In most family relationships, fathers usually play the role of bystanders. In fact, in family education, the role of fathers is very important. Often, it is not the child or the father who needs education.
Being a father who can play
Playing is the nature of a child. Putting down the father's airs, exerting male creativity, leaving behind other troubles, and concentrating on accompanying the child to play crazy together, not only can establish an intimate parent-child relationship, but also helps stimulate children's enthusiasm.
Be a learning father
blindly asks children to love learning, never hold up books, and invisibly becomes a typical "bad role model". It is better to study with children and create a good learning atmosphere for them.
Be a stoic father
Father is the first role model for children. Your tenacity, tenacity and sense of responsibility will be the best textbook.
Be a squatted father
You should establish an intimate, equal and constructive parent-child relationship with your children. The children deserve our respect, and they are also personal.
Be an understanding father.
After the child enters the rebellious period, he will unconsciously sing a contradictory tune with the adults. In the family, fathers need to be patient and explain, and tell their children what to do with the understanding of men.
Being a modest father
It is better to squat down and communicate with your children on an equal footing. Don’t think that your children’s ideas are naive and you don’t know anything. In fact, they also have their own ideas. Be a supporting role for your children and play an auxiliary role, so that your children can fully utilize their imagination and hands-on ability.
Be a reasonable father
Never do anything during the education process, you can move with emotion and reason with reason.
Make a "no absent" father
The child's birthday, parent-teacher meeting, festival performance, competition, etc., Dad should not be absent. Even if you are silently a viewer, it is of great significance to the child. It is a moment that allows him to feel his father's care, attention and security.