front
Boys enter puberty, and their physical characteristics begin with the changes in testicular wan.
I still remember that when the doctor asked the child to take off his pants for examination, the children looked at each other, and as parents, we were also surprised. The doctor then took out a string of wooden beads to explain to us:
Since the boy's private parts are not often displayed to his parents, many parents waited for the boy to change their voice to realize that the child had developed. At this time, it was actually too late.
This requires us as parents to actively pay attention to the changes in the boy's physical condition. , especially fathers. . When boys are adolescence, should not only observe the changes in the boy's physical condition , but also should also do a good job in psychological construction for boys to avoid becoming panic when facing their physical changes.
Generally speaking, boys start on average from the sixth grade of elementary school to the first grade of junior high school, and will mainly go through three stages of html .
The first sign of development is that the testicle wan begins to grow bigger. Parents who are worried can take their children to the children's growth department and let the doctor do professional evaluation; when a boy enters puberty, his The second change is that the yin jing will double; and in the third stage, the boy will also have his own "menorrhea" - ejaculation jing.
Many boys know nothing about their first semen, and emergencies will make the boy panic. Therefore, dad wants to find the right time to talk to the boy about the physical changes he will experience. In order to avoid embarrassment, dad can share his adolescence experience, such as:
·When I was as old as you, I thought my body...
·At that time, I was most worried about my body...
·My first time, sperm was...
·I remember that my thoughts about girls at that time were...
·I thought that sex was...
·I thought at that time...
Dad's preaching, while popularizing relevant knowledge to boys, will also dispel the boy's psychological concerns and let the boy make it clear: this is just a normal phenomenon.
develops early and develops late. Removes the boy's mental burden
After I got back from the hospital, I found that my son was concerned about the "development" of .He would discuss with me from time to time: Mom, who is in our school, who is over 160 yuan in size, is he developing? After saying that, he said to himself with some concern: I don’t want to develop in advance!
Although most boys start to enter puberty in their teenage years, a small number of boys start earlier and a small number of boys start later.
Whether it is early development or late development, for boys, there is psychological stress . Boys who develop early will be ridiculed by their classmates because they are too tall, while boys who develop late will be ridiculed by their out of place "childishness".
Relatively speaking, boys who develop early will have less trouble because of their physical advantages and good athletic ability. They often play the leading role in the boy group. Boys who develop late seem to be more embarrassed.
For this, parents must let their children know: Everyone will enter puberty, but the beginning time is different.
In addition, boys who develop early, late, or normally develop will be troubled by rapid changes in their bodies. The idea of "Is I normal?" causes them to spend more time wearing clothes in front of the mirror, or tidy up their hair and face, and are very worried about whether their height, yin size, etc. are too developed or underdeveloped.
What parents need to do is to comfort boys frequently and let them stabilize their mentality. In fact, everyone's developmental rhythm develops according to their individual characteristics, genetic factors, etc., so there is no need to worry or panic.
Boys also need to understand the changes in girls' physical
I don't know if parents have had the same experience as me: In our adolescence, boys are full of interest in girls' physical changes, but pretend to be contempt.
I still remember when I was in junior high school, during the morning self-study period, a naughty boy suddenly greeted the male classmate in the class with a mysterious greeting. I saw a "slam" and almost all the male students in the class "came out", lying on the balcony on the third floor, looking down, laughing while watching, and making strange "sheep" sounds from time to time.
At that time, as a class representative, I had just returned from the office after handing in my homework. Looking down along the boy's sight, I immediately understood the reason: a female classmate in the class accidentally fell from her trouser pocket and she was walking out of the bathroom.
This is the source of the boys' fuss.
The whole day afterwards, the boys whispered in groups, and even rumors about pregnancy were rumored. Now that I think about it, it’s ridiculous.
This can help boys prepare for the future respect for the opposite sex. For this work, mothers need to assist in completing it.
If in life, a boy accidentally discovers the fact that his mother "bleeds" every month, please do not avoid it, and do not evade the boy. Tell the boy the truth in a normal tone. By the way, you can also teach the boy: at this moment, it will be a great behavior to help the mother bring a cup of hot water.
Adolescence is like a pre-set alarm clock that looks like it rings suddenly, but it will definitely happen in fact. Welcome the boy's adolescence. Parents are prepared to avoid panic when encountering things, accompany and guide the boy to spend a special period of his youth in a steady manner.
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