In the past few days, Mr. Lu of Nanjing bullied his child and had a conflict with his parents and was detained.
The cause of this incident was that Mr. Lu’s child was bullied by Ms. Tang’s child in kindergarten many times. Recently, Mr. Lu's child was bullied by Ms. Tang's child in kindergarten and suffered a severe head injury. It is very dangerous to carefully look at the seriously injured part from the picture. This is the first phase of the matter.
At this stage, Ms. Tang's family did not effectively discipline their children, nor did they make timely apologize and communicate with Mr. Lu's child when he was injured. I made a gesture of loving us, which caused the accumulation of contradictions.
This time Ms. Tang’s child was fearless in the kindergarten, which almost caused a disaster. Fortunately, Mr. Lu's child did not hurt the vital parts. If the child caused serious consequences, Ms. Tang's family might lose everything and she would never be able to live in this life.
At the same time, this kindergarten has to bear most of the responsibility during this incident. Parents send their children to kindergartens to school, and kindergartens should bear the main responsibility for their children's safety during school.
As a result, this kindergarten not only did not protect the safety of Mr. Lu's children, but also did not deal with problems in a timely manner after the incident happened and resolve conflicts. Such kindergartens are only responsible for collecting money and don’t worry about a penny. Such kindergartens should be closed immediately for rectification.
Stage 2, Mr. Lu went to Ms. Tang’s house to ask for an explanation because of verbal conflicts. Mr. Lu tied up Ms. Tang's children, and Ms. Tang's family snatched a stool and smashed Mr. Lu, causing Ms. Tang's family to be injured. Mr. Lu was also detained by the police. The most pitiful thing is Mr. Lu's mother and wife kneel down for Mr. Lu. Such things are absolutely unacceptable emotionally.
Afterwards, Ms. Tang’s home made a video and posted the matter on the Internet because of surveillance, which caused a major public opinion.
From this incident, we can see that Ms. Tang is definitely a bad person with bad intentions. Ms. Tang knew that her child had hurt other people's children in kindergarten many times, so why didn't she make a video and post it to the Internet to apologize and not rule out the conflict between the two parties in a timely manner? Do not do to others what you have not given me. Ms. Tang complained first, and wanted to make the matter big. As a result, Ms. Tang made things big but couldn't stop the scene. Mr. Lu also paid the price for his reckless behavior. The two families live in the same community and will meet again in the future.
From this matter, we can summarize the biggest lesson: stay away from bad people, protect your legitimate rights and interests in accordance with the law, and avoid letting bad people consume themselves. Ms. Tang’s child beat Mr. Lu’s child in kindergarten many times, so Mr. Lu should call the police and apply for civil compensation. Let the police come to the kindergarten to argue, and let Ms. Tang and her family take the responsibility they should bear. If you don’t take measures, people will think you are weak.
The current society is a legal society, and many things cannot be solved by reasoning. Only the law can be spoken and the other party will bear the responsibility. Otherwise, the victim will become a real "victim". To deal with bad people, either use the law to speak, or stop losses in time and stay away from bad people.
Through this incident, I remembered the story of Meng Mu's three migrations. I used to think that it was a bit of a big hit in . As I grew older, I finally understood the great wisdom of Meng Mu's three migrations. It is different to live in what kind of community, school, friends, and work in what kind of unit. When we cannot change the environment, we can only change ourselves.
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