Maybe I finally realized that I was not fat, so the word "weight loss" has not appeared in my dictionary for several years. When I was losing weight, I liked it very much that I said that there was a weight scale at my doorstep and I stood up again and again. My mood every day wa

Maybe I finally realized that I was not fat, so the word "weight loss" has not appeared in my dictionary for several years.

When I lost weight, I liked it very much. There was a weight scale at the door of my house and I stood up again and again. My mood every day was inversely proportional to the floating of the numbers on the scale. Now that I don’t care about my weight, I won’t deliberately weigh it all year round.

Last week my son fell ill and was with him for an injection in the hospital, and he passed by himself.

weighs 5 kilograms in two days. More effective than any weight loss method.

This time my son got sick this time. He was so sick that he was so sick. He felt uncomfortable all night and couldn't sleep well, so I stayed there for two nights.

This feeling is exactly the same as taking care of a sick daughter before.

Usually, the siblings are very lively. When I was quarreling alone, I disliked them for being pissed off. Now, watching my son keep humming "discomfortable" and "discomfortable", listless, unable to eat or sleep, I feel anxious and distressed.

is better to make a fuss.

Pick up the moxibustion that I haven't used for a long time, and read through the study materials I used to massage my daughter and prepare to give her son a try.

This is the first time I have made these for my son.

Suddenly I felt that I owe my son a lot because he was the second child. When I gave birth to him, my joy and emotion were much weakened, and my patience and energy could not be compared with my first child.

Also, my daughter suffered from rhinitis and pharyngitis after going to kindergarten. For two years, I needed to pay special attention to my diet and daily life and take care of it carefully. It can be said that most of my attention has been on my daughter.

plus the personality of the siblings, my daughter is far more than my son when I bothered me. In the long run, my son really grew up "by the way" while I was carefully caring for my daughter.

I was watching his face while giving him moxibustion.

The child is sick and the most uncomfortable thing is his mother, and he wishes that all the pain will be transferred to him.

can't remember how many times they took care of them when they were sick like this.

Suddenly remembered when I was pregnant with my son, my mother said: It’s good to have another one, two people have a companion together. I worked hard a few years ago, and it’s good to wait until I can walk in my stomach.

But I know that my concern for them will always be there, and I will not reduce it by the increase of their age.

has survived the infancy, hoping that they will go to school, and now they are worried about their homework, and in the future they will worry about their adolescence, love, work, and life choices.

Just like one of my classmates, I found a summer worker at an Internet cafe downstairs at home during the summer vacation of college. That month, his father held a quilt and a pillow and stayed with her in the Internet cafe for a month. Even though the Internet cafe was less than 100 meters away from her house, even when she was black, fat and had acne on her face at that time.

This is the mentality of being a parent.

I believe each of us has heard similar words. It will be fine when we graduate from college, get married and have children, wait until the children grow up, wait until we retire...

We always say "just wait, wait, let's wait", sometimes to comfort others, and sometimes to be at peace with ourselves.

But in fact, this is the biggest scam in life. Just nothing is "how". Once and for all things will never happen.

The so-called bitter first and sweet then does not exist, because there is no absolute "bitter" and "sweet". Bitter and sweetness appear more often together.

We often complain when is this day? But on the one hand, we are afraid of "end of the end", because as long as we are alive, nothing will end.

Life is about worries superimposed on worries, surprises collide with surprises, and the ups and downs are intertwined.

You will find that every stage of life has pain and joy, and the end is only at the moment when life disappears.

When we were studying, we hated the heavy study and looked forward to working.

After entering society, I have experienced the cruelty of society, the exploitation of the boss, the intrigue of colleagues, and missed the simple years of school.

We are too lonely when we are alone and urgently need to find our partner and support each other.

After we have a partner, after a long time, we find that we can't stand the other person's bad habits.

After getting married, I want a child, participate in his growth and witness his life.

Having a child is a lifelong ties.

No life state seems to be completely satisfied with us.

We always put our hopes in the future with relief, and always comfort ourselves with what has not happened. But how ridiculous this is. If you can’t do anything well at the moment, why do you think it will be good in the future?

Don’t look too far. Living every day in the present is the most important thing, because you will be decided by countless today in the future.

We can only live up to every day and live a fulfilling and hard work, so that when facing choices in the future, we can follow our hearts and grasp the right to choose actively, rather than being forced to bear the burden of life.

What you are dying is hope and the hope of life.

"Frying" and "boiling" are not just a painful process, but also a way to become delicious.